Husband that dont like Sex after giving birth

[Gandilf82]

Hi fellow people,

I have this friend who met this problem which i dont understand her husband even though i am a guy.

She complained that her husband dont like having sex or very tough to be aroused after they had a child.

It seemed that she has a much higher sex drive but her husband cant or dont provide her anymore so she has to find pleasure elsewhere, ending up feeling very guilty about it and thoughts of suicidal came into her mind.

Any advice would be appreciated.

[sta1100]

Maybe he has seen his wife give birth, and lost the mood for sex

[BigLad]

Her husband no longer finds it exciting to have sex with her anymore. So he eats out.

[chinjinjiang]

oic... that is bad... they should satisfy each others sexual need... they need counseling...

[Misunderstood]

Originally Posted by Gandilf82

It seemed that she has a much higher sex drive but her husband cant or dont provide her anymore so she has to find pleasure elsewhere, ending up feeling very guilty about it and thoughts of suicidal came into her mind.

Any advice would be appreciated.

He must had gotten used to the flowery world outside during the 9 months of pregnancy thus lost interest with the one at home.

Some women after pregnancy will become hornier, its a blessing for the faithful man but a curse for the unfaithful ones.

[IkNowUdeSireMe]

Originally Posted by BigLad

Her husband no longer finds it exciting to have sex with her anymore. So he eats out.

He most likely has eaten out and prefer outside food already.

[TonyLeung]

Originally Posted by Misunderstood

He must had gotten used to the flowery world outside during the 9 months of pregnancy thus lost interest with the one at home.

Some women after pregnancy will become hornier, its a blessing for the faithful man but a curse for the unfaithful ones.

i am not sure if you can put the blame entirely on the man because after the wife gives birth, she has to take care of the child for another stressful 3 to 6 months. sometimes she forgets that besides being the mother to the child, she also the wife of a man.

[naturegreen]

Originally Posted by TonyLeung

i am not sure if you can put the blame entirely on the man because after the wife gives birth, she has to take care of the child for another stressful 3 to 6 months. sometimes she forgets that besides being the mother to the child, she also the wife of a man.

Totally agree! But it's not easy having to be both a mother and wife at the same time so do give them credit.

[Botakhead]

Just all excuses larh, although I too eat outside, during my wife's 4 pregnancies, at the end of the day, I still go back and give her my love, my sex, my money.

It all cums down to how you handle the situations, be warned not every husband and wife behaves the same. Must be careful with emotions, do not play and leave trails behind, if not you will be in for a lot of trouble.

I honestly think that she should find out from her husband regarding the disinterest in having sex with her after childbirth. Is she a nagging wife, because, he may have no mood after her constant nagging. Sumtimes must have contact with each other to built up the intimacy tempo, slowly upgrade to cuddling, then of course, the baby may cry at certain point of time, get him to help out by asking nicely, don't fret and flare up, blaming won't help.

End of day we all just wants to be satisfied.

[Xgenre]

Always wanted to ask this. Besides seeing a purple and bloody head coming out from your wife's vagina, how does it smell in the delivery room? People also always joke about guys fainting in the delivery room. Do you know of any guys who fainted?

Perhaps the trauma from witnessing child birth is putting him off sex. Some of our grandparents have 10-20 kids. I think that high number of children is only possible because the grandfather wasn't made to witness the process of childbirth 10-20 times. Ladies should re-think and not force guys to go in to see what the ladies themselves can't see.

I like to fuck backside but it doesn't mean I love to watch you shit.

[Gandilf82]

What i had understand is he still have sex with her if she wants it sometimes but he is skipping all the foreplay.

Leaving behind a unsextified wife.

[jameschong1]

Originally Posted by Gandilf82

What i had understand is he still have sex with her if she wants it sometimes but he is skipping all the foreplay.

Leaving behind a unsextified wife.

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maybe he very sian to look at a big untidy hole after his wife give birth?

[hellogirls]

She can go eat outside, or with u. Then the hubby can do so too. Solve the problem

[Gandilf82]

Advice accepted but i feel bad in taking advantage of the situation though.

I believe she has this intention

[iswift]

Ts, could it be a hint to u ?
Seldom gal will tell others (guys) that they are not sextify at home.
This could well be a start to a FB relationship... Juz try your luck and push a little further.