Search for part-time GF

hermitcr@b · #1 21-02-2010, 10:57 AM

Just as my nick suggests, I am very much a loner leading a rather reclusive life, thanks largely to a combination of work commitments and an ever narrowing social circle.

I am interested to find a part-time GF, whom I can spend time with (you know doing the normal stuff that couples do, watching movies, taking strolls along the beach, making out in the car etc

I am willing to be the “sugar boyfriend”, taking care of my gal financially (barring overly excessive indulgences). Pls drop me a PM so that we can arrange to meet up. Hopefully there’s chemistry and we like each other, and I can finally end my search.

Criteria(s):
1. Race: Chinese
2. Age: 18yo to 22yo
3. Height: Below 160cm
4. Weight: Below 50kg

Thanks everyone for taking time to read this post.

joew2005 · #2 21-02-2010, 12:14 PM

so r u looking 4 a FB or GF ??

hermitcr@b · #3 21-02-2010, 12:59 PM

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so r u looking 4 a FB or GF ??

more inclined towards a gf..going more for the companionship first..but then in due course..there has to be a "deeper" connection

Mee Pok · #4 21-02-2010, 01:03 PM

Nationality PRC or local?

hermitcr@b · #5 21-02-2010, 01:34 PM

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Nationality PRC or local?

wouldn't wan to restrict the nationality..cos i tink the most important thing is still the chemistry and feel...

hermitcr@b · #6 21-02-2010, 01:48 PM

hopefully there will be students who dun mind an older bf..

yangguo · #7 21-02-2010, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by hermitcr@b

hopefully there will be students who dun mind an older bf..

There are plenty of PRC students studying at private school here and working at KTVs at nite. Quite a number of them are looking for "sugar daddy" or part time bf as they need to meet their commitment like school fee and monthly rent. You should have no difficulty finding one at those places if your offer is attractive enough.

simple2kee · #8 21-02-2010, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by yangguo

plenty of PRC students studying at private school here and working at KTVs. number of them are looking for "sugar daddy" or part time bf as they need to meet their commitment like school fee and monthly rent. ..no difficulty finding one at those places if your offer is attractive enough.

bro, good street knowledge & suggestion.

tigerwoody74 · #9 21-02-2010, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by yangguo

There are plenty of PRC students studying at private school here and working at KTVs at nite. Quite a number of them are looking for "sugar daddy" or part time bf as they need to meet their commitment like school fee and monthly rent. You should have no difficulty finding one at those places if your offer is attractive enough.

Well say Bro ! Local is a bit tough find. Must know where to target. Try online advertisement... u will get more response. Hopefully u will get a good catch...

Cheers.

hermitcr@b · #10 21-02-2010, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by yangguo

There are plenty of PRC students studying at private school here and working at KTVs at nite. Quite a number of them are looking for "sugar daddy" or part time bf as they need to meet their commitment like school fee and monthly rent. You should have no difficulty finding one at those places if your offer is attractive enough.

bro..these ktv gals will have very high demands rite? if it means a commitment of thousands of dollars, then guess it's way outa my league

petrolheadsg · #11 22-02-2010, 11:39 AM

I think you need to state clearly how much you are willing to spend and what you expect in return.

Also you have not told us a bit of yourself. Why is this important? Well to be blunt, some gals will only go out with guys (even if money is involved) that are of a certain, age, look, presentation, etc Why do you think some guys get better treatment, or free fuck while others don't?

The quality of a decision is directly correlated to the quality and amount of data provided.

yangguo · #12 22-02-2010, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

Well to be blunt, some gals will only go out with guys (even if money is involved) that are of a certain, age, look, presentation, etc Why do you think some guys get better treatment, or free fuck while others don't?

Agreed with bro petrolheadsg.

Some men "bao"ed their mistress by giving a few thousands dollars monthly while some men only paid expenses when they go out wif the gal. Thus it very much depends on the chemistry between you and your gal.

Also you must know what kind of "return" you expect from the gal? You cannot ask the gal to quit from her KTV job and accompany you whenever you are free by just paying her a few hundred per month, right?

hermit1313 · #13 22-02-2010, 04:00 PM

crab... similar names.... just wanna say he is not me and i am not him... and we dunno each other...

bro if u looking for PT gf... why not a FT one?

coach · #14 23-02-2010, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by hermitcr@b

more inclined towards a gf..going more for the companionship first..but then in due course..there has to be a "deeper" connection

I think u r only looking for FB - or sugar girlfriend. The "deeper" connection will lead you to going deeper - FOC?

Suggest you just go FL here, dont think "too much" boy

hermitcr@b · #15 23-02-2010, 03:07 AM

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Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

I think you need to state clearly how much you are willing to spend and what you expect in return.

Also you have not told us a bit of yourself. Why is this important? Well to be blunt, some gals will only go out with guys (even if money is involved) that are of a certain, age, look, presentation, etc Why do you think some guys get better treatment, or free fuck while others don't?

The quality of a decision is directly correlated to the quality and amount of data provided

well..a man's appeal hinges on far too many factors..how many times have we seen "lang ga face" guys with pretty babes clinging by their side..in many instances, it simply boils down to the feel and chemistry..i will not go into details abt myself, guess that will be for the interested gal to find out..but briefly..i'm 31yo..170cm..average looking (the sort of average-ness which i am pretty certain will never get me a FREE fuck in this lifetime)

i do not want to put a limit to the quantum that i am willing to spend..guess that will largely depend on the quality of the prospect

as for what i expect in return..again, it depends on the background of the prospect (i wouldn't demand the same from a "working" ktv gal and a "decent" local sg student)..but overall, i would say the primary objective is for companionship, hopefully with some "love" and affection

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Agreed with bro petrolheadsg.

Some men "bao"ed their mistress by giving a few thousands dollars monthly while some men only paid expenses when they go out wif the gal. Thus it very much depends on the chemistry between you and your gal.

Also you must know what kind of "return" you expect from the gal? You cannot ask the gal to quit from her KTV job and accompany you whenever you are free by just paying her a few hundred per month, right?

yes, i totally agree..a few hundred dollars is peanuts in our current world dominated by spiraling inflation..but i wouldn't be able to afford anything more than that, of cos bar the occasional indulgences (for vday, bday etc)..so i would say that i am currently more inclined towards the "paid expenses" type of gf (and who is hopefully not a ktv gal)

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Originally Posted by hermit1313

crab... similar names.... just wanna say he is not me and i am not him... and we dunno each other...

bro if u looking for PT gf... why not a FT one?

by stipulating it as "part-time", it will reduce the pressure and obligation being felt by both parties..and hopefully, it will also open the door for current attached gals, who are not resistant to the idea of being someone's part-time gf