True Love Story of a PRC woman and a Experienced Chengster

[prcbrok]

Before I share my story, a little intro on myself. I am in my forties and have a good career good salary, have a happy family and enjoy many happy cheong session.

I claimed myself to be intelligent, able to think and analyse well and knows the basic rules on cheonging session, what one should not get into. I have been cheonging for more than 10 years and always fine until 1 fine day, I met her and the following 2 years are the start of my agony and pain and damaged to my financial and finally emotionally broken. I expect many bro will respond back and said I am stupid and deserve this. Even though I claimed to have given up, my heart is still not completely dead and I am still confused whether there is true love from her or not. I hoped to share my story here to get some advice and also to let others know how I stumble upon this and bro should avoid what I have gone thru.

Here's the story:
Oct 2011:
Just another China KTV happy session that I went with my friends. As usual pick 2 bird, both SYT and one captivate me right 1st time I met her. Let's call her Birdie. The other gal I pick is a part time, not full time yet. Both gals are not tag as inconvenient, so technically, they are ready for bonking session. The night ended and I wanted to bring Birdie back but she said she don't do this. I questioned then why did you put the convenient tag, its like deceiving me. She responded with a attitude and said, I am like that, don't want to that and don't like to put the inconvenient tag. Ok, no problem, I don't like to force so I brought the other back and service OK, not too bad except no GF feel. The 2nd night Birdie has a booking so could not return to accompany us but she made an effort to came and see me and have a drink and to take contact for future return customer. Meanwhile, one of my friends who has never been into this shocked me by getting his girl to go back with him.

Nov 2011:
I returned again and my friend went for the same girl. I asked for Birdie again but I recalled she don't go back with customer so I pick another one with a fairy same cut like her. Night ended and I made another attempt to ask Birdie and she said no. So I went with the other girl and she is very pro. Back to the room, she would break the ice by playing some hands game (strip version). She got good size breast but overall fuck was no good because half way into the fuck, she fake her orgasm and cried "你好棒，加油“. My friend who went back 2nd time with the girl is now in love with her already.

[jnudes]

Birdie is one tough girl. So did you manage to book her at last? Please continue your story...

[prcbrok]

Continue ...

Mar 2012:
Both my friend and me have the same birthday so we celebrate ours by making a trip back there. I knew my friend has fall for the KTV girl and I tried to tell him to stop before it is too late. I knew after the Nov 2011 trip, my friend went back to see her on his own and even brought her to other countries for holiday. I tried to advise my friend like an experienced cheongster but as you know, once a person is madly in love with the girl, no amount of persuasion or logic talk can get him out of this. The only way one can get out is when one gets hurt.

So back to the same KTV, I asked for the same girl, my Birdie. This time 3rd time I tried to asked her whether she want to go back with me but again was rejected. I am beginning to think the next time she reject me again I will stop and find another one.

Apr 2012:
We went again. And I called for the same girl, Birdie. I gave myself one last chance. When night ended, I asked that golden question and bingo, she agreed.

Happily while walking back from the KTV to the hotel, she stop at the slope and said she want to change her mind. I said no problem. If you don't want to do it, we can just chat only. I knew you guys will think that I have evil intention but what I said is what I meant. There are occasion that I bring inconvenient girl back just for chatting

Back to the room, I indeed do not have the intention to do it. While I was preparing to sleep, she undress on her own accord and initiate the sex. Of course being a man I would then go for it. The feel was great, she was very responsive, very genuine, her moaning, her body tweaking and the flow of juice like a waterfall.

When we wake up, I gave her the money and she said, luckily you came. I am very broke and these money came just in time for her need.

May 2012 to July 2012:
No trips back there. However, the technology of online chat, video cams meant we are in contact everyday and communicating even more than I communicate with my wife. I was cautious too and have not fall for her though. She did hint that her handphone was stolen, to me a common excuse cook up by many PRC so I said I have no money to buy for you.

July 2012:
Finally, my group went back there again and as usual I spend time with my Birdie. My feel for her become stronger but have not reached the point that I love her. I was just enjoying the time spend with her. She told me she is quitting as she don't like to work in that place. I asked her what she intend to do. She said she is going back to her home town to d a study so that she can get a proper job. Said her study is a 1 year course and cost 3000 CNY. I find this is good for her and furthermore is only 3000 CNY, I gave that money to her and encourage her to study hard. I also thought that this is the last time I will meet her again. Strangely, for a cheongster to believe in that?

[Ken79]

喜欢甘愿, there is no right or wrong... where u are coming from is give her some advice n $$ out of concern (real or kanna conned is another thing) with the knowledge that most probably u'd never see her again in person.

i guess all u wish for her is to become a better person and have a better perspective for her future, i guess most of us at some point of our cheonging life does find ourselves in these situations.

[SexyMenace]

Bro... Step out of it if u can,don't play with fire with your family's happiness as stake...not worth it...

[see see only]

ANother KC story ... interesting ...

Me camp liao

[jnudes]

bro, she did accept you on the forth time.....chinese number 4 sounds very similar to die....and if I am you won't give her the money to study coz she oredi earnt too much at her working place...

[Ken79]

the only way to have a mistress without any worries or fear of being exposed is when u have lots of $

im a sales manager in marine industry so i travel often, sees a lot of men and women from all walks of life.
some rich shipyard owner or vessel owners have 2 wives and almost all have mistress/gfs outside, so how to keep all these women happy is $, they wont leave u even u kick them.
even in indonesia if u want to buy each and every one of them a house, at least a car, each car a driver, many maids - 1 for cooking, 1-2 for cleaning, 1 for each kid, optional security guards, its an astronomical monthly expense.
so u really need a LOT of financial clout.

so for ppl like us, just go out play play on occasions but cannot have any strings or emotional ties attached, if not you either risk your family or u have to spend a lot of money to keep mouths shut.

[loneyheart]

just another part n parcel of life ... be there just enjoy if u can

[prcbrok]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

just another part n parcel of life ... be there just enjoy if u can

I need to move fast with the story as I badly need advice. I am not out yet, I am confused as she is still holding me back while she continue to work and sleep around....

Continue:
July 2012 to Sep 2012: Return of Birdie
She did not do the study, claimed that she was not accepted as she does not have the qualification. she message me saying she need to go back to the KTV again but she need money for the transport and initial accommodation. I did not give. Somehow or other she managed to get the transport money and return to the city of sins. She contacted me again and sounded very desperate. My heart soften and remit 3000 CNY to her to help her tide thru this stage with no conditions (I am serious). She asked me when I am coming again but I said I am actually going to another city instead. She said she has never travel anywhere and wonder how that city is like. I asked if you like, I can bring you along. She was happy and accepted the invite. She said that she will start work once she is back from the holidays with me.

Oct 2012 - Start of trouble but went straight into it
Start of the 1st holiday with her, captivated by her finally and made an offer to support her. In return she cannot work and I will go up every month. We had great sex and started to do RAW. I was afraid firstly whether she has HIV and 2nd pregnancy. The HIV is confirmed negative but at that time I am more concern on the pregnancy.
Somewhere end Oct, She message me asking me why her period is late. She mentioned she is always punctual and never late before. I thought shit, maybe I hit the jackpot. I told her if she need to go for abortion, I will accompany her. She was touch and for the 1st time she said "我爱你“. Wow, after knowing her for 1 year I finally get to hear that for the 1st time and of course it touches my heart even more.

Nov 2012 – God’s early warning
Nothing special but brought her to Kunming. Interestingly, while in Kunming, we bump into a Monk and the monk saw me and straight away gave me an advice: "色字头上一把刀“ meaning you are threading on dangerous sex.

[prcbrok]

Dec 2012 to July 2013 : (series of lies)
From Dec 2012 onwards, we met every month almost in different city as I travelled quite a fair bit. We started to have monthly argument and quarrel always because I always caught her lying to me. One thing I can confirmed, up until July 2013, she has not betray me yet. However, we always make up our quarrels after 1 or 2 days and are madly in love again. I also realised that I am actually giving her more than the agreed initial monthly allowance as her family is always into some difficulties.

Then one day, she expressed her insecurity as she said I will leave her one day when my family find out about our affair. She doesn’t want to drag this relationship with me for many years and when she lost her youth and value, and I am not with her, she will be helpless. She wanted me to give her a child and a house so that I remain committed to her. I rejected the child option and told her she is still young and we must enjoy ourselves first. However, I am ok to buy her a condo. I am seriously in love with her and genuine love her. I also think I should gave her some sense of security.

Just before I buy her the condo, she asked for permission to return to work in KTV claiming that she wanted to offload my burden. I said no and we started our quarrel on this until I threatened to stop the condo purchase if she insists on working. While condo purchase is in progress, no more mentioned on returning to work but I can sense her feel for me has started to go a little cold at times. Condo purchase done, renovation completed and she moved in happy. I thought she would appreciate what I have done for her.
Little did I know that my biggest problem, pain and agony are coming up in the following month.

[prcbrok]

Aug 2013: NOW THIS IS THE START OF MY BIG PROBLEM, PAIN and AGONY

After she moved in to the condo, many unlucky things happened both to me and her. Her family members suddenly all ended up with lost of their job. Every member in the family is looking to her for support and of course she is looking at me to support. I can carried her but not with the extra burden of the entire family. Especially, I just spend the $$ on her condo purchase, reno, and furnishing. To make things worst, I started to have some financial difficulty. My 2nd property meant for investment TOP earlier than expected and I did not took any loan thinking the mere shortage of SGD100K I can fix it when it TOP in that indicated year. I drained up all my reserve to cater to the 2nd property full payment, was still short and took an OD. Meanwhile, I realise I have spent close to SGD $100K too on maintaining the girl for a period of 10 months.
We both started to feel pressure, and she is beginning to see that I am no longer rich. She wanted to go back to KTV again but I did not agreed. While I continue to provide you the monthly allowance, it should be enough. She promised me that she will not lie to me to return to work.
Then on the 14th Aug, she asked for a Video Chat and was with her in that video chat for 2 hours. I can see her tears in the corner and she again asked to return to work. I told her I would rather we break off if she go back to work there as I knew any girl that return will easily succumbed themselves to offer sex as the money is too great.

The following day, I sense something is not right in her daily chatting style with me. While she told me she is at her friend house, I sort of suspecting she is back to work. I confirmed my suspicious and she admitted and the reason is I cannot help her family member and I do not want her to work, therefore she has to lie to me. She promised me that she will not do sex with customer and asked that I trust her. She said since I am also having financial difficulties, she is trying to offload me. What to do, indeed I do not have the ability as in the past few months. So I have to agree.

The next few nights, she went back early and did not break her promise Until, the 20th Aug,

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by prcbrok

One thing I can confirmed, up until July 2013, she has not betray me yet.

boss, wat u mean by u confirm she nv betray u????is it emotionally or physically???? u lock her hole and heart????

[prcbrok]

becoz I installed a tracking device to track where she goes and she knew it

[prcbrok]

20th Aug – the betrayal starts
As usual she will chat with me informing me she is on the way back home and is with a girlfriend that is drunk and will be staying over with her.
She informed me that they are going up the lift to the condo already. I asked who else help you to carry this completely drunken friend. She said herself. Now I sense something not right. Even for a men to handle complete drunkard, it is very heavy and difficult to do it with just one person. How can she do it. I did suspect but it was late and I wanted to sleep already, so I sent her the Good Night note.
Suddenly the response came back with a message translated in English meant : “Which Lift lobby do I take ?” This seems to be her question to someone but was sent wrongly to me.
I questioned her, she denied saying its typo error. I try Video Chat her but she did not accept the video call. After 20 mins, she did initiate the Video Call to me with her friend lying on her lap. I could not see clearly the background and I thought ok they are back home.
The next day, I started to think about the message and realised that she must have gone and do the extra service.
I threaten to break off if she did not explain the wrong message properly. She admitted that the message was supposed to be sent out of her drunk friend phone but she got mixed up. She swear she did not do anything wrong to me and said I have no evidence to prove.

21st Aug
I ignore her and she tried desperately to contact me at night. She went home early and tried calling me but I am not answering.