Guilty Conscience Gf

Angel_Sg · #1 12-04-2008, 01:44 PM

Im cohabiting with my bf for a few years now. He always shower me with his love and pamper me even when Im just throwing my temper for no reason. The greatest mistakes in my life that I had ever done during our relationship was having 3 affairs and 3 ONS.

I didnt know how he found out and he really shouted at me, for the first time. After he cool off, I initiated a break off cause I really found myself a slut. But instead, he readily forgave me and promise me never to mention about my affairs. I was so touched and cried and promised him I will be faithful to him. But the problem is, till now, I cant seem to forgive myself for what I had done to him and my guilty conscience still prick in me even my bf had forgiven me.

Please tell me what I should do to overcome my guilty conscience. And what can a gf do to make the bf happy. I really am feeling very bad now. Please give me some advice.

colins · #2 12-04-2008, 05:02 PM

Can I know what causes you to have 3 'affairs' and 3 ONS?

I think before you overcome your guilt, you probably need to find out why you did what you believed you shouldn't have done.

VanHouten · #3 12-04-2008, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Angel_Sg

Im cohabiting with my bf for a few years now. He always shower me with his love and pamper me even when Im just throwing my temper for no reason. The greatest mistakes in my life that I had ever done during our relationship was having 3 affairs and 3 ONS.

Now, you realised you've made big mistakes. 6 times in total. Repeatedly, over and over again.

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Originally Posted by Angel_Sg

Please tell me what I should do to overcome my guilty conscience. And what can a gf do to make the bf happy. I really am feeling very bad now. Please give me some advice.

1. No way to overcome guilty conscience. If you overcome guilty conscience, that means, the next time you did it again (behind your bf), you won't feel guilty anymore. Guilty conscience is good! You must learn from the 6 mistakes you made.

2. Next, do you think your bf will happy if you surf this forum?

nuclearkid · #4 12-04-2008, 06:19 PM

Hi,

There's nothing you can do about the past but the future is for you to write. If you see a future with this chap, work hard to keep the relationship alive and never put yourself in a compromising position again to avoid making the same mistakes. Many of us learn best by making mistakes but you repeat this mistake again, it may probably imply that he isn't that important to you in the first place. He has forgiven you, you should do the same for yourself. Life is tough enough going forward, don't make it more difficult by dwelling about the past.

Snuber · #5 12-04-2008, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Angel_Sg

Please tell me what I should do to overcome my guilty conscience. And what can a gf do to make the bf happy. I really am feeling very bad now. Please give me some advice.

Ok, now that you've admit it and things will be made simpler here.

In short, give him fantastic blowjobs and hot sex to him frequently. This will lessen your guilt and also keep the both of u busy

Ok, on a more serious note now.

Reflect on your past mistakes and know why u did it in the first place. If something is lacking in ur r/s, then work on it and strengthen it.

hotsoup16 · #6 12-04-2008, 08:10 PM

very sinple. Just stick to yr promise and never betray hin again

pipi486 · #7 12-04-2008, 10:08 PM

It is within us humans to make mistakes
But to be true to ownselfs, we must learn from the mistakes and not repeat them.
A wound in the heart can be healed but the scar will always remain, you should try your best to treat him well

combatus · #8 12-04-2008, 11:31 PM

well....if u still find that u r not the sort that can remain faithful & cant b a 1 man woman, then maybe u r mean to b a hotwife....& if yr bf cant accept that, it may be better u find someone else......

....im juz being frank here......no offense...

DO_YOU_BJ · #9 12-04-2008, 11:57 PM

Your BF can forgive you becoause he feels you are the world to him & he believes you can change. So he is praying he'll see it one day.
You, well for someone who can do it 6 times and no regret, trust me, you will never settle down.
You belong to that kind of women that does not treat chastity as sacred but something that can be used for her own gains...be it excitement or the thrill.

Well all i can say to you is this:

SOME WERE BORN TO ENJOY, SOME WERE BORN TO BE ENJOYED

Which one r u?
The answer is above

Gerald Tan · #10 12-04-2008, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Angel_Sg

Please give me some advice.

Hi Angel,
I guess you have done the 'side affairs' becoz u have high sex drive or like sex very much. Therefore, to appreciate and reciprocate you rbf love for u..is to have sex and sex only with your bf...sex with Love, mind you..good luck

LunarSky · #11 13-04-2008, 12:30 AM

Kinda had a similar situation as well.. Except, i'm the BF. Well, just move on in life and learn from past experiences. Everyone makes mistakes one way or another. Also, what goes around comes around.

scott999 · #12 13-04-2008, 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Angel_Sg

Im cohabiting with my bf for a few years now. He always shower me with his love and pamper me even when Im just throwing my temper for no reason. The greatest mistakes in my life that I had ever done during our relationship was having 3 affairs and 3 ONS.

U really sound like the gal which i had a long time fling with, during the last few years.

IMO and from the way you wrote,
you only just wanna repent in order to get rid of that guilty conscience.

Once the guilt-ridden feeling is eliminated and if new temptations come along,
you will resume your old ways again.

Why?

I guess that this bf of yours is not the one you love most.
You are probably with him more for other 'reasons'....

Well, tell me if im wrong.

jng1103 · #13 13-04-2008, 04:45 AM

aiya... a slut is always a slut... just like a womaniser, always flirting around. take it easy lor... i am sure u will be faithful with ur bf for at least 7 yrs lor... after that??? just be another slut lor...

tnb1206 · #14 13-04-2008, 08:54 AM

i guess what done is done....so no point thinking about it...the best you can do is to give the best to your current beau and everytime you do it with him....make it 101%....that will make up for his pain...

enjoy the present and future..dont let the past destroy the happiness....

Frankiestine · #15 13-04-2008, 09:20 AM

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. The greatest mistakes in my life that I had ever done during our relationship was having 3 affairs and 3 ONS..

u give him cuckold hat and he still wants to be with you.....lady you sure must hell been giving him a real good time in bed.....a man can overlook anything as long a the sex is mind blowing...