Rejected until buay tahan

edwardlim · #1 16-08-2011, 09:05 AM

Very disappointed and sad. I'm already 25 and yet no gf til now. got rejected twice, missed out on confession once..

Did everything i could, consult so many people tat i can think of. end up just fail n fail.. I'm average looking, tall, got stable job, humorous. But gals just keep telling me that we should remain as good friend.. very emo...

i'm so pissed that i just feel like going around engaging FL service n give up on relationship already.

AmeShin · #2 16-08-2011, 09:13 AM

Cheer up bro

At all means if u like perhaps chat with me on phone?
Since u say u average looks stable job

Then only either the courting process not ideal or sometimes just the looks fail a bit to them but definitely not all gals

Cheer up

Btw i am a straight so no worries

edwardlim · #3 16-08-2011, 09:20 AM

thanx ameshin... it's ok, i chatted with few other close female friends about it le... it's really sad. even the best friend of the gal i like supported me, but she is also helpless in this case..

cuscorex92 · #4 16-08-2011, 09:21 AM

TS,ur last sentence sounded like u juz wana look for a 'gf' so to hv free serv. no offence....

tanhockgin · #5 16-08-2011, 09:29 AM

Sent you a PM.

MarsIswar · #6 16-08-2011, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by edwardlim

Very disappointed and sad. I'm already 25 and yet no gf til now. got rejected twice, missed out on confession once..

Did everything i could, consult so many people tat i can think of. end up just fail n fail.. I'm average looking, tall, got stable job, humorous. But gals just keep telling me that we should remain as good friend.. very emo...

i'm so pissed that i just feel like going around engaging FL service n give up on relationship already.

Dude what your is your what not will never be... It only a matter of time that mrs right will appear, dun give up and never say die, look forward and you will not know wat will happen the next very moment.. All the best good luck Prost

Benong1975 · #7 16-08-2011, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by edwardlim

Very disappointed and sad. I'm already 25 and yet no gf til now. got rejected twice, missed out on confession once..

Did everything i could, consult so many people tat i can think of. end up just fail n fail.. I'm average looking, tall, got stable job, humorous. But gals just keep telling me that we should remain as good friend.. very emo...

i'm so pissed that i just feel like going around engaging FL service n give up on relationship already.

Yo bro,be a man,stand up n fight again..sure one day u will gain it...

Taisho75 · #8 16-08-2011, 09:49 AM

Dun worry, young man. It all about trying....

I was like that and got rejected many times and missed on 2 who told me I stood a chance if I acted earlier(dunno if they want me to squeeze balls).

After you get rejected many times, you will be numb to rejection and move on to another 1. Get to know them as friends first and if anyone get positive "returns"(like can ask her out individually instead of group), then work on it. You will end up with 1 eventually...

Never set your standard too high.... Just remember pretty girls are harder to get as they know they are not short of suitors...go for the normal looking ones...

edwardlim · #9 16-08-2011, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by fourhorseman

you r not v humorous in this post. and I dun understand how you are 25 this year and only get rejected 2x. I mean, which cave have you been hiding inside?

because i took very long to get over a gal. The one in sec sch, even after she's attached, it took me another 2-3 yrs to get over.. But since i go uni, i would try to find a diff gal each yr but fail. v emo

newbieb0y · #10 16-08-2011, 09:57 AM

Edward bro, never give up on this. It's just the matter of time. I'm sure you will find your Mrs Right. I seriously can understand how you feel about this issue. I, myself, also facing this problem. But I learned a lot before, 'Kan kai yi dian'. Like I mentioned it before, time is all it takes.

Cheer up, bro. =)

waiwaiz · #11 16-08-2011, 10:02 AM

u muz be those easily emo n super glue kind of guys.....Gers hate superglue bf.

1nottiboy · #12 16-08-2011, 10:03 AM

If you are looking for true love, then I guess you don't have much of a choice. It is important that you look for someone you love and who loves you in return.

But you are posting in a sex forum, so my guess is that you are just looking for sex. If so, then just aim for lower targets. You may deem yourself "average" but to the gals you wanna screw, you may be less than "average".

Take my case for example. For me, SG gals are hard to bed, so I aim for the big breasted with less than average looks. If I wanna screw pretty gals, then I aim for TKBs. They respond better to money.

In a nutshell, whether you are "good", "average", or "lousy" is relative to the gal you wanna screw. It is not what you think you are that counts. It is what she thinks you are worth that counts.

matchbox- · #13 16-08-2011, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by edwardlim

Very disappointed and sad. I'm already 25 and yet no gf til now. got rejected twice, missed out on confession once..

Did everything i could, consult so many people tat i can think of. end up just fail n fail.. I'm average looking, tall, got stable job, humorous. But gals just keep telling me that we should remain as good friend.. very emo...

i'm so pissed that i just feel like going around engaging FL service n give up on relationship already.

bro, im sorry to hear your plight. But i think something you said must be untrue here. If you are normal looking, have a stable job and humorous, not possible you cant find a gf. unless you are setting your standards too high. like what bro Taisho75 mentioned, pretty girls are harder to get.

anyway, you have to discover the secret of getting girls by yourself, no one can teach you because everyone has different style. also, you have to learn to move on quickly, time is short, the more time you waste emo-ing on a girl who rejected you, the higher the opportunity cost.

All the best bro, cheers !

edwardlim · #14 16-08-2011, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Taisho75

Dun worry, young man. It all about trying....

I was like that and got rejected many times and missed on 2 who told me I stood a chance if I acted earlier(dunno if they want me to squeeze balls).

After you get rejected many times, you will be numb to rejection and move on to another 1. Get to know them as friends first and if anyone get positive "returns"(like can ask her out individually instead of group), then work on it. You will end up with 1 eventually...

Never set your standard too high.... Just remember pretty girls are harder to get as they know they are not short of suitors...go for the normal looking ones...

yes i'm going for all those normal looking one already. What i'm looking out for is someone whom i'm comfortable n nice to chat with. n must be demure. i asked many gals out individually before already, but til now, i can't actually get ANY of them to be my gf. got rejected again n again. damn sick of gals liao

edwardlim · #15 16-08-2011, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by 1nottiboy

If you are looking for true love, then I guess you don't have much of a choice. It is important that you look for someone you love and who loves you in return.

But you are posting in a sex forum, so my guess is that you are just looking for sex. If so, then just aim for lower targets. You may deem yourself "average" but to the gals you wanna screw, you may be less than "average".

Take my case for example. For me, SG gals are hard to bed, so I aim for the big breasted with less than average looks. If I wanna screw pretty gals, then I aim for TKBs. They respond better to money.

In a nutshell, whether you are "good", "average", or "lousy" is relative to the gal you wanna screw. It is not what you think you are that counts. It is what she thinks you are worth that counts.

what is TBK? Yes i'm looking for sex here liao. since i lost all hope on getting a proper gf