Question of rubbing penis and vagina

[Wonker]

Hi All,

I been on this forums for a while and of those who still remember me (most of my old threads seems to have been deleted or archived??) I was on a fantasy mission - years it took - to share my wife.

It has happened in the last 12 months -- not had time to share the story. But this is not the reason for this post.

A lot of (safe) kissing and fonding by a 3rd party guy, both stripped naked and more fonding etc ---> all good.

However after some snookling - my wife was quite drunk as was myself -- the said gentleman we had invited (who is a regular in young 20's) started massaging his hard tool against my wife's pussy. (in the past we always had condoms - no idea why this was not done this time - probably alcohol, familiarity with this person).

Long story short. Wife was moaning & drunk and lost in her own world - I remember she had her eyes closed all this time. I was too drunk. Both her and him were simulating fucking raw. He kissed her nipples and rubbed his hard penis head for like 5-8 mins slow-mo (sry lost track of time) without inserting in -- just raw pussy / raw penis head rubbing as in mutual masturbation.

It was only when he pushed his head into my wife raw that somehow I realised and called them to stop. At most 3-5 slow pumps inside wife.

Wife too drunk and can't be bothered. Guy is OK and I am 99% he does not do 1-nighters / geyland - he does have a regular girlfriend (but they don't have sex which was why we selected him for my wife).

What say you --- safe?

[please NO rhetoric on morals or crap]

[waaaaaa]

he seemed to be quite used to raw, with the way he did that to your wife. normal guys, especially with such scenarios would use a condom. was he drunk too?

I would say usually safe, but no harm to ask your wife go for a test to put your mind at ease.

[Big Sexy]

mate, raw is never safe regardless of how few insertion there was.
even with rubber it is not 100%

check out the HIV screening/testing options.

there is also a doctor in the house now.. u can Pm him before your bring your missus down for a checkup.

Originally Posted by Wonker

Hi All,

What say you --- safe?

[please NO rhetoric on morals or crap]

[unicornboy]

For those who frequent sex. Its best to go every 6th mthly checkup.

[Kerry]

The best way you guys can do is see a specialist and have a test

[pleasurehobby]

Once inserted, everything else is just speculations.

Whether we say it is safe, or no safe, it is only truely safe untill you feel safe psychologically.

If you feel uneasy, a checkup is always the best to clear all doubts and put them to rest.

All the best bro.

[AhHuang]

As long as no intercourse i think quite safe.

But i heard from my NS friends once that she got some STD from her ex bf because of heavy petting.

I'm not very sure about the details but personally, as long as not inside, to me = safe.

[lamgor]

Originally Posted by AhHuang

As long as no intercourse i think quite safe.

But i heard from my NS friends once that she got some STD from her ex bf because of heavy petting.

I'm not very sure about the details but personally, as long as not inside, to me = safe.

to spread std from heavy petting, the session must be quite intense, with sweating, a lot of friction from rubbing one another.

if its just dry petting , not intense, not that easy to get std.

for ts question, I guess the issue is was it intense. but still safer to get check when its all said and done

[Wonker]

Hi All,

Sorry been away overseas with work - did log into check but the connection was super slow and all - now since I have time to reflect and back - wanted to sincere thanks all that replied with their advise. I'll do what makes sense for my wife and I.

As for the partner concerned - we are OK. We selected him for various reasons - I know this may sound rather silly and impractical but he was a virgin till he met my wife (no way to PROVE THAT!) but it's in the feeling and trust - like one trusts a friend. He is from a good family, rarely goes out, very sensible (boring) girl friend - socially awkward... hehe. But .. yea. I can't blame the guy for getting carried away.

Thank-you also for no silly troll posts on this thread - as I experienced a few on topics on "wife sharing" etc. Each to their own.

On this last note - we have young children - and we both not exactly young any more. Live life now - do some of the things we fantasised - else regret when too old to do these things.

[samdiy]

Originally Posted by Wonker

Hi All,

I been on this forums for a while and of those who still remember me (most of my old threads seems to have been deleted or archived??) I was on a fantasy mission - years it took - to share my wife.

It has happened in the last 12 months -- not had time to share the story. But this is not the reason for this post.

A lot of (safe) kissing and fonding by a 3rd party guy, both stripped naked and more fonding etc ---> all good.

However after some snookling - my wife was quite drunk as was myself -- the said gentleman we had invited (who is a regular in young 20's) started massaging his hard tool against my wife's pussy. (in the past we always had condoms - no idea why this was not done this time - probably alcohol, familiarity with this person).

Long story short. Wife was moaning & drunk and lost in her own world - I remember she had her eyes closed all this time. I was too drunk. Both her and him were simulating fucking raw. He kissed her nipples and rubbed his hard penis head for like 5-8 mins slow-mo (sry lost track of time) without inserting in -- just raw pussy / raw penis head rubbing as in mutual masturbation.

It was only when he pushed his head into my wife raw that somehow I realised and called them to stop. At most 3-5 slow pumps inside wife.

Wife too drunk and can't be bothered. Guy is OK and I am 99% he does not do 1-nighters / geyland - he does have a regular girlfriend (but they don't have sex which was why we selected him for my wife).

What say you --- safe?

[please NO rhetoric on morals or crap]

Some STDs are spread by skin to skin contact eve with CD on bcos surrounding area has contact, described as non penetrative humping but in your wife's case, slight penetrative humping. Better ask her go for checkup otherwise you may kena too.

[HOTROD23]

Bro you sound like
Mr MrsCumToMe
I really miss this couple

On this last note - we have young children - and we both not exactly young any more. Live life now - do some of the things we fantasised - else regret when too old to do these things.[/QUOTE]

[chickenlittley]

best to go thru test bro..

[Wonker]

THANKYOU ALL.

It's all good and no panic.

Wife hates condoms... I personally hate them too. But safe sex is important!

I appreciate the kind advise of all who posted and it's a testament of the quality of this site.

As for the guy - it's cool and he probably reading this thread (who knows).

[TakeAChillPill]

Originally Posted by Wonker

But safe sex is important!

This is very true bro