Sexually deprived and neglected

[conman]

Ever since my wife gave birth, I can hardly touch her. Only had sex 3 times in 4 months. We quarrel almost everyday cos of the baby. Even I wanna get intimate, she will tell me she is tired. I feel so sick and tired. How I wish I was single!

[boyzilian]

Originally Posted by conman

Ever since my wife gave birth, I can hardly touch her. Only had sex 3 times in 4 months. We quarrel almost everyday cos of the baby. Even I wanna get intimate, she will tell me she is tired. I feel so sick and tired. How I wish I was single!

So when she is pregnant for 9 months, how did u release? tahan or fl?

[conman]

Tahan and DIY la. Just feel that women can be so selfish at times. Before marriage and after marriage totally 2 different attitude.

[DreamOfLust]

Maybe she is too caught up with the baby? It can be really tiring taking care of a baby...

[sky_liner2]

Originally Posted by conman

Ever since my wife gave birth, I can hardly touch her. Only had sex 3 times in 4 months. We quarrel almost everyday cos of the baby. Even I wanna get intimate, she will tell me she is tired. I feel so sick and tired. How I wish I was single!

This could be Post-Natal Blues bro.......do some study on it, mostly men have to give in and accomodate with wives.

[adzeman]

You are not alone. When there is no food at home I just eat out. No need to complain.

[nicetongue]

Originally Posted by conman

Ever since my wife gave birth, I can hardly touch her. Only had sex 3 times in 4 months. We quarrel almost everyday cos of the baby. Even I wanna get intimate, she will tell me she is tired. I feel so sick and tired. How I wish I was single!

bro, 3 times in 4 mths and u r already complaining??

how will u feel if u got none for 9 years?!?!?

[conman]

I'm sure it's not post natal blues but it's a relegation of importance of my position. Anyway I'll settle it myself. Don't wanna feel like a beggar begging for sex. Sex is an important part of marriage life but most Asian women simply bochap.

[owl888]

Girls -> woman -> mother......so moving to another chapter in life. Good luck TS!

[ah rat]

Ts,must be Post-Natal.Bring her to consult doctor. As the same time,talk to her nicely that u need satisfy having sex

[devilchan78]

Post natal can be long term

[xxFTOxx]

Originally Posted by boyzilian

So when she is pregnant for 9 months, how did u release? tahan or fl?

Wah 9 years ah...how to tahan like tat sia. Sure go kee siaoz one...this is another reason why I shun marriage...a totally non-existant sex life

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by xxFTOxx

Sure go kee siaoz one...this is another reason why I shun marriage...a totally non-existant sex life

Bro,so u prepare to be lonely when u old

[sean69]

Originally Posted by conman

Ever since my wife gave birth, I can hardly touch her. Only had sex 3 times in 4 months. We quarrel almost everyday cos of the baby. Even I wanna get intimate, she will tell me she is tired. I feel so sick and tired. How I wish I was single!

I think you are a sorry excuse for a man!!!.. come on, she suffered for 9 months to bring you a kid and now all u can complain is you are not getting any release??!!!

of cos she is tired.. a new born baby needs to be fed every 3-4 hours.. not to mention the changing of diapers and the crying etc etc..

did you help out to take care of the baby??

I do not the full story, not sure if your wife is working and taking care of the baby after work.. even if she is a full time home-maker, it is a very stressful job to take care of a new born especially if this is your first kid..

instead of complaining, try to see things from her position!!..

[handsomekidz]

Originally Posted by conman

Ever since my wife gave birth, I can hardly touch her. Only had sex 3 times in 4 months. We quarrel almost everyday cos of the baby. Even I wanna get intimate, she will tell me she is tired. I feel so sick and tired. How I wish I was single!

Just endure lo ... no other alternative for you also