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09-02-2009, 04:22 PM
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Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
Hi bros, recently I found out something very interesting (at least to me) that I would like to bring out for discussion.
Do you guys believe in "yi chuan" as in the father passes their characters to the child? I like to share what I found out recently Friend 1 Father : heard from the son, father has married 3 times, and also has 2 other thai girls that beared him children. Father view of married just to please the girl and wanted those girls to bear him children. Easily fal in love Son : married liao, then have a sex buddy lasted for few years, then now got another girl which he want marry her; but headache dun know how divorce wife. Like father, mariage view is to please the woman also wanted the girls he love to bear him children. Easily fall in love. Friend 2 Mother : heard from daughter, she divorced the hubby coz she has man outside Daughter : she became a mistress of a married man and before that she has been fucking outside like a rabbit Friend 3 Mother : heard from daughter, hubby left her for another woman Daughter : her hubby left her for another woman Myself My father: typical chinese man who feel his denstiny is to marry, take care of them, have children Myself : not a believer of marriage, but if get marry then is my responsiblity to take care of her and home. Any comments? 
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#2
09-02-2009, 07:46 PM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
bro, your friendshave siblings? if they have the same fate, then it is fate. but if they are the only ones, they its choice.
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#3
09-02-2009, 10:16 PM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
I dont believe.i believe in this chinese saying 'Ren din sheng tian' , believe in urself and u will be rewarded.
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#4
09-02-2009, 10:20 PM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
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I personally think that nurture rather than genes have a bigger role here ... Monkey see monkey do ... We tend to do what our parents did ... It is the result of years of impact on the mind when it is still young and receptive, therefore all these behaviors displayed by our parents get "burned" into our sub-conscious ... As guys, we learn from our dad on how to treat women ... If we are women, we learn from our mother on how to treat men ... Therefore, more likely than not, we will have a tendency to repeat the mistakes made by our parents.
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09-02-2009, 11:15 PM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
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10-02-2009, 02:45 AM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
may nt b true all d time but duo duo shao shao parents will influence d kids. esp cases which d parents r divorced.
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#7
10-02-2009, 05:51 AM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
yes, i believe. cos if they r filthy rich, i'll be filthy rich too!
the only difference is you can donate all ur money to charity or donate them to every prc girl you bonk.
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#8
10-02-2009, 08:57 AM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
I not really believe the "fate" or "yi chuan". I believe "ren din sheng tian".
I got a male fren (my senior), his farther shamelessly abandoned his mother and himself for another woman. Mother in very hard situation to bring up him and support him for high education. Mother always teaches and lecture him in future must be a good person for society and when get married must treat wife nicely. Yes, he managed to do anything which her mother teach and lecture him (not to be like his father). My fren married for 25 years with 3 lovely kids. I know him very well, for what I know his wife is his 1st meeting gal and I believe beside his wife, he never look for other gals (FB, FL or whatever). He set a very good example to his kids and other, I really proud with him...... For me, I don't think I can do what he does 
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#9
10-02-2009, 01:10 PM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
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.....No lah, u think I am a three-headed snake meh.Seriously speaking, I think both 'fate', 'yi chuan' and 'ren din shen tian' all play a part in influencing our lives. For 'yi chuan' and 'ren din shen tian', it depends on which influence is stronger. As for 'fate', it is hard to underestand and explain. I have witnessed strange cases of such and it is so strange that I am still wondering about it.
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#11
11-02-2009, 10:38 AM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
behavior is not hereditary... cos the youth grow up in that environment, so will learn from the surroundings... also the environment plays a very important factor... how many of us know about PC, mobile phones, or even regular holidays 10, 20 years ago?
genes jus carrys the DNA of the perosn, not the personality... jus like if u clone Van Gogh, the small boy will still grow up with the same chances of mental issues, but he may not be able to create such scale of art...
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#12
11-02-2009, 10:55 AM
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Re: Do you believe your fate is seal with your parents?
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For yr info, 'yi chuan' is 'Nature' and 'ren din sheng tian' is 'Nuture'.
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