Double WHAMMY I got 2 GFs Pregnant

[JediSkull]

sighz........ dilemma.....

Here's my story:
both are china chinese...... one rich one poor. Told some bros about my problem.

One is a Temasek Poly Grad. (Rich girl from szechuan, tall and pretty was working for awhile till she got pregnant and went back told her parents!) When I bought clearblue and she tested pregnant in Singapore, she asked me "zen me ban?". I told her "bu zhi dao.) she take water bottle and hit me.......... then I had to reason to her that this is not ONLY MY PROBLEM BUT ITS OUR PROBLEM. Then she calm down abit....... Her father is a banker(dunno which farmer bank!) and mother is a doctor. Mum knows I'm currently a full time student and offerred to pay for the wedding that would be held in China. Keeps pressuring me to go hold the wedding.........


Another WAS applying for NYP (got to know her from my fellow china schoolmates!) Very caring girl, goes out with me always take food and feed me...... makes me feel good. (petite SYT from Henan was applying for design course in NYP, was waiting for placement till she got pregnant and I told her to go back n wait for my news) A few weeks ago, she smsed me that she dreamt I was talking to friends about having 2 GFs and DUNNO WHICH ONE TO CHOOSE! And when she called out to me..... I ignored her.... Which made her very very sad. She asked if what she dreamt is TRUE?!?! It was impossible that she knew I had 2 GFs......(now I really bliff that girls' sixth sense can be so eerily ZHUN!)
her mum recently also talked to me, tell me not to abandon her daughter becoz her family members are poor farmers! Never ask money from me, juz say if possible come to village to hold wedding. Her mother like tat talk to me on the phone, really makes my heart soften alot.......

I calculated and knows it wun cost much (estimate less than SGD10k) Houses cost about SGD50-60k (in the suburbs)...... But looking at the bloody downturn in the US economy, I'm thinking property prices in China's gonna plunge even further........ Its really not a good time to buy a house for my gf....but seems like a necessity as I understand that the village is a comfortable place for my gf's current condition.

Both 3months+ Pregnant liao!!! Both call me everyday asking me when I going China! I think I am going nuts liao lar............ I really no heart to ask my young SYTs to go abort!!!

Low Sex Drive ever since I know both were pregnant...... And yes both pregnant ARE MY KIDS(they'r not WLs nor FLs.)

Most frens ask me to abandon both or choose one....... but I still cannot decide and time is running out!!!!

(PS: I dun think I wan my kids to be commy bastards!!! OMG!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO SIA?!?!)

[ahbengsony]

Well, bro . i do not know how to classified you. by letting two go makes you a bastard. but knowing prc girls..... i take it with a pinch of salt. end of the day, did u really cum inside or not ? u know very well yrself. explain to the girls respectively you are not ready to be a papa now. Cos u r still schooling but responsibilty is imperative. i never encourage abortions cos the kid is innocent....

three ways from my own view

1) be a bastard and 'vanish' from the thin air
2) tell the girls frankly the whole things and see their opinions .
3) u be responsible from now till the kids are born and give them up to those couple who are childless. At least , u know the kids are given a chance to see daylight and to see AMERICANO porns when they grow up ( joking) and you would be pleased that you did not kill them by abortion. I regret very very very deeply of one mistake i have made in the past.Again, i do not know your age ( mature boh ? ) salary scale ( able to afford ) .

But i sincerely hope that dont put abortion as your first choice !

Good Luck.

[block11]

hmmm... you did raw with both? no precautions? haizzz

i think you should be responsible to both girls and tell them the truth. whatever happens, your conscience will be clear

[mebirdie]

If you cannot decide, why not make it 3 Pregnant.
2 months liao, you still have not make a decision.

As spoken, there is no perfect solution but you have to choose 1 that benefit you most. Regret short term rather than regret entire life. You should know that no matter what you do, not everybody will be happy. BUT never never pay a visit to China. Else you will probably vanish from the world.

Waste our bloody time.

[Highjoys]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

If you cannot decide, why not make it 3 Pregnant.
2 months liao, you still have not make a decision.

As spoken, there is no perfect solution but you have to choose 1 that benefit you most. Regret short term rather than regret entire life. You should know that no matter what you do, not everybody will be happy. BUT never never pay a visit to China. Else you will probably vanish from the world.

Waste our bloody time.

ANswer Singapore Govt 's call!!!! Make more Babies!!!! I think it is Siao !!! Even if I got straight flush (Tong Hua Shun) in playing cards, it is even better than having a straight flush in getting a row of gals pregnant... only need money to pay no money to win

[Xgenre]

Please be a man and decide fast. There is only a certain window if abortion is chosen. If it's too late, it's very risky to abort. You may not want to marry either of them but please don't do anything that will kill them.

I wonder if it's possible for us to marry both and not register any of the weddings in singapore. At least this way, both ladies get a 'husband'. Not sure if it's illegal though. If u hold 2 customary weddings. U probably can't put your name as the father in the child's birth cert.

[mebirdie]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

U probably can't put your name as the father in the child's birth cert.

Putting name as father is alright in Singapore.
You only cannot have 2 wives at a time.

[aczeta76]

If u dun register your marriage, ur kids will have no Hu Kou (citizen papers) in China and it would be tough for them to go to school etc.

Dun be such a jerk and disappear. I have no comments since it is your life and it is too late to abort too without severe health issues to the mummies.

"Kudos" for destroying 4 lives directly and hurting many more... I hope u sleep well at nite.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by JediSkull

.....Mum knows I'm currently a full time student and offerred to pay for the wedding that would be held in China..........

I calculated and knows it wun cost much (estimate less than SGD10k) Houses cost about SGD50-60k (in the suburbs)...... But looking at the bloody downturn in the US economy, I'm thinking property prices in China's gonna plunge even further........ Its really not a good time to buy a house for my gf....but seems like a necessity as I understand that the village is a comfortable place for my gf's current condition.

Wah, nowadays full time student also very rich it seems.

For most people, falling in love with a WL already bad enough, for you two-timing a couple of non-WL students is worse. And to top it off, getting both of them pregnant.... I have no sympathies for you.

Abortion is murder. Don't even think about this.

[colins]

Congrats bro jediskull! So fast becoming father and of 2 children at the same time. To escape, to marry, both equally bad decisions. But if you choose either one, tell the other as early as possible so she can take the necessary action. One day, you will be haunted by your decision, but until that day, all you can do now is to save your skin.

As one joke goes, choose the one with the biggest boobs! Only that it sounds truly as stupid as measuring them by their riches.

But there's one way to save you, and listen carefully. Come clean with both of them, see who can accept you.

[juzplay]

Originally Posted by colins

As one joke goes, choose the one with the biggest boobs! Only that it sounds truly as stupid as measuring them by their riches.

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Quirky: Pick the one with the sweetest look and body...

Self: Pick the one who loves u most

Truth: U r in deep shit whatever u do...karma

[Assassin]

If u wanna choose 1 between them, then choose the poor one since her parents are poor farmers. If none of them wants to abort the baby then at least the poor lady has you to take care of her and her child. Her life would be in a total mess if you abandon her and she gotta find a job to raise her child. Worst come to worst, she might have no choice but to become an FL...do you want this to happen?

[FL Lover]

To TS,

U so lucky ..... got so much engery to bonk until tow of yor gfs preg. Why didnt u take any safety precautions and now you are in trouble, you panicked.

Some bros agreed that you do not need any sympathy on that. I agreed on certain angle. You are an educated person and yet in the heat of passion, you did not take any safety precaution, go raw and caused both yor gfs to suffer. Somemore you dare to two timer your gfs while you are still studying without any means of earning power...

Consider the following factors:

1) Are you able to support both gals finanically?
2) How abt yor family? Do they support u? DO they know abt it?
3) Are you sure you are able to handle both gals if both give birth?
4) Will it be fair to both gals if you decided to keep both?
5) What will happen if both gers ask you to marry them legally? Can you in the first place do that in SG?

I do not approve abortions but in this caes, there is no choice. If you think you are not able to support both gers at the sme time, YOu have to let go one of them. Be a man and faced it. Be fair to the gals and at the same time, be fair to you.

Be faithful to the other one whom you decided to be with. Dont make such stupid mistakes again. I hope you will grow up.

God is fair. You do good deeds, you get yor rewards now or later. Do bad deeds, retributions might fall on you.

I have known a true life encounter with a friend of mine. He faced the same issue with you when he is young. Got 1 gal preg. He took the quick way out. Vanish into the air. Guess what.... God is fair. He was bonking a very young thai ger. Good bonk and the thai ger show him her family photo. Her mum happened to be his gf who he dumped when she is preg. He did not sleep in peace up till now cause he had no idea if the ger is his blood and whether he had actually f..ked his daugther.

[Xgenre]

If you watched Taiwanese Hokkien drama, your 2 gfs will bear u a son and a daughter. 18 years later, they may meet each other in university and fall in love. just when they are about to get married 5 years later, you realise the other mum is your wife too.. and then....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Congrats.
Do not jump the gun into investments of property watsoever.
Be a man, and face it.
Go marry them both.
But wait.
After baby born, MAKE SURE DO DNA TEST at private hospital to cfm its yours.
In Sichuan, go to Victoria's Female Hospital, in Chengdu City...a private high end hospital.
The other dun know but move fwd only after the DNA confirmation.
Other than that, all halt!
Dun panic, one step at a time.
But if both cfm yours, then be a man & keep the 2 kids lor.
That's what i'll do anyway......