Question regarding my gf's first time

[davionang]

I'm not a virgin, my current gf is. Today we tried penetration, it seems that the factors are present (she was wet and I was erected and lubricated). I have no problem inserting 2 fingers into her. However when I enter, I seem to hit around halfway and she immediately pulls me out due to extreme pain.

We rested awhile and tried again but to no avail, then didn't bother after that. There wasn't any blood coming out. Now she's saying that it hurts very bad and she can't even touch it..

Anyone able to provide help on this issue? Would appreciate very much. TIA

[steven25]

Bro, I have 5 rs before and 3 of them were virgin. I can tell you, there is only one way which is thrust fully inside but in a slow and I mean really slow motion.. Then the whole process must slowly in and out till she feel comfortable.. And after the first time, most prolly she will like it. But if first experience too pain, she might have phobia

[arsenal_84]

go in as slowly as possible.
increase the pace only when she is comfortable.

[evo5speakers]

I had the same problem when i tried to penetrate my gf for the first time! despite her being horny and wet, it was only that far she was willing to take the pain to.

like what other forummers have mentioned in other posts, take it slow and distract her from the pain through kissing.. whatever.. and slowly attempt to go deeper and deeper each time..

[owl888]

Try a smaller dick .......... i mean use a dildo

[doomvell13]

u might want her to be on the top, letting her spread her legs really wide like giving birth like that

[MoralEthics]

I'm not sure if you are the lucky one or me. None of my previous gfs were virgins. The 1st time I made love to each & everyone of them was most loud & ecstatic! Pure pleasure, no pain!

[r0cksteady]

The next time you do it, let her be on top. She will have more confidence that way since it will be in her control and this will enable her to go more.

Instead, when you go missionary, you pin her down and she might feel in a compromised position with no choice. When she's on top... good chance she will break her own barriers, at least for first few times. She might say she don't know how or what to do, just tell her to put yours in and lower herself. Nothing complicated.

As other bros pointed out, the more you do it, the further you can get with her. It's about managing her fear and how painful it actually is for her.

Since she is giving her virginity to you, I guess you are somebody to her. Treat her well.

Off-topic: Don't get paranoid and over-possessive. Some girls find the boyfriends turning into overly possesive and controlling after their first-times and therefore, cannot handle the relationship. Don't fall into the same ditches.
Give her the same freedom and space as before you had sex, that's what she likes about you and that's what makes her comfortable enough to go this far with you.

Good luck!

[(o)(o) Tuner]

The best position to start off with is the missionary position. Insert and penetrate slowly. At the same time suck and bite her nipple to divert her attention.

[bonkster]

Keep slapping her cheeks and ask her "who's your daddy?"...that ought to distract her