is it worth it?

[is it kc??]

hi to all bros and sis out here reading tis short story and experience of mine, and seriously i m hoping to get some opinions from the season cheongsters here... all advice will be deeply appreciated. fyi i m married but my wife is constantly not around tats why i have the chance to fool around..

during all tis years of playing the field and bonking hundreds of different gals( from ktv gals, pub waitresses, wls,fls.. malays,viets,thais,prcs,local chinese to pinays) i had managed the golden rule of pay and fuck off and nv ever get myself emotionally involved.. even gals whom i rtf( which is very seldom) is purely for the sake of the service and no feelings is involved..

but came 1 day that i met a fl who could stir my feelings for a female and sex with her is simply terrific and after 1st session only, i was already thinking of wanting her more and thus rtf her again. 2nd time was fantastic too and of course my feelings is much more stirred and challenged again. cant understand why also( which i nv did before) i will sms her again for simple greetings and she will reply also( which i think most fls cant be bothered)and i did ask some of my friends(also horny bastards) what i should do and i am very worried tat i get kced.

my friends recommend me to book another fl and see how thing goes, but amazingly, i turn back last minute and cancel the appointment at the very last minute. some of my friends tell me tat i will grow tired after fucking her a few more times and ask me to rtf her since i not interested in other fls at the moment

but the one thing i am most worried about is that i really 感情用事 and fall into the kc trap which i carefully avoided so many years? the thought of it really scares me, but the memorable moments spent with her is urging me on.
some friends of mine also told me to pay her a certain amount of money and bonk her a month on a weekly basis of few times so that i will be bored with her and i will go back to my old ways..

so tks to all the bros and sis here reading tis, and i would appreciate for all given opinions on what i should do. thanks to everybody, even harsh words is welcome here, i just want to know what is the best decision from the stand of seasoned bros..

[pewpew]

Like u said, she is a FL, pay n forget is all u need.

If you really tio KC, find a excuse to make yourself avoid her.

[is it kc??]

bro pewpew thanks for ur reply, i understand tat rule.. but u think is it worth it to pay her a sum of money for a month and bonk her on her a weekly basis of a certain number of times to make myself bored with her or will it actually make myself fall deeper into the kc trap?? i am now very confuse as to what to do and thats why i am writing here.. all the gaming rules i can understand and follow, but i am only worried about the emotional barrier that is set for me that i cant go past, damn headache now, cos i always tease my friends for being too emotional over the years and here i am, almost becoming worse than them...its very easy to avoid the fl, but if i avoid her i know tat i will nv be satisfied with other fls cos of the feelings.. bro, me very loss at what to do now..

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

Originally Posted by is it kc??

hi to all bros and sis out here reading tis short story and experience of mine...

Since you are married, Think about your family members, if kena caught, what will happen to you.
You will probably lose everything, money, wife, family - Thinking about this you may not easily fall into these traps.
Fuck & Forget is the golden rule of this trade - nomatter how nice the girls treat you, ultimately when they intend to go into this line, its not easy for them to allow ppl to change their opinions of them.

Cheers out mate.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by is it kc??

but if i avoid her i know tat i will nv be satisfied with other fls cos of the feelings.. bro, me very loss at what to do now..

Another idiot in the making!

[colins]

Along the way throughout your wonderful sex life, have you changed? Have you ever wondered why those old men (and those are real senior cheongsters ok) sit around in GL coffeeshops just to talk to PRC FLs? Maybe sex is starting to lose its appeal, you want that feeling of closeness to someone instead. People say, nothing beats the feel of "making luuuuv".

When we grow old, and I always believe this, we will start to transit into those old men at GL. Cheongsters land up in such a state cos its hard to quit. The only difference is where we hang out which depends on how much money/savings we accumulated. The rest of the activities will be the same.

We switch from buying sex to buying fake love to buying attention. All becos we believe such intangibles can actually be bought and doesn't need to be earned.

To help yourself, maybe you should look into the future. At the moment, it has already caused you to become impetus and you acted out of the ordinary. That means you lost control. You have changed to accommodate your crave for her. The next thing is, you want something more than sex. You sms her greetings and she returned your attention. You want attention from her, see the change? Next thing on your mind, you want to put her on payroll, I'm pretty sure thats on your mind. Buying fake love, see it again?

She din KC you bro. You wanted it. The moment you want something intangible and are prepared to buy it, in reality you do not deserve it. You deserve it from your wife, friends and family becos you are there for them, and them for you. Put yourself into your wife's shoe, how would it seem for you?

Take care bro, your road is long now.

[mentholfresh]

I can see you are a seasoned player. But years of experiences does not matter in KC, new or veteren, even the master himself is not KC proof...

The thing now I see is not solely the bonkings, it's the chemistry you felt while being along with her, the bonkings are great becos of this... if later the services you get are lesser and lesser, but you still enjoy your time with her, you are getting less svcs and she compensate you by giving u more GFE, danger, she is testing u, that's mean you are already in the trap she set up for u, and she know it.

Think of your family, think of the many things you did b4 to be the person you are now. To go cold turkey is extremely difficult, compromise, give yourself a timeline, like 1 month, bonk her as hard as you like, as many times as u like, BUT when times up, make sure its game over...

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by is it kc??

hi to all bros and sis out here reading tis short story and experience of mine, and seriously i m hoping to get some opinions from the season cheongsters here... all advice will be deeply appreciated. fyi i m married but my wife is constantly not around tats why i have the chance to fool around..

during all tis years of playing the field and bonking hundreds of different gals( from ktv gals, pub waitresses, wls,fls.. malays,viets,thais,prcs,local chinese to pinays) i had managed the golden rule of pay and fuck off and nv ever get myself emotionally involved.. even gals whom i rtf( which is very seldom) is purely for the sake of the service and no feelings is involved..

but came 1 day that i met a fl who could stir my feelings for a female and sex with her is simply terrific and after 1st session only, i was already thinking of wanting her more and thus rtf her again. 2nd time was fantastic too and of course my feelings is much more stirred and challenged again. cant understand why also( which i nv did before) i will sms her again for simple greetings and she will reply also( which i think most fls cant be bothered)and i did ask some of my friends(also horny bastards) what i should do and i am very worried tat i get kced.

my friends recommend me to book another fl and see how thing goes, but amazingly, i turn back last minute and cancel the appointment at the very last minute. some of my friends tell me tat i will grow tired after fucking her a few more times and ask me to rtf her since i not interested in other fls at the moment

but the one thing i am most worried about is that i really 感情用事 and fall into the kc trap which i carefully avoided so many years? the thought of it really scares me, but the memorable moments spent with her is urging me on.
some friends of mine also told me to pay her a certain amount of money and bonk her a month on a weekly basis of few times so that i will be bored with her and i will go back to my old ways..

so tks to all the bros and sis here reading tis, and i would appreciate for all given opinions on what i should do. thanks to everybody, even harsh words is welcome here, i just want to know what is the best decision from the stand of seasoned bros..

Braddah, I think you already know the answer. You are posting looking for someone to tell you braddah, it's OK go for it. But braddah even if you get no direct answer to your query, you can see all the other posts on other threads point to no go on this. If you want to buck the trend and prove you are a fool to ahead. All you lose is time, money, and sanity along with your job, family relationships and if you are married or have a steady GF you lose that too. If you want to prove you are a fool go ahead. As long as your document it here when it all ends its not a total loss. The salvage value is maybe another braddah comes here and reads it and acts rationally and saves himself.

[NewMike1304k]

Dear TS,

It is not KC yet, but you are allowing yourself the chance to get KC and also opening the door for her.

So what if the sex is great and she gives you a good feeling? The moment you start to think long term with anyone, means that you have to give something in return. Since you are married, why bother? You want to make her your second wife? FB? What do you want? Once you have answered those questions, then ask yourself what you are prepare to lose? You are already at a disadvantage because you feel that no other girls will be like her.. So you are now starting on a long and slippery slide down to the depths of a place you really do not want to go to.

Be strong and be smart, please.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by is it kc??

some friends of mine also told me to pay her a certain amount of money and bonk her a month on a weekly basis of few times so that i will be bored with her and i will go back to my old ways...

That's a really silly idea. What you should do is to pay her a certain amount of money and let your friends bonk her, one after another, whilst you sit there and watch (or wait outside the room and listen to the "music").

That way, the cold hard fact will sink deep into your brain; that she is a hooker, aka prostitute, aka whore, aka pussy for hire. At the moment, you know she is a hooker but it doesn't seem to register in your brain cos your brain is no longer thinking logically.

Remember this bro, anyone with some spare cash can fuck her. Can you accept this?

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

Originally Posted by slider_72

That's a really silly idea...

That was what i was trying to show it to TS in my above post, however you are much more detailed than me
Well said.
TS, pls Listen carefully.

[CatusRose]

Do this bro. Get your a few friends to book her and give a FR to you. Afterwhich keep in contact and see for yourself whether she treat everyone the same. Sometime we knew it but we chose to disbelieve cos we tot we are in love.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by is it kc??

bro pewpew thanks for ur reply, i understand tat rule.. but u think is it worth it to pay her a sum of money for a month and bonk her on her a weekly basis of a certain number of times to make myself bored with her or will it actually make myself fall deeper into the kc trap?? i am now very confuse as to what to do and thats why i am writing here.. all the gaming rules i can understand and follow, but i am only worried about the emotional barrier that is set for me that i cant go past, damn headache now, cos i always tease my friends for being too emotional over the years and here i am, almost becoming worse than them...its very easy to avoid the fl, but if i avoid her i know tat i will nv be satisfied with other fls cos of the feelings.. bro, me very loss at what to do now..

Hi Bro,

I understand where you're coming from. As a matter of fact, as some bros here have already said, it's not how seasoned a player you are, when you're going to get KCed, you'll get KCed.

So just live life as it is. Why is it necessary to forget her, or avoid her? If other FLs can't satisfy you the way she does, why bother going to other FLs and be unsatisfied?

Nobody knows the future. Maybe one day you may get bored of her. Maybe you won't. Maybe you have true feelings for her. Maybe she has true feelings for you. Who knows one day you may even support her monthly, rent or buy her a house, stay with her few nights a week, even have kids with her.

Maybe one day you may have to make the decision between your present wife and her. Who knows you may choose her?

Whatever it is, you make the choice, you live with it.

My 2 cents worth.
Tee Vee

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Another idiot in the making!

pot calling the kettle black.

[Oceanlee]

You Guys are realli good into KCed game.

How I envy you all so much for this, as the Jedi for this area and somemore you can make the harlot to give $$$ and I forseen also FOC meat esp TS

Wahaha .... poor me still learning to KCed the MMs, maybe I dun have such chance and luck and with a veri thin wallet and physical not appealling.

You ppl just make me coming back to learn and always a under-study.
hehehe ....

Will any kind Gurus open a class to conduct this KCed course's.
wahahah ..... I luv U all depp depp.