Curious! Is in this world, there's really thing as FREE LUNCH?

[curiouslala]

this world taught me one thing.
that there's no such things as FREE LUNCH.
i even have to work hard to get money to pay for lunch.
and now, i have to say that i earn better than before, so i can start to plan to save for my future..

there are few times though, when i use my body to have a nice holiday..
have nothing to regret though, as it was a great holiday and those guys is really a nice person to be with..

anyway, do you believe that in this world there's a real FREE LUNCH?
with no obligation to repay back for the lunch? with money or even with sex?

have you do it before?
if yes, why do you give them FREE LUNCH?

thanks in advance for all answer..

[Midnight2U]

Dear sis, the answer to your question is no.
from a guy perspective, almost everything that comes our way has a cost attached to it. be it money, time, feelings etc. i feel that so long as there's prolonged interaction between two people, there can be no such thing as a free lunch in the world because of the tangible and non-tangible costs involved.

[jasdude]

Free lunch? NO such thingy. No matter what, the receiving party has to repay in kind either financial wise, physical wise or emotional wise. Whether its a true love relationship or transactional exchange one. There are bound to be an exchange of either any of the above mentioned. Its always a two way traffic

I used to have this signature. When a gal gives you it to you F.O.C. It just means FUCK ON CREDIT. You still need to pay back either with your time and effort or money. Sometimes you end up paying more than you bargain for.

[alphonsus]

If someone decides to do something, there is obviously a reason for it. He may or may want to say it, or even admit to himself the true reason.

However, it's not every instance that there must be a pure physical return (sex, money etc).

In return, they may just want some good company (non-sexual), a reason to get away, or that he really cares for the person.

[aceaceguy]

depending on how u see it, seen rich people donating to the needy(charity).

but for someone who is not handicap then i dont think there i free lunch. why should someone provide a free lunch to u, when u can earn it yourself?

also agree to bro jasdude's post, u just pay it back in other forms.

lastly, i dont mind to treat u for lunch even though u are not handicap and no string attached(no need to yi sheng xiang xu)

[Reminisce88]

Free lunch? Of course. Entirely possible if you have the "heart" to do it cause it can be really mean to to the other party.

eg.
If you are in that kind of giving/receiving relationship and you are the receiving end it's all good.

i once tio before a malaysian girl and she literally just used me as her meal ticket and only asked me out when she need some carrot head to pay for her lunch.

but too bad i not carrot enough to fall into her scheme la i came to know about already on 2nd date coz it seems too much finance involved in the equation.

so much for wanting to seriously date a girl

[rainchezz]

As a pragmatist, I feel that the concept of free doesn't exist in this world.
As some bros have pointed out, it's either in exchange of tangible benefits like cash or holidays or intangible ones like feelings.

I took gals (one at a time of course) for trips. They dun pay. Air tix on me, and of cuz, accom...with me. we do the usual stuff when I dun have meetings like watch movie, go to attractions, etc ... but the nights are always full of wonderful sex.

Free lunch ? If someone offers you one, either you must be careful or the other person is nuts.

cheers

[cash88]

For me I don't mind treating u free lunch without anything in return.

But if u say want to look for free lunch, I think is quite limited in this world. Not 100% cannot find. Just that the person that offer have any intention or not.

[Lauhuu]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Free lunch? NO such thingy. No matter what, the receiving party has to repay in kind either financial wise, physical wise or emotional wise. Whether its a true love relationship or transactional exchange one. There are bound to be an exchange of either any of the above mentioned. Its always a two way traffic

I used to have this signature. When a gal gives you it to you F.O.C. It just means FUCK ON CREDIT. You still need to pay back either with your time and effort or money. Sometimes you end up paying more than you bargain for.

Well said. Agreed. No such thing as free lunch! Sooner or later. Somehow it need to be paid back.

[curiouslala]

Originally Posted by alphonsus

If someone decides to do something, there is obviously a reason for it. He may or may want to say it, or even admit to himself the true reason.

However, it's not every instance that there must be a pure physical return (sex, money etc).

In return, they may just want some good company (non-sexual), a reason to get away, or that he really cares for the person.

hmm..
in your opinion, how cares until you want to help her?

Originally Posted by rainchezz

As a pragmatist, I feel that the concept of free doesn't exist in this world.
As some bros have pointed out, it's either in exchange of tangible benefits like cash or holidays or intangible ones like feelings.

I took gals (one at a time of course) for trips. They dun pay. Air tix on me, and of cuz, accom...with me. we do the usual stuff when I dun have meetings like watch movie, go to attractions, etc ... but the nights are always full of wonderful sex.

Free lunch ? If someone offers you one, either you must be careful or the other person is nuts.

cheers

this is my sentiments though.. sigh..

[cash88]

Oh, now then i know that i'm falling under the nuts section.

I just offer a free dinner last month.

Which I think most will not do it. Is ok to be nuts once in a while.

[maddog_mlvn]

I think I hv to join in the nut section, I dun mind buying a simple lunch or a few bottle of beers in hawker center, to a new friendship but no fancy resturant.

[sane]

Originally Posted by curiouslala

this world taught me one thing.
that there's no such things as FREE LUNCH.

anyway, do you believe that in this world there's a real FREE LUNCH?
with no obligation to repay back for the lunch? with money or even with sex?

have you do it before?
if yes, why do you give them FREE LUNCH?

thanks in advance for all answer..

I never believe in free lunch so i don't accept favours.

N i m always glad that I stick to this belief.

Someone has always been telling me that I m soooooo stuuuupid, how I wish I m really that stupid to believe everything.

[Camel]

The best things in life are free

[will88]

Unfortunately, not many ppl in this forum think that way. Just look at the number of thread started at the other section. Mostly looking for free fuck, some can even list down criteria on the kind of pussy they want. You can also see from the number of replies whenever a girl starts a threat. To me, this is simply pathetic.