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20-07-2005, 09:51 PM
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Try not to fall in love with a WL
I have seen so many Samsters here talk about falling in love with Wls they have bonked that I feel I have to warn them about the dangers of doing such a thing.I guess this only happens with the freshies but you never know.
Let me just say this:While it is probably true that nobody wants to be a WL wilingly,every WL will have their own sob story to tell.Whether these stories are true or not,it's up to me to say.But let me ask you this,do you think somebody will say that their family is fine back in China and they're just doing this for extra money?You ever heard that story b4? Secondly,WLs treat you like a bf for a reason.They WANT u back.It is extra money,u can't deny that.Besides,what's there to lose treating u well?At most won't ever see u again,at best,u keep coming back to her.Whether they r true or not is not for me to say,there might be ones who genuinely might love you for who you are,not your money...but unless you have a way of telling,is it not better to be safe than sorry. I do have a personal story to tell.I have a gf who's a WL.Ever since I got to know her,I have been giving her money on a regular basis...until now,she's wiped out my savings of $15,000 to leave me with less than $1,000 and I have borrowed over $10,000 for her (various reasons like her mum's operation,living expenses and fees to arrange for visas and passports...etc).Are you prepared to do something like this?Is there wisdom in such actions? I have not seen her for several months now but we talk every two days on the phone.She wants to come over here but is having trouble getting her visa approved...or is it a lie?I have stopped sending her money of course...it's not as if I have any more money to send and thus far,she hasn't abandoned me as yet and says that she will help me repay my debt.It's still all talk because she has no means of income without coming here.And is her heart true?Even now I question it. For all you freshies,ponder my story.Even if you like a WL,you are never sure whether she is similarly in love with you.Why put yourself through such a torment? And what about the money?I paid a $25,000 lesson and might not be out of it yet.I now have to service a $10,000 loan (with interest) through no fault of my own and have taken nothing in return.Is it worth it?Ask yourself that. There are plenty of good girls out there.Local or otherwise.One does not have to turn to a WL for a relationship.Go put an ad in a matchmaking website or something,join SDU,get your friends to intro girls...hell,go buy yourself a Viet wife.So many other ways to get a girl. 
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27-07-2005, 12:20 PM
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Bro, everyone has their own stories and I do believe that many have really experience true love even though their GF were once a WL. Ultimately married and lead a happy life. I can't offers any comments about your situation but I really wish you all the best in your relationship.
Personally, I've a GF who were once a WL but currently we are planning to get married and start life together in Sillypore. My situation is a bit complicated as we were both married once. I got to know her during my separation with my ex-wife while my then GF works in Sillypore. We ended up coming together with her divorcing and also knowing that I'm currently quite broke financially. I told her to really considered as I may not be rich enough to give her the type of life she may be looking for. However, she still chose to stick through with me during my lowest moment in life!! She works in China while we were separated for quite some time due to her visa problem and she never demanded any money from me. I did not support her financially (all this while) and she always tells me that she can afford her own life thru working. Bro..there is still hope in the air and please do not give up. My only advise to you: "Never treat her like a WL, as there is always a very thin line drawn between Love & Sex. Her mindset will change if you can influence her with your love rather than money. Many a times, starting a relationship with WL is not easy as it involves money & sex initially. Try to change that around and probably you will find true love. You will get to know it pretty soon right from the start if she is willing to stick with you without any money involvement. Do not drag her for too long if you have decided to marry her for good. Usually, they will feel very insecure as their youth is slowly saying goodbye." All the best to you and all bros out there!!! 
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27-07-2005, 02:01 PM
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27-07-2005, 02:10 PM
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27-07-2005, 02:17 PM
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Well bro, there are some gd experience I seem from my true eyes, my frd is only 23yrs old.......his WL gf is 31yrs....the funny part is always is we guys give $$$ to them rite, but now is her gf give this guy $$$(quite a big sum)....but I got inform my frd not to take lah.....my frd did not take any $$ from her, but he got recieved those small inexpensive stuff, this make the ger love him more.......I hear they are getting married soon, my frd knew her mum will not allow it, as he came from a not bad family, so he marry quietly in china 1st, then back to singapore.....the funny thing is we did inform the ger that he is a poor guy, no strong income, no much education....but the ger still stick with him.....and try to guide this guy road path.......well, there always hopes for some gd WL. hehehe
 Even I myself got experience it. That why, I always at the back help my frd, as we knew abt PRC.....they want $$$ and status. I teach my frd a smart move.......so guys if you wan to marry a WL who truely love u, marry at her country 1st....then decide if you wan to carry the cert. back to singapore....it more safe, as anything happen, her country settled 1st b4 move to singapore.......hehehe
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27-07-2005, 02:17 PM
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Re: Try not to fall in love with a WL
bro morrissey1209,
On yr point, 1) "WLs treat you like a bf for a reason." = how true, I have come across many WL and the majority are very clear what they want - a sense of security. Security may comes in different forms; money, a SIN passport, etc. 2) "fees to arrange for visas and passports...etc). " is having trouble getting her visa approved...or is it a lie? = This could be true, SIN govt is claming down on PRC girls coming in on tourist visas and then working at the same time. They do this by making it very difficult for those who making repeated visa applications to SIN. My girl also cannot come again. She is stuck in China. my 2 cents, game10199
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27-07-2005, 03:46 PM
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27-07-2005, 03:58 PM
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Total number of posts : 13,153 knowing you don't post on saturday and sunday - so, your daily avergae posts are......16 posts per day.... knn, if your boss find out this, he will tell you - "chi liao bee"...
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27-07-2005, 04:04 PM
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u have to respect the man..he can tong for so long...maybe he is the boss!
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27-07-2005, 04:12 PM
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joined - Feb 2005 number of post - 274 Bro initialD joined Feb 2005 number of post - 32 u definitely not t boss.........hehehehehe
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27-07-2005, 04:47 PM
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- know many nice nice samsters (eg. l3atu & ABK )- learn how to write productive FRs - enhance my debate, present arguments skills are you saying posting in SBF is a wate of time? 
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27-07-2005, 04:49 PM
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27-07-2005, 04:58 PM
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 Must remember to put etc hor.... If not will offend alot of other good bros. 
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It doesnt matter where you are, is who you are with Skippe, Smeely Beancure, NeoNinja, Golden Finger & KimLin Many thanks for the above goodwill but please post and inform me so that I can do something about it.
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27-07-2005, 04:59 PM
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