nothing relate to sexual...just some discussion

[devilic]

I know some of u will curse me for wasting space in thread...lol.. just wanna know if any one of u have the same experience as me or how do u deal with it. Anw, my problem is that there is a girl I'm quite interested. she is not a hot babe but rather an average girl or should i say she have a unique feature. during her work, I've pass her a note mention that i am interested in making friend with her, but i believe she ignore it since she never talk to me. till now i cant seems to get over with it. i also tried sending her a small gift during her work. but as u can guess, she still ignore it. should I really do a proper approach? I believe she know it is me who sent the gift since i had also written my name in the note. so guys, if u encounter a girl u fall deeply for her, what would u do? Please do not discriminate me or anyone here. just want to hear about your view. To Lady's, if girls ignore guys, does it mean its totally over? or is she playing hard to get attitude?Thanks.

[ah rat]

Ts,I think u already love sick.If she got talk to u then u still got chance.Girls play hard to get,mean you will treasure her if u get her.If she turn u down,just look for another one.

[Lennyberg]

move on... she's not interested.

[fieryguy80]

If you really need a confirmation that you should skip her, you can just drop her a msg note, indicate to return you the note if she has no interest. Be straight forward..

Some women I encounter like to play hard to get, then when she saw that I have change target, then approach me say that "too busy" to reply me.. Whatever, i just be friendly, say friend-friend no problem, lunch/dinner some other time..

[devilic]

Originally Posted by ah rat

Ts,I think u already love sick.If she got talk to u then u still got chance.Girls play hard to get,mean you will treasure her if u get her.If she turn u down,just look for another one.

i am indeed love sick...no girl i encounter had make me do such a thing

[Wintermelontea]

Dude, wake up?!!! :roll eyes:

You have not even spoken to her directly as yet, am I right? Passing slips of paper messages and giving her small gifts is like when you want to be known as a secret admirer or when she is already with you as an item. Otherwise, you are indeed what you have said yourself - wasting bandwidth.

Try striking up a conversation with her and move on from there. She can't be interested in you unless she knows you somewhat? Are both of you even friends to begin with? If not, how to be more than friends much more to fall for you? Are you the all-time Don Juan in your company?? Get my drift?

So, befriend her and not think of anything else. Get to know her as who she is and let her see you as a worthy friend. She may just reciprocate your good intentions in time to come (hopefully) if she has not already friend-zoned you.

[PrincessPris]

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

Dude, wake up?!!! :roll eyes:

You have not even spoken to her directly as yet, am I right? Passing slips of paper messages and giving her small gifts is like when you want to be known as a secret admirer or when she is already with you as an item. Otherwise, you are indeed what you have said yourself - wasting bandwidth.

Try striking up a conversation with her and move on from there. She can't be interested in you unless she knows you somewhat? Are both of you even friends to begin with? If not, how to be more than friends much more to fall for you? Are you the all-time Don Juan in your company?? Get my drift?

So, befriend her and not think of anything else. Get to know her as who she is and let her see you as a worthy friend. She may just reciprocate your good intentions in time to come (hopefully) if she has not already friend-zoned you.

Agreed. Go up to her and strike up a conversation. Ask her for lunch or smth. If she rejects any of them, then its clear sign that she's not interested.

[Komatsu]

Originally Posted by devilic

i am indeed love sick...no girl i encounter had make me do such a thing

She must be special

[skyleon]

Normally if I ask the girl out for 3 times and 3 times kenna rejected I will move on .