Affection n touching

[Edyta]

When u are attracted to a female friend/colleague how do u show your affection physically? Sit close to her, touch her arms, back, shoulder etc? What's your fav?
When u are doing this, u get more of a girlfriend feeling or just have sex in your mind? Will you touch a woman you are not attracted to?

[Bangster]

I will buy her ice-cream, sit between her legs and start to finger her while she slurps off the cone

This is definitely a sex kind of feeling. Hahaha!!

Er....Nope I actually just wanna be friends with her.

[adventured]

If just get to know her, just smile and most of the times she will return the smile. Can greet her such as hello, morning etc.

When we get closer and more used to each other then touch/tap her shoulder, touch/stroke her hair (more like how your hair stylists touches your hair then you stroke a dog or baby lar).

Then maybe if she's comfortable can hug her. Esp when long time no see or wanna say goodbye etc and so on.

I usually don't see them as sex object.

Anyway it all depends on each individual. Everyone has their comfort level.

[sean69]

Originally Posted by Edyta

When u are attracted to a female friend/colleague how do u show your affection physically? Sit close to her, touch her arms, back, shoulder etc? What's your fav?
When u are doing this, u get more of a girlfriend feeling or just have sex in your mind? Will you touch a woman you are not attracted to?

usually when i walk past her desk, i will squeeze her boobs.. and when she walk past my desk, i will slap her butt...

for women that i not attracted to, i'll slap them and tell them to fuck off...


but in reality, i will maintain a clean and professional relationship with my female colleagues despite my secret and dark urges to throw them face down on the desk, rip off their panties and .... oh dear.. i jus revealed my darkest secret...

[acidicavex]

U single? Or married coz if you do that next you will posting that the gal or gals file a police report.

Althought in the mind you want to do it but in reality think twice. I always stare at the Milf in my office. Undressing them in my mind and banging them on the meeting table!

[RockHardnSolid]

Touching is a sign that both of u r comfortable with,each other..once either party starts giving gentle brushes on the hand or any other part of the body it means there is a high chance you.can take it to.the next.level..i personally wd rather let the.lady makes the first move..then its game on!

[Edyta]

I enjoy reading your replies. Fantasy plays a big part it seems. I ever had a male colleague admitting that he loves to look at my legs when i sit down cos my skirt rides up n he can imagine the rest, fantasizing abt what exactly he refused to tell me.

[RockHardnSolid]

Originally Posted by Edyta

I enjoy reading your replies. Fantasy plays a big part it seems. I ever had a male colleague admitting that he loves to look at my legs when i sit down cos my skirt rides up n he can imagine the rest, fantasizing abt what exactly he refused to tell me.

Haha..of,course he wont tell you..the thrill of the curiosity is what makes it more fun for you

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Edyta

I enjoy reading your replies. Fantasy plays a big part it seems. I ever had a male colleague admitting that he loves to look at my legs when i sit down cos my skirt rides up n he can imagine the rest, fantasizing abt what exactly he refused to tell me.

Well it look like you seem okie with such idea. Frankly if that happen somewhere else than it will turn into a another office sexual hassesment case. Not many gals no matter how comfort they are with their male colleague will let them get touchy. Unless the guy have this sissy style or female touch feminine nature than maybe he is treat like a sister.
But frankly no women will allow or even discuss or bother asking a colleague why he looking at them. They just feel disgusting......
Like I mention I admire my office Milf I would undress than in my mind. I had this disgusted look when one dressed very sexy for a occasion for a evening. My comment was "wow you looking stunning today and hot" she gave me this "u idiot look" and reply you mean I look like crap normally la..... Do I need to say more. Maybe I m poor and judging whether I can throw a compliment without sounding sleazy but I never meant anything else yes I admire her sexy figure n looks being a mother of 3. But there was no other day that I can pop such a compliment accept that particular day with her all dress up. And somehow it sound sleazy to her as it I trying to make a pass at her.
If I have u as my colleague I would compliment you everyday .

[sean69]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

. But there was no other day that I can pop such a compliment accept that particular day with her all dress up. And somehow it sound sleazy to her as it I trying to make a pass at her.

there can only be one explanation... u must be as ugly as i am!! ...

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by sean69

there can only be one explanation... u must be as ugly as i am!! ...

No no I am plus have sleazy look hahahahahahahaha well that why I say can only be in the mind!!!! Cannot open the mouth!!

[milford]

If you have entertainment allowance and she is your office colleagues. You may wanna treat her lunch at a hotel followed by a quickie upstairs and later go back to work. You are very efficient because you eat and play during office hours and using company money.

[sean69]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

No no I am plus have sleazy look hahahahahahahaha well that why I say can only be in the mind!!!! Cannot open the mouth!!

ahh.. i know why cannot open mouth.. cos you will drool right??

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by sean69

ahh.. i know why cannot open mouth.. cos you will drool right??

No no drool will make me look retard now we don't want a potential to deem us retard right? hahaha

Cannot open mouth coz for fear nothing good will come out Chinese saying 狗嘴里展不出象牙

[Edyta]

Compliments like nice dress, looks good are always nice to hear, most women like them when its delivered with sincerity. As for reacting with disgust, maybe the woman is shy. For me everything in moderation is ok, my reply would likely be a simple thank u, u look great too.