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Don`t think it is going to be the way it was as in having a relationship together again but it is a start.
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Funnily enough she has met an American guy who apparently resembles me and reminds her of me. Go figure eh lol. I don`t understand her logic here cos it sounds like he is acting n doing everything the way I was when we first met so it sounds to me like she is repeating our relationship again with a "replica" me. The only difference is he has been married for 7yrs n has children so it is difficult for him to commit himself to her right now although he wants to.
Anyway, I really don`t know where I am going with this post so will leave it to you guys to come to your own conclusions lol.
I know one thing tho it is really strange how she is happy to spend so much time talking to me on the phone now after all has been said and done. Maybe there is going to be a happy ending...eventually! lol
Take it easy,
KP
If you are gonna place hope again on her, you're again going in for a ride, bro.
The american is a replica of you, and you are a replica of her previous guy, so on and so forth. Character-wise she looks for similarly, but she still want a fresh person.
She is happy spending time talking to you becos the initial stress of the breakup and relationship strain is gone now. If you start to talk about having a reconciliation, you will still see the same old person back in line and escaping. Try it out and see. You know what is the happy ending, so just go ahead with it.
Hi KP,
It seems like is still difficult for u to accept reality and get over it. I can understand. When a person puts in too much feeling, is difficult. In yr case, as long as u are in contact, u can never start afresh. During my young days, I was in a similar situation but not totally the same. As a 26 yo then, I pick up the courage and decide; totally disconnect everyone, including closest of friends. Start afresh. Then life move on..... Whatever u decide, remember to be happy, no regrets and nobody's get hurt. Good Luck.
Form My experience, they all very realistic and their perogrative is to fend for their kids, their parents and as foreign asawas or BFs we expected to finance this duty they have.
They are unforgiving when we r unfaithful but from what i have heard and experienced they will be extremely upset should we not be forgiving should they stray.
from my own expereinces, not generalising....no offense meant to anyone
Form My experience, they all very realistic and their perogrative is to fend for their kids, their parents and as foreign asawas or BFs we expected to finance this duty they have.
They are unforgiving when we r unfaithful but from what i have heard and experienced they will be extremely upset should we not be forgiving should they stray.
from my own expereinces, not generalising....no offense meant to anyone
kinda agree with the financing part..used to part finance 1 of them n her family,to the extend of shifting n renting another house every 3-4mths..imagine.. but disagree with u on the other issue abt them being upset shd they stray..in the first place why shd they do it if we have them properly attended to..
14-01-2009, 11:47 AM
but disagree with u on the other issue abt them being upset shd they stray..in the first place why shd they do it if we have them properly attended to..
