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20-01-2012, 07:15 AM
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Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
Been many years together, he just left me without a good reason..
 We eat together, sleep together, play together......WHY. He left TOGETHER with our saving!!!!Why why Why???? Life life life.....full of why why why?? 
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20-01-2012, 07:23 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
Sorry to hear that gal, but the hard fact is that your BOY had ran away for good since he took all the money you two had saved together as well.
Don't need to question why gal! Just ask yourself this! Will you forgive him and take him back? He might be with another gal right now, spending your money on her. If no, the hatre or detest will guide you through and out this rough patch because HE is not worth it. If yes! you are doomed for failure again. Stand up and walk on.
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#3
20-01-2012, 07:25 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
He's not worth it. Just took your money and run away means he's eye-ing your money all along. Just forget that worthless guy.
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#7
20-01-2012, 08:00 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
Sorry to hear that, just forget about him and goes on with your life. Rememeber, if you didn't get what you want, you deserve something better! It is a blessing in disguise as you will not spend the rest of your life with someone who don't deserve and appreciate you. Cheers!
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#8
20-01-2012, 08:25 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
Hi Sis, I hope you can recover faster...asking Yu nt to be sad is impossible as I know how deep he hurt...but please recover urself and take care of urself...look at the brighter side, at least he do this now...imagine after you both are married and he throw you with debts and children and run away wither money...that is worst...pick urself up and run faster on the future...all the brothers here will support you morally...
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#9
20-01-2012, 08:36 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
Yup I agree from what the othere guys said , hope you recover soon , hey if you need some one to talk to or drinking buddy you can pm me even we don't know each othere im a good listener
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#10
20-01-2012, 08:40 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
Hi lady,
What u have gone through is common in all the era and I have no doubt some of the bros/sis here have also experienced such things... One of ex-gf just disappeared into thin air during our relationship... even though she does not take all my $... it has a big impact on me that makes me doubt my abilities that time... You would be thinking of this thing many times and would have mixed feelings... anger... frustration... sad... u will feel inferior... but do let it go... Only when u let it go that u can really walk out of the dark... It is his loss to leave u... he has missed out a lady who is willing to go through thick and thin with him... u can't really find a partner like this in this society where many are more materialistic... This also helps u to see a good person who is willing to stand by u in time to come... do talk to your family and close friends... I would be more worried than u... $ lost is just a lesson learnt... don't have any negative thoughts of taking his or your life.... not worth it... Most probably u would take a few mths to go into normal routine again and to get over it might take some time... but still, stand up and show him u would not be beaten down... make him regret leaving u by living a more productive life! Cheer up!
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20-01-2012, 08:50 AM
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20-01-2012, 09:01 AM
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20-01-2012, 09:06 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
You will probably never know why but it should not matter.
His walking away is surely devastating and the emotional pain on the mental psyche can tear at you from the inside out, outside in and all over again. Nip it in the bud. Acknowledge what he has done, come to terms with it, grief it even be angry about it but tell yourself you are a better person w/o your bf. You have to be, you have other people who care for you, your parents for example, your siblings if any and surely you have friends who will stand by you no matter what happens. If you are lacking friends or have this doubt that makes you wonder if you still have friends maybe it's because you have spent your lives being too much involved with each other and as such neglected your friends, in that case, call out to them for support. Those that care for you will be there for you. Else, make new friends! As the Irish like to think, A stranger is only a friend you have not met. The money lost can be earned back. Sure, it takes time but still it will be back. What you cannot lose is yourself, once you lose yourself you lose everything! Live your live better than you have ever before. Be a better child of your parents, a better sibling, a better professional at work and a better friend. cut out the emotional and mental anguish that can only slow you down. Last and surely not least, wise up from this experience, take the pain as a battle scar. Remember of this episode but do not let it colour your life. Open your eyes to a better someone. Someone who would love and care for you for what you are worth and whom you can trust to put your head on his shoulders when you are down. I hope for your own sake you embark on a better adventure hereon and never look back.
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#15
20-01-2012, 09:07 AM
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Re: Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!
The best is for you to move on with yr life , I am sure in the beginning it will hurt. Let time heal ur wounds. Is not worth for you
To feel sad over that sort of guy
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