My Addiction

spelling2345 · #1 07-07-2010, 09:54 PM

Hi,

Just open for discussions n help but if you wanna flame there's nothing I can do about it also

Recently, I found out that my addictions for sex has became stronger as much as "thinking about how my hot colleage will look in lingeries" that's a worrying thing for me but I've never crossed the line as i'll resort to paying for sex services via those lovely Thai babies.

I've been exposed to pornographic materials when I was primary 5 or 6 and then the addiction never stop. From vcds to internet porn to paying for sexual services. It's like going through your fetish such as "going backdoor" or in a "nurse uniform"

I have a steady GF N is looking forward to our marriage in 2 years time, however having sex with her is boring already. I know the consequences such as sexual diseases but however I always have the temptation.

Any samsters willing to shard their help b experiences or solutions?

Regards,
David

MaMister · #2 08-07-2010, 09:29 AM

Welcome to the club.

nullnullnull · #3 08-07-2010, 12:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by spelling2345

Hi,

Any samsters willing to shard their help b experiences or solutions?

Regards,
David

Bro.. are you here for the push or the pull factor?

Quite frankly I also have such addictions.. and I think it would probably get worse until... my dick falls of or something

spelling2345 · #4 08-07-2010, 01:09 PM

Push or pull? I only know I'm never satisfied making love with my GF or future wife. It doesn't excite mr as much as I want it to be.

Especially like going backdoor or paying for exotic sexual services.

stickychewy · #5 09-07-2010, 10:43 AM

PCC to release your urges. If need to, PCC every day.

At least safe and your future wife not affected emotionally or physically (STD).

Religion and self-discipline? Totally depends on you man; and u gotta really be brutally honest and frank with yourself on your own comfort levels and urges.

U know yourself best.

No choice. Otherwise alternative surely will be driven to eat outside...

IIVI · #6 09-07-2010, 11:14 AM

Sounds like a sexual compatibilty issue. Maybe a frank talk with your gf can help ?

spelling2345 · #7 09-07-2010, 12:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stickychewy

PCC to release your urges. If need to, PCC every day.

At least safe and your future wife not affected emotionally or physically (STD).

Religion and self-discipline? Totally depends on you man; and u gotta really be brutally honest and frank with yourself on your own comfort levels and urges.

U know yourself best.

No choice. Otherwise alternative surely will be driven to eat outside...

I've been doing that instead of paying for sexual services but boy it's tough especially when it's within your reach.

I supposed every other samsters is also feeling the same way as I do? Haha.

RealEstateGuy · #8 09-07-2010, 04:04 PM

Brother, you say sex with your wife is boring. Did it ever occur to you that she may feel the same way? You need to seduce her, make her want it every day and make it exciting so she is hungry for it.

pyscho77 · #9 09-07-2010, 09:50 PM

Hi

Could not help but reply this age old question...

Usually its innovate with your partner (GF or wife-to-be), coax her to try something unconventional like in car, carparks, public transport, parks, beaches whatever to yours/her home, kitchen, toilet, bedroom, sofa anything.

Or you could try kitchen food sex, with cream and strawberries, goes down with a good bottle of wine. Role play with sexy clothes (OL), lingerie etc. Or PCC...

Anything... Works for me so far... even after 2 kids...

Of course, paying for sex has it's fair share of variety and fun... but practice safe sex, don't neglect your partner and have fun.

goodpartner · #10 10-07-2010, 09:06 PM

WTF, why start two thread on similar topic?

robin hood · #11 11-07-2010, 01:32 AM

Nothing wrong with you Bro. No worries after some time when you get tried you you will not want to look back.

silversilver07 · #12 14-07-2010, 12:51 AM

Please dont think that women don't get bored with routine sex.

But it is in our nature not to voice out for fear of hurting your ego. At least for me.... Women have sexual fantasies too, but maybe we are afraid how our bfs or husbands will think if we voice it out. With that labels on, subconsciously it becomes taboo to be even a little slutty. So u have to take the lead...

Ask yourself this question, if your gf or wife, who have been routine all the time, suddenly becomes adventurous and make requests to you... what comes into your mind first?

fledged · #13 16-07-2010, 03:31 PM

The mask, given time, come to be the face itself.

Fatboy39 · #14 21-07-2010, 09:46 AM

Learn to differenciate between sex and love. You love your GF, Marry her!!! You want sex, look for WLs after marrying her but do play it extremely safe. Going back door is not as it is not encouraged by CD manufacturers so please play safe if you're married by then. Play outside but don't bring it home! If you still have her up till now you're doing a good job keeping the secret so keep it up even after getting married.

Some people get up early to go jogging. If your libido is strong, I suggest you get up early before work and PCC. It will hopefully help you get through the day. I encourage the use of porn and PCC is healthy.

Get a religion... any religion and with the teachings, it helps you focus. If you wanna know, I used to be an addict too because of my access to easy pussy in uni. Having a religion helps with the disciplin of controling of desire. PCC is also a suppliment to go with it.

Hope this helps as it vary from person to person. Good luck!