Double Standards

Darina · #1 14-03-2012, 08:32 PM

I know that most men cannot accept it if their gf/wife plays the field even though they might be doing it themselves.

Anyway, what would you do if you found out your gf/wife is playing the field?

Just curious

sinner1234 · #2 14-03-2012, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Darina

I know that most men cannot accept it if their gf/wife plays the field even though they might be doing it themselves.

Anyway, what would you do if you found out your gf/wife is playing the field?

Just curious

Dear sis darina.......hmmm curious? I am curious to know y u curious. Care to share y u r curious?.

Anywy.... To me most likely red card and "suspended" for life..... Wana play..... Dnt get caught.... Once caught...... Love game stop.....

Women do have their dble stds...... Guess this type of "fidelity"..... Man take it more seriously bah.....

Darina · #3 14-03-2012, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by sinner1234

Dear bro darina.......hmmm curious? I am curious to know y u curious. Care to share y u r curious?.

Anywy.... To me most likely red card and "suspended" for life..... Wana play..... Dnt get caught.... Once caught...... Love game stop.....

I'm a sis, not a bro.
Just wondering only.

What if she started playing because she knows you have been playing outside? Maybe it's for revenge?

Tai_zi21 · #4 14-03-2012, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Darina

I'm a sis, not a bro.
Just wondering only.

What if she started playing because she knows you have been playing outside? Maybe it's for revenge?

Revenge? but wat has the guy got to lose? but for the gal... dun think it worth it if she is just out for revenge only....

Darina · #5 14-03-2012, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Revenge? but wat has the guy got to lose? but for the gal... dun think it worth it if she is just out for revenge only....

Well I'm just using revenge as an example. Might not be the reason like she does it for attention or whatever reason.

I think a lot of girls these days don't see it as losing anything since you only lose yr virginity once seriously, plus sex is mutual enjoyment.

Of course the stigma of a girl sleeping around and a guy sleeping around is very different though I think these days it is to a much lesser degree.

whiplash · #6 14-03-2012, 08:58 PM

Dear Sis,

In the wise words of King Monkut (the musical the king and I).
A bee goes from flower to flower. But a flower dont go from bee to bee.

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Originally Posted by Darina

I know that most men cannot accept it if their gf/wife plays the field even though they might be doing it themselves.

Anyway, what would you do if you found out your gf/wife is playing the field?

Just curious

sinner1234 · #7 14-03-2012, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Darina

I'm a sis, not a bro.
Just wondering only.

What if she started playing because she knows you have been playing outside? Maybe it's for revenge?

dear sis darina,

Apologise for the wrong gender addressing then.....

Wonder?.... Oh then.... I wonder how.... i wonder why.... Ysdae you told me abt blue blue "guy"........ N all tht i can see....... Its just a little lemon tree( sour with jealousy).......

I did think abt the pt tht it was a revenge act before putting up my first post........
Well...... Even if its for revenge....Still the same.... "tackle from behind" (in soccer terms)= red card.

Darina · #8 14-03-2012, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by whiplash

Dear Sis,

In the wise words of King Monkut (the musical the king and I).
A bee goes from flower to flower. But a flower dont go from bee to bee.

Lol good analogy but a flower can be visited by many bees and still a flower

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Originally Posted by sinner1234

dear sis darina,

Apologise for the wrong gender addressing then.....

Wonder?.... Oh then.... I wonder how.... i wonder why.... Ysdae you told me abt blue blue "guy"........ N all tht i can see....... Its just a little lemon tree( sour with jealousy).......

I did think abt the pt tht it was a revenge act before putting up my first post........
Well...... Even if its for revenge....Still the same.... "tackle from behind" (in soccer terms)= red card.

Hence the double standards still. So basically it's ok for the guy to screw around and his partner should suck it up (depending on the girl) but it's not ok if she does the same.

Btw, my act of revenge would be racking up a huge bill on his credit card

I get more pleasure that way

and he feels the pinch

whiplash · #9 14-03-2012, 09:20 PM

Ah so, now we are clear why you ask.

You might as well make him do corrective work order (CWO) while you are at it.

sinner1234 · #10 14-03-2012, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by whiplash

Dear Sis,

In the wise words of King Monkut (the musical the king and I).
A bee goes from flower to flower. But a flower dont go from bee to bee.

Wise indeed..... I like the phrase and its an apt reply to knock off the tag of dble std.....

Complimenting the ladies as flowers...... Then we are the "suckers" so we should do the "dirty" n tough job of flying around the keep everyone happy..... ;p

Aside to sis darina, will get back to ya on this discussion later....... Allow me to excuse myself..... ;p.... Kinda difficult to carry on with hndphne nia...... ;p

Darina · #11 14-03-2012, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by whiplash

Ah so, now we are clear why you ask.

You might as well make him do corrective work order (CWO) while you are at it.

Oh no nothing to do with my guy. Just a thought only due to a conversation with some friends.

I mean they aren't angels but they expect their partners to be, hence my topic

aseandude · #12 14-03-2012, 09:42 PM

What's the point?

Make a person angry by doing something he did.

He sleeps around, you sleep around.

Don't do it if you don't like it, it shows you care if you did it on purpose to anger him.

The question here is monogamy.

It may be required for a perfect marriage, but in words of wisdom nothing is perfect.

The answer is balance, can it be achieved. Can you accept the pros and cons of the person you are tied to.

This goes vice versa.

Ps: by mentioning "you" here above does not imply you are the one. Its all hypothetical.

Just my 2 cents of commend.

Do take it with a pitch of salt.

whiplash · #13 14-03-2012, 09:48 PM

Actually if you think about this, monogamy is very much a western concept. In the East we practice polygamy till late in the 20th century.

Regarding a flower having many bees but remaining a flower.

After many bees the flower might wither but the bee remains fat and free......

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Originally Posted by Darina

Oh no nothing to do with my guy. Just a thought only due to a conversation with some friends.

I mean they aren't angels but they expect their partners to be, hence my topic

aseandude · #14 14-03-2012, 10:06 PM

Whiplash,

After the late 20th century the women in the east got smarter,

They are voicing, if the man wants them to commit they can't accept man being polygamous.

Women have started to fight for equality hence, what men can do they want to prove they can do as well if not better.

Therefore, they start to question reasons for infidelity.

Perhaps its all in the hormones and instinct kicks in. If its the guy's nature being so, the more the wife controls the more stress he gets or the more/better he will lie and cover his tracks.

Nuff said, girls are beginning to be like boys as well.

You'll know if you dated a playgirl.

Darina · #15 14-03-2012, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by whiplash

Actually if you think about this, monogamy is very much a western concept. In the East we practice polygamy till late in the 20th century.

Regarding a flower having many bees but remaining a flower.

After many bees the flower might wither but the bee remains fat and free......

Just be sure that the flower does not belong to the Pitcher Plant