No longer interested in OC

MG69 · #1 31-08-2007, 12:42 PM

i am not sure if anyone has the same problem i am facing.

after the second child, wifey body is all gone pretty out of shape. now no longer have the urge to have sex with her anymore.......

other than that, you always see wifey scold the kids machiam like a bi*ch even more turn off

but her bbbj is still very good so now i only like that from her.......

any bro have the same prob?

(o)(o) Tuner · #2 31-08-2007, 12:51 PM

Life is different when you have a family. Wat's more important now is to bring up the kids, make more $$$ and save up for their education. To me, sex with wife is a secondary issue nowadays. Haizzzz...no choice, this is life in Sillypore.

#3 31-08-2007, 12:54 PM

Wow, this is dangerous territory ..... OC always cum first, else you looking for alternative ??? If cheongster, die die must satisfy her numero uno

Niceman · #4 31-08-2007, 01:06 PM

if the main course abit boring, try eat full during appertizer and desert

hubber27 · #5 31-08-2007, 01:43 PM

I agree with turner. Kids will be the primary concern while sex comes later. Have or dun have is ok with me. Me always find ECA outside, pay and forget. Life as married man is like that.

bergkamp2 · #6 31-08-2007, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by hubber27

I agree with turner. Kids will be the primary concern while sex comes later. Have or dun have is ok with me. Me always find ECA outside, pay and forget. Life as married man is like that.

yo hubber, i share the same sentiments. been frequenting health centres recently, but CO dunno. Does your CO know? cannot imagine wat will happen if she find out i eat outside...how would u answer??

hubber27 · #7 31-08-2007, 01:59 PM

Siao, never let CO or OC knows. Well I dun never think about how to ans cause i never intend to let her know.

smellycat · #8 31-08-2007, 02:58 PM

i guess thats normal when you've been with the same women too long... kids are just an added distraction but they are not the main factor. in the long term, family is more important than our lust. anyway, the commercial sex scene always need your support!

MG69 · #9 31-08-2007, 03:06 PM

hahahaa
i think thats why recently i have alot of ECAs too.

but this is something that should never let CO know. otherwise surekena chop into many pieces......

sigh.... life of a married man......

bergkamp2 · #10 31-08-2007, 03:12 PM

glad to hear a lot of married brothers here hv ECAs...

initially feel guilty when facing CO, but as time goes by, no guilt liao

ace7788 · #11 31-08-2007, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Niceman

if the main course abit boring, try eat full during appertizer and desert

Nice Advice - Are you saying to have more foreplay plus sexual enjoyment?

To add, some married women just dun really care about their appearance, figures and sex after married & after having children. It is tough these days as women - I fully understand.

Just wish to suggest to them that it will really pay off if they could pay more attention on maintaining their "attractiveness".

MG69 · #12 31-08-2007, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by bergkamp2

glad to hear a lot of married brothers here hv ECAs...

initially feel guilty when facing CO, but as time goes by, no guilt liao

hahahaha
but now i am still in the stage where i still feel guilty after an ECAs

cancum · #13 31-08-2007, 04:04 PM

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To add, some married women just dun really care about their appearance, figures and sex after married & after having children. It is tough these days as women - I fully understand.

Just wish to suggest to them that it will really pay off if they could pay more attention on maintaining their "attractiveness".[/FONT]

How i wish my CO can be here to read your trueful statement and come to know that why i'm having so much ECAs nowadays .

darrendon · #14 31-08-2007, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MG69

i am not sure if anyone has the same problem i am facing.

after the second child, wifey body is all gone pretty out of shape. now no longer have the urge to have sex with her anymore.......

other than that, you always see wifey scold the kids machiam like a bi*ch even more turn off

but her bbbj is still very good so now i only like that from her.......

any bro have the same prob?

Bro,

Everyone of us will grow old one day. Of course our body will change with time as well. Be it fatter, skinner, shorter etc. Not to be rude to you or whatever but take a look at yourself in the mirror as well. I am sure your body or looks have changed over years too.

As of scolding your kids, I think you should be proud of your wife that she is doing a good job in educating both of your kids. Think about it. Who will like to scold fiercely like a bitch. She is doing that all because of your little ones.

Of course I do not deny that guys are visual animals but think of it. Her body changed is also because of you. She sacrifices her own body because she wants to bear your kids.

gilagila100 · #15 31-08-2007, 04:06 PM

If possible, try to change things at home ... spice things up n get the fire goin ...

den less or zero ECAs ...

If still cannot, then at least have sex once in a while wif CO ... women have needs too ... pamper her n the family (they closest to u n when u die n go 6 feet under, they are the ones crying n taking care of of ur final days on Earth)

as for ECAs ? same lahh ... if possible zero, if not do less loh ...
save $$$ ... save energy ....

Not trying to "throw cold water" on anyone here ... but the fact remains ...
too much ECAs is always bad ...

and RAW is WAR ... dun go raw ...

just my 0.000002 cents ...