Seeking a more mature women to start a discreet relationship

stiffener · #1 10-06-2012, 11:50 PM

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a older women or married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me. I looking for someone who has an friendly character, who is willing to share what she knows and good if we can tkss also. I am able to understand if she can't get away or if she is not free to meet up.

Any willing parties???

babyrex16 · #2 11-06-2012, 09:27 AM

Hi there my friend.. Base on your age, you should have a lot of friends n oppuntunity where U can invest a strong n healthy relationship in. So think U shouldn't have thoughts that could ruin another female's family n disgrace yourself ahould the affair comes to light.. Imagine many years later when U found your spouse doin this to you. How would U feel? Jus my thoughts k? No offense to all.

stiffener · #3 11-06-2012, 12:58 PM

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.

Either way, any sister interested?

hcg_explorer · #4 11-06-2012, 03:41 PM

this is ur excuse... u r fear to start in a relationship and NO FEAR to have a discreet relationship... wat u talking... so immature

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Originally Posted by stiffener

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.

Either way, any sister interested?

Bebeque · #5 11-06-2012, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by stiffener

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.

Either way, any sister interested?

Go find your special one as you are still young. There are plenty of lonely and single girls out there!!!

Don't start a relationship with an older female because you were cheated.

If this is the way you want to take your revenge...it will only bring more problems for yourself.

notti4u · #6 11-06-2012, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by stiffener

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a older women or married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me. I looking for someone who has an friendly character, who is willing to share what she knows and good if we can tkss also. I am able to understand if she can't get away or if she is not free to meet up.

Any willing parties???

you are 22yrs old and yet looking for a married woman? My thoughts, what type of advice you can give them if they share abt their family woes to you? I think they will be in return taking care of you. Move ahead and dun let the past affect you. Uncle advise you not to dwell in the past, you will never be able to stand up and get involved in another relationship with girls around ur same age.

Coolman69 · #7 11-06-2012, 05:20 PM

U think eaily to get a woman here for free ?

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #8 11-06-2012, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by stiffener

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a older women or married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me. I looking for someone who has an friendly character, who is willing to share what she knows and good if we can tkss also. I am able to understand if she can't get away or if she is not free to meet up.

Any willing parties???

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Originally Posted by stiffener

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.
Either way, any sister interested?

You cai cheated on you with a married man?

Think you must make up your mind what you want to do: Seek revenge or Seek New Love.

There is no either way apart from a sob story to gain sympathy-fuck!

(Don't waste your youth on revenge, get even or with an unhealthy affair with a lao cai or married woman, you still young, go enjoy life, don't give up a forest for an unworthy tree leaf. Seriously there are plently of SYT meimeis in town and HDB hubs, there's no such thing as who cannot live without who in a 20something relationship)

Anyway, nowadays lao cai also not free, you know

sta1100 · #9 11-06-2012, 05:56 PM

Hi Boy

You are 22, still have a long long to go, look for a younger one, unless you are 30+ still unwanted they you may consider looking for a mature lady.

stiffener · #10 11-06-2012, 06:40 PM

Ya Lou my ex cai go bed some other random guy that she first time knew in a club (shall not mention which) then I got to know of it cause she comfided in a common friend. I asked her if that really happened and she of course say no la. Then I LAN LAN also cause I hear say only no evidence. But on that night, she break with me. After a few months then l got to know actually is got alot of witness on scene to prove it also.

Anyways I have moved on from her and wish her the best but I seriously don't really have confidence in love so find some1 for discreet relationship loh...I find more mature women cause they at least more understanding bahs. Able to understand what it's like to go through what I went through?

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #11 11-06-2012, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by stiffener

Ya Lou my ex cai go bed some other random guy that she first time knew in a club (shall not mention which) then I got to know of it cause she comfided in a common friend. I asked her if that really happened and she of course say no la. Then I LAN LAN also cause I hear say only no evidence. But on that night, she break with me. After a few months then l got to know actually is got alot of witness on scene to prove it also. - but all tried to hide the facts from you?

Seems like you need not only a new SYT cai but a whole new group of cheong kakis

stiffener · #12 11-06-2012, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Seems like you need not only a new SYT cai but a whole new group of cheong kakis

Ya I need to rejoin the world with different eyes with all the bros here. Need go out tkss with you guys soon

Bebeque · #13 11-06-2012, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by stiffener

Ya Lou my ex cai go bed some other random guy that she first time knew in a club (shall not mention which) then I got to know of it cause she comfided in a common friend. I asked her if that really happened and she of course say no la. Then I LAN LAN also cause I hear say only no evidence. But on that night, she break with me. After a few months then l got to know actually is got alot of witness on scene to prove it also.

Anyways I have moved on from her and wish her the best but I seriously don't really have confidence in love so find some1 for discreet relationship loh...I find more mature women cause they at least more understanding bahs. Able to understand what it's like to go through what I went through?

Bro, statistically speaking, a younger chai will have less life experience, but also less time to encounter life problems as well.

Older chai may be more mature, maybe more understanding, more caring, etc, etc. But then, she will likely to have more life problems as well.

What makes you think that once you have a discreet relationship with an older chai, her problems will not become your problems? For example, $$$$, children, sickness, etc, etc. You can say that these are not your problems and ignore them? and then older chai will in turn off her charms and if your emotions are involved then, see how you are going to avoid a trauma thereafter. You end up being hurt all over again and more seriously, believe it or not.

Purpose of comments above is not to discourage you from seeking young chai or old chai, but just remind you that don't just because of one bad episode and you turn your attention in another direction, which you may not have the life experiences to handle appropriately.

Nothing comes free, there is always a price to pay for whatever you choose...the higher the grade or supposedly better chai will come with a higher price for you.

babyrex16 · #14 11-06-2012, 07:16 PM

You are stil young.. Your world may not be the same as someone who's much elder than you.. Even if U were to come across such a person. Relationship like this usually dun last and worst still, it might hurt you n the lady further in the future when feelings are involved.. So if U are not sure whether can U handle it. Dun start in the first place. Our small little Singapore is stil filled with really nice n caring gals. You just need to find them..

stiffener · #15 11-06-2012, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Seems like you need not only a new SYT cai but a whole new group of cheong kakis

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Originally Posted by babyrex16

You are stil young.. Your world may not be the same as someone who's much elder than you.. Even if U were to come across such a person. Relationship like this usually dun last and worst still, it might hurt you n the lady further in the future when feelings are involved.. So if U are not sure whether can U handle it. Dun start in the first place. Our small little Singapore is stil filled with really nice n caring gals. You just need to find them..

That's y it's important that she and me are both able to handle this secret and must be able to draw the line. As for the future problems, no 1 can really promise that in another attempt at a relationship will not have it problems. I'm not trying to avoid problems and I want to be there to overcome the problems with her. But what I'm saying is that at least for now, I'm not ready to start a new relationship