Can men be happily married and still have affair?

[voluptuousvenus]

I have read somewhere that men can have an affair even if they are happily married. For married men here who had or having affair, is that true?

[jnudes]

I do know a rich friend who is happily married with a virgin girl but still fucks around. I asked him why. He told me fucking one gal is not enough for him, he always wants more.

Another is one married doctor whose wife is also a doctor. He told me he sleeps around not because he does not love his wife, he just looking for short term excitement and fling.

Third is my ex-classmate who is working as lawyer. When he was single he fucks around. After he got married he continued his old habit. When we male friends discussed about his marriage we suggested that it's better he stay single forever if he likes to fuck around.

Sleeping around, IMHO is as good as destroying one's happy marriage. If you don't get caught red handed consider yourself lucky. If get caught, the most likely outcome is divorce which is quite common these days.

[Cheesebeast]

Aside from marriage, i have a gf and 2 fbs. My gf is the traditional sex only after marriage type so i have my fbs for release. I still love my gf very much and both my fbs know about my gf

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by Cheesebeast

Aside from marriage, i have a gf and 2 fbs. My gf is the traditional sex only after marriage type so i have my fbs for release. I still love my gf very much and both my fbs know about my gf

Becareful bro....sometimes you may not get caught....BUT....you may spread the STDs around.....and the worst case I personally know the father keeps the mistress outside and have children outside.

At first the main family didn't know but in the end the relatives found out and reported the news to the main wife, and things get suspicious when the father suddenly did not send money home, borrowed money from relatives but never return the money, even the daughter from first wife need to borrow money to help him out. That's how I got to know from her story.

It's like Stage 4 cancer, the relatives no longer want to keep in touch and help this man as he never returned the money he borrowed. The main wife needs to work as cleaner to support the family even at night. And this man is always worrying with money, he needs to look after his main wife and also mistress.

At first it may be secret to everyone but eventually someone will leak the news out. So think twice if you are married and seeking for affair. The outcome is likely to be horrible in the end with divorce as the only solution.

[maxsee]

This applies only to the TIKO PEhs lah....Not everyone is desperate for sex...there are a lots of things out there in the world that is better than sex...

[rivcale]

Originally Posted by Cheesebeast

Aside from marriage, i have a gf and 2 fbs. My gf is the traditional sex only after marriage type so i have my fbs for release. I still love my gf very much and both my fbs know about my gf

bro, not tired meh?
must take care of 1 lady, then add one more....
i salute ur energy siah!

geylang is like the cheapest way ever lol

[smile_santa]

Originally Posted by maxsee

This applies only to the TIKO PEhs lah....Not everyone is desperate for sex...there are a lots of things out there in the world that is better than sex...

Agree. Often people are engaged in extra-marital affairs not because of sex but because of a stale or unhappy marriage. Sex is easy to resolve, pay money have already. But when you are disillusioned with your marriage and so happen that you come across a new experience, that lure is irresistible. Somehow who understands you instead of nagging at you, someone who takes the time to talk to you and rekindle the feeling of romance instead of going home to a complaining wife... These emotions are more powerful than lust.

[voluptuousvenus]

Originally Posted by smile_santa

Agree. Often people are engaged in extra-marital affairs not because of sex but because of a stale or unhappy marriage. Sex is easy to resolve, pay money have already. But when you are disillusioned with your marriage and so happen that you come across a new experience, that lure is irresistible. Somehow who understands you instead of nagging at you, someone who takes the time to talk to you and rekindle the feeling of romance instead of going home to a complaining wife... These emotions are more powerful than lust.

I think this goes for women too. We want to feel the romance and to be admired too. Great analysis. Thanks!

[Cheesebeast]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Becareful bro....sometimes you may not get caught....BUT....you may spread the STDs around.....and the worst case I personally know the father keeps the mistress outside and have children outside.

At first the main family didn't know but in the end the relatives found out and reported the news to the main wife, and things get suspicious when the father suddenly did not send money home, borrowed money from relatives but never return the money, even the daughter from first wife need to borrow money to help him out. That's how I got to know from her story.

It's like Stage 4 cancer, the relatives no longer want to keep in touch and help this man as he never returned the money he borrowed. The main wife needs to work as cleaner to support the family even at night. And this man is always worrying with money, he needs to look after his main wife and also mistress.

At first it may be secret to everyone but eventually someone will leak the news out. So think twice if you are married and seeking for affair. The outcome is likely to be horrible in the end with divorce as the only solution.

Thanks for sharing and your concerns bro. Just to clarify, when i said aside from marriage, what i meant was besides the topic of marriage.

Im not married but i currently got a gf. And i also have fbs for my sexual release since my gf is the traditional type. The main reason i have fbs instead of finding fls is because im guarenteed that they are clean so no need to worry about stds. Plus get to save money as need not use condom during our sex sessions.

[Moderator88]

Dont tell me you want to ruin a relationship by telling yor partner that you are having affair?

[dyelook]

can if you can let your wife have affairs too... everything is give & take...

[samster101]

Can. But it is like living a double life. Won't last long. Affairs and FB sounds fun but a piece of you goes missing after the deed. A sense of incompleteness. And too much baggage. Sex is best done with someone you love. Want release? Use your hand.

[Slurpy123]

I am married with 2 primary school kids. My wife is a good person, she try to be a good mother and wife but unfortunately her temper is red hot - many people and not just me find that difficult to handle. the key issue here is she is not a bad person but difficult person and I am not the only one saying that.

I lost interest with her honestly - having to exercise patience and be very careful when I communicate with her so as not to trigger her. I also have to give in m any a times because there are issues which is just her way or the high way.

So I am not exactly happily married, but it is a make do relationship. give and take . Now I confess I am now into relationship with other girls - Vietnamese to be exact - yes I have an affair but I still provide for my family - everything.

as for the Vietnamese, my take is they are all economic. I don't think any one like us Singaporean (maybe not 100% but the bulk of them) because we are handsome or anything but it is an outlet to a better life. I compensate them , their time b allowances, thought I did not tell them I am married.

I am not sure where it will lead me to eventually, I will be careful but I hope a short fling here and here don't do too much damage and ends in divorce .

I pray.

[curious11]

Originally Posted by voluptuousvenus

I think this goes for women too. We want to feel the romance and to be admired too. Great analysis. Thanks!

i wonder if that's why i have a chat buddy with my milf friend..quite happy to text her daily during weekdays..giving each other attention that we dont get at our respective homes...

[lawry]

Originally Posted by voluptuousvenus

I have read somewhere that men can have an affair even if they are happily married. For married men here who had or having affair, is that true?

Why is there a men thing?
Go google. The latest report by straits times- 50% of strays are caused by women aka adultery.

Why women can have an affair even they're happily married?
For women here who had or having An affair is that true?

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapor...t-just-the-men

Voluptuousvenus, stop men bashing please