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fabiann · #1 13-01-2011, 01:49 PM

hello bros... juz wanna seek wats u opnion on this stiuation...

i went to a few TD and hang flowers all that.. and when i went to 1 of the RD there is this dancer caught my eye.. and that TD i went most of the mangers know who am i blah blah all that... i am not a big fish nor a small fish...

so i hang flowers for her.. and we start to talk and talk... and i dont go down on a reg basis.. sometimes 1 week 3 or 4 times.. sometimes i dont go at all.. and everytime i go she will always come and find me.. and NEVER once she did ask flowers from me.. and i dont always give her too...

so after 1 week plus of talking to her, we went to hotel... and u shld know wat happen la... we did went hotel like 1 week once or twice... and i did think if she can go with me easily to hotel, why not other customers right?

so i did a test on her.. using MONEY.. i told her i no money liao.. ask her can borrow me 1k anot.. she say ok... 1 week later i borrowed another 2k, which she later reduced to 1k cuz she said she need to send money to her parents... so total is 2k she loan to me... and this money is still with me till today, and i have not spent a single cent on it...

but now her calls to me is lesser and lesser and when ever i go down there, she still will go back with me.. she gave me the reason cuz she working she need to make more flowers...

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now...

teebs_darklord · #2 13-01-2011, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by fabiann

hello bros... juz wanna seek wats u opnion on this stiuation...

i went to a few TD and hang flowers all that.. and when i went to 1 of the RD there is this dancer caught my eye.. and that TD i went most of the mangers know who am i blah blah all that... i am not a big fish nor a small fish...

so i hang flowers for her.. and we start to talk and talk... and i dont go down on a reg basis.. sometimes 1 week 3 or 4 times.. sometimes i dont go at all.. and everytime i go she will always come and find me.. and NEVER once she did ask flowers from me.. and i dont always give her too...

so after 1 week plus of talking to her, we went to hotel... and u shld know wat happen la... we did went hotel like 1 week once or twice... and i did think if she can go with me easily to hotel, why not other customers right?

so i did a test on her.. using MONEY.. i told her i no money liao.. ask her can borrow me 1k anot.. she say ok... 1 week later i borrowed another 2k, which she later reduced to 1k cuz she said she need to send money to her parents... so total is 2k she loan to me... and this money is still with me till today, and i have not spent a single cent on it...

but now her calls to me is lesser and lesser and when ever i go down there, she still will go back with me.. she gave me the reason cuz she working she need to make more flowers...

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now...

So u just want to know if she really likes you???

Probably not and how long have you known her? Just because she loan you 2K doesn't mean that she likes you. Usually speaking such loans are not interest free.

fabiann · #3 13-01-2011, 03:23 PM

yea i wanna know... so how do i go abt testing..

alan0338 · #4 13-01-2011, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by fabiann

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now...

bro, u are a kc master

teebs_darklord · #5 13-01-2011, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by fabiann

yea i wanna know... so how do i go abt testing..

See her reaction when u hang flowers on other singers and act intimate with them.

Truthfully speaking when u only know a singer for a couple of days/weeks, it is very rare and highly improbable that she will fall in love with you.

fabiann · #6 13-01-2011, 03:53 PM

her reaction.. nth like that lor... she will look other place and say thank you... zzz.. but everytime she will come and find me bu no say ty... but always i ask her after work go where, she say with u... i also dunno how to test liao...

alan0338 · #7 13-01-2011, 04:00 PM

TS, y would u wanna know? even if she is true to u, then are u prepared to move a step further?

fabiann · #8 13-01-2011, 04:02 PM

yea prepared... so i dont wanna take any step further before i really know wat she doing behind...

DegenerationX · #9 13-01-2011, 04:51 PM

TS, if she is willing to lend u the 2K, there are 2 possibilities:

1. She is true to you and trust you.

2. She is playing 放长线钓大鱼 game. Since you said most to the managers knows u, she prob thinks u wun wanna throw your own face for a mere 2K. She might be waiting for a ripe time to tell u those cock & bull story about her family need $$, hope u can return her the 2K and even ask u to lend her another 2K or more.

Maybe u can try testing her by not contacting her for let's say 1week and not going to the joint, (basically like vanish from the world) and see whether will she take the initiative to contact you. If she does, then have to depend on what's ur conversation with her and decide for yourself.

If she is the 2nd type which I mentioned, she will be very anxious to contact you will start to ask when u able to return her the $$ etc.....

Just my humble opinions and might not work hor....

sammyboyfor · #10 13-01-2011, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by fabiann

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now...

Why on earth would you want to get involved with a WHORE!

Are you out of your mind????

fabiann · #11 13-01-2011, 05:02 PM

she is not WHORE leh boss.. zzz

fabiann · #12 13-01-2011, 05:07 PM

u mean MIA means? call me i dont answer? or call i still answer?

Xgenre · #13 13-01-2011, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by fabiann

she is not WHORE leh boss.. zzz

You may not have paid her for the sex but does she go hotel with customers so that they will continue to hang flowers for her?

fabiann · #14 13-01-2011, 05:22 PM

bro this qns does she go to hotel with other customers i cannot answer u leh.. this is one of the qns i am trying to find out too...

DegenerationX · #15 13-01-2011, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by fabiann

u mean MIA means? call me i dont answer? or call i still answer?

1st few days dun answer. but if she continue calling on the 4th or 5th days onwards then u can answer.

It will be good if u can have your frds go down the joint, the gal will sure ask them where or what happened to you. Try to gather some hints and analyse the whole situation when ur frds relate the conversation with her to you.