Companionship

loster · #1 28-02-2005, 02:09 PM

Hi all,
Can anybody define for me companionship? my ex recently asked me to be her companion till she finds a bf. do u think its morally wrong to do this behind your gf. if u were me, wat would u do? btw no sexual actions are involved. thanks alot.

lawry · #2 28-02-2005, 02:14 PM

well depends..

if gal is a bitch.. meaning.. pls be her paymaster till she find a new paymaster.

if the gal is nice.. just someone that she can spend her extra time with.. go dutch.... since no sex...

Tai_zi21 · #3 28-02-2005, 02:20 PM

Well If The ger is nice Why Not? Juts Treat Her As a Gd friend and be there for her when she need u as a Friend lor! and since no sexual actions are involved! i think that should be ok lar! i mean even if u got gf or wife,doesn't mean u cannot have any gal friend rite?

diesel · #4 28-02-2005, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by loster

Can anybody define for me companionship? my ex recently asked me to be her companion till she finds a bf. do u think its morally wrong to do this behind your gf. if u were me, wat would u do? btw no sexual actions are involved. thanks alot.

You have been made "used" by her liao. The most important thing is, what do you get yourself in return from her? In the end, you waste time and money. Think carefully.

DavidCheng · #5 28-02-2005, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by loster

Hi all,
Can anybody define for me companionship?

Bro loster, according to the online dictionary, companionship is defined as:-
1. A pleasant association among people:
company, fellowship, society.
See connect, group.
2. The condition of being friends:
chumminess, closeness, comradeship, familiarity, fellowship, friendship, intimacy.
See love.

By the way, a dog or cat can also provide you companionship...

rahl · #6 28-02-2005, 09:42 PM

I would stay away from it, bro. Companionship without sex probably means lotsa shopping and whinning without any returns

xxpp_z · #7 28-02-2005, 10:05 PM

Maybe u just need to spend more time with your GF, or she means u should take her to shopping more.

asdfghjkl · #8 28-02-2005, 11:27 PM

paymaster.. correct term.. or even robert ler..

snipeshot08 · #9 01-03-2005, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by rahl

I would stay away from it, bro. Companionship without sex probably means lotsa shopping and whinning without any returns

Well I guess this bro's comment summarised it up the whole issue

(unless u say no sex but got chance to pet huh???

)

Cheers...

thaivisitor · #10 01-03-2005, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by loster

Hi all,
Can anybody define for me companionship? my ex recently asked me to be her companion till she finds a bf. do u think its morally wrong to do this behind your gf. if u were me, wat would u do? btw no sexual actions are involved. thanks alot.

Unless your ex defines it differently, companionship in this instance is being more than just normal friends in that you are able to consult, discuss and talk to each other on more subjects than normal friends. Nothing to do with lovers, just very good friends so what morality is involve here when you ask is it morally wrong since you specifically let us know no sex is involved?

Nbzzz all your ex wanted was for you both just to be good friends instead of just normal friends and you have to complicate matters here.

*sing* and "slap forehead"

lament · #11 01-03-2005, 12:21 PM

when i was in my teens, i experimented on this concept of "part-time" relationships with some of my friends....

whenever their full-time bf not around, i will be their bf ...... not much sex involved but got the occasional ones though .......

best of all, i know all their bf ......

if that guy do know wat goes on, they definitely will kill me .....

so wats companionship...platonic friendship between opposite sex is pretty rare ...... i had a close friendship with one for a few years but then 1 day I was in her place and we went a little 2 deep ....

so ask her wat she really wans .....

lawry · #12 01-03-2005, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

if that guy do know wat goes on, they definitely will kill me .....

if i so happens to have another viet gf.. will make her stay far far from u...

loster · #13 01-03-2005, 01:43 PM

all she wanted was like a part time bf to accompany her til she found a new one? btw still looks like a r/s except that no sex. gt hugs, care n concern etc. tat's y i was thinking whether it is wrong anot. cos was hugged by her yesterday.

SP2010 · #14 01-03-2005, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by loster

all she wanted was like a part time bf to accompany her til she found a new one? btw still looks like a r/s except that no sex. gt hugs, care n concern etc. tat's y i was thinking whether it is wrong anot. cos was hugged by her yesterday.

Perhaps u're on her stand-by or reserve list of preferred b/f .

digi · #15 07-03-2005, 12:08 AM

i guess she's the type of person that feels lonely easily and needs your company until she finds a new bf. but i think it'll unfair for you even if she doesn't ask you pay for her, coz what happens you develop feelings for her again and she finds someone new? she'll be free to move on and you'll be hanging on like an idiot. better not get into such a situation if you can help it.

just my two cents worth