Conquest from apps and irl

[bangonomics]

I am your regular SG Chinese bro who went to neighbourhood institutions. I think I am average looking, maybe 5 to 6/10, although as a full package women do rate me from 7 to 9, I think these are purely subjective depending on your background and your circle of folks.

Trying to keep track of these juicy experience.

After I crossed the 100th, I’d want to keep track of the conquests of the last 18 years, I stop keeping track, instead I focus on the ones with best experiences.

I use all dating apps including LinkedIn, but a larger quantity of high quality ones, come from day game/irl. More than 80% of the day game/irl need at least two dates to seal the deal. As I am against doxxing, I will only share one identifier and keep their identity as vague as possible. My early years are mostly irl/day game then followed by 7 years of online dating then followed by irl/day game, with more than 60% from irl/day game. But dating apps the speed to bang is much much higher.

Rejections - Honestly not that many, for one I do not usually go out with the ones I don’t think we gonna bonk. Out of 10 I meet, around 5 to 6 will score on the same night, and 2 to 3 will score one date later. I never hang around for the 3rd date if we are not bonking, because of that I think I might have missed a few really high caliber ones.

My work does not require me to meet people frequently, so when I do network, I tend to get interesting ones along the way.

These bonks range from -19 years old to +13 years old, depending on my age

Quick game (less than 1h after meet up): Count = 35
Notable ones:
- Public Service!!
- Nurse
- HR!!
- Recruiter
- Construction!!
- Public service2
- Indian
- Physiotherapist
- Teacher
- Public Service4
- Marketing1
- Marketing2
- Auditor2
- Compliance!!
- Legal
- Banker7
- Insurance Agent5!!
- Property Agent2

Dine and Bang (less than 2h from start of dinner/drinks)
- Expat - China
- Lawyer1
- Lawyer2!!
- Lawyer 3
- Public Service1
- Expat - Japan
- Expat - Korean4
- Expat - French3
- Auditor5
- Consulting
- Expat - Vietnam1!!
- Expat - Vietnam2
- Scientist3!!
- Expat Korean 2
- Sales 2
- Tax 2
- Media3!!
- Doctor2
- Sports Instructor2
- Marketing!!

Good Kind of Crazy (on/after 2nd date)
- Marketing
- Scientist6
- Lawyer5
- Baker2
- Theologist!!
- Musician3
- Artist2
- Actress - Indonesia
- Lawyer6
- Business Owner 4
- Business Owner1
- StayHomeMom
- Influencer
- Air stewardess 6
- Malaysian9
- Auditor 4
- Customer Service 2
- Uni 4
- Uni 9


My best bangathon:
- A cupper - from 4pm to 9pm and then 11pm to 5 am
- D cupper - from 11pm until 6 am, almost non-stop
- E cupper - 10pm to 3 am, non-stop

The shots I didn’t take, we were physical, some with BJ but no sex by the 2nd date.
- Teacher - 9.5/10
- Influencer - 8.5/10
- Musician - 8.5/10
- Biz Owner - 9/10
- Director - 8.5/10
- Lecturer - 8/10
- Public Service - 9/10
- Fitness Instructor - 9.5/10

[TonyMontana]

Great sharing. Can you give insights into your game. How do you pick-up and how do you close, especially those dinner dates?

[WinterMelonTree]

LOL at the occupation list where being an indian is considered as an occupation hahahahah

your story needs to be taken with a giant pinch of salt.

[tornado69]

Thanks for sharing.

[Madrid2019]

Originally Posted by TonyMontana

Great sharing. Can you give insights into your game. How do you pick-up and how do you close, especially those dinner dates?

I also keen to have insight.

[kinkgo]

Originally Posted by WinterMelonTree

LOL at the occupation list where being an indian is considered as an occupation hahahahah

your story needs to be taken with a giant pinch of salt.

Indians nowadays have the high end jobs ma, CEO, president, Prime Minister, don't know which one is TS referring to

[bangonomics]

Haha @indian. It’s just that the occupation is very niche and from what she led me to believe, she’s probably the only Indian in her line of work. Hence I had to obfuscate.

For dinner and date ones, I do think a sort of finesse of playful banters is usually sufficient, aside from certain charged questions and statements prior to the meetup.

And there are also the several ones that in the first eye contacts, we knew our banters will get sexual very fast even with no pre-cursor to any sexual intention in our pre-meeting chats.

And then there are also the women who take more initiative and you just need to catch the cues and reciprocate to start the ball rolling.

Again, I rather leave the girl hanging on a possibility of meeting up instead of meeting up and no bang, and with sufficient transparency of our intentions.

[brandon00]

how do you know whether they want to proceed even after less than 1 hr of meeting and how do u initiate?

[marcussia]

Originally Posted by brandon00

how do you know whether they want to proceed even after less than 1 hr of meeting and how do u initiate?

The fastest I had was 2hr plus in my teens.
Got to know her on IRC and met up at my house to show her my room after school (LOL, I told her I got a cute stuffed toy to show her - my bolster LOL)

We chit chat awhile then started making out (she resisted at first, pushing me away) then started fingering her till could feel her getting very wet. Before pinning her on the bed after pulling off her undies. She kept on rubbing my shorts (as my c**k bulged beneath it).

Couldn't take it any longer, so I pinned her down on my bed (she told me she got bf, scared he knows). But both of us were too horny at that time, so couldn't care less, and started to f**k her (she still can tell me need to wear condom, but where got buy condom during teenage years)

[bangonomics]

Originally Posted by brandon00

how do you know whether they want to proceed even after less than 1 hr of meeting and how do u initiate?

Excellent question.

In the early days of Tinder it was well understood that most of these meetings will end up on bed, especially at a time when the app was so new, it was not hard at all. Just ask.

I am a full package, and am very well-maintained physically, I guess this is what brings me from a 5 to 8 or 9. I worked for it. And many probably want to go for it to satisfy their curiousity of what’s underneath my clothes. Women are just as horny as men, if not more horny.

All you need to do is have already secured your logistics, aka a place to go to, for me, it was my own place which I was renting. Aside from that having your own form of transport is also a huge plus point, like even if you’re rider of two wheels, it’s good enough, and when I had four wheels, it open doors to another league of women.

For initiation, there are generally two phases. Before she enters my apartment and after. Before, both of you need to be comfortable with physical touch. After, it’s kinda a no brainer.

As a disclaimer, there are a few women who prefer you to head over to their place for the deed, so you just need to drive them or call a cab.

[bangonomics]

Originally Posted by marcussia

The fastest I had was 2hr plus in my teens.
Got to know her on IRC and met up at my house to show her my room after school (LOL, I told her I got a cute stuffed toy to show her - my bolster LOL)

We chit chat awhile then started making out (she resisted at first, pushing me away) then started fingering her till could feel her getting very wet. Before pinning her on the bed after pulling off her undies. She kept on rubbing my shorts (as my c**k bulged beneath it).

Couldn't take it any longer, so I pinned her down on my bed (she told me she got bf, scared he knows). But both of us were too horny at that time, so couldn't care less, and started to f**k her (she still can tell me need to wear condom, but where got buy condom during teenage years)

Nice job!

Another one of mine that was quite fast was a nurse. The context was she was one of the shifts taking care of me when I was recovering from a car accident, and after I discharged for a while, I found her Facebook and we started talking for around three weeks.

So when we first decided to meet, it was already late so I suggested she come over to my place. And when that happened, you guys know what happen.

I have to say the hospital is a very good place to pick up girls, because no one else is doing it. In my experiences nurses are very sex-starved due to their shift schedules, they generally don’t have it easy in scheduling a date or bonk date.

[brandon00]

Originally Posted by bangonomics

Excellent question.

In the early days of Tinder it was well understood that most of these meetings will end up on bed, especially at a time when the app was so new, it was not hard at all. Just ask.

I am a full package, and am very well-maintained physically, I guess this is what brings me from a 5 to 8 or 9. I worked for it. And many probably want to go for it to satisfy their curiousity of what’s underneath my clothes. Women are just as horny as men, if not more horny.

All you need to do is have already secured your logistics, aka a place to go to, for me, it was my own place which I was renting. Aside from that having your own form of transport is also a huge plus point, like even if you’re rider of two wheels, it’s good enough, and when I had four wheels, it open doors to another league of women.

For initiation, there are generally two phases. Before she enters my apartment and after. Before, both of you need to be comfortable with physical touch. After, it’s kinda a no brainer.

As a disclaimer, there are a few women who prefer you to head over to their place for the deed, so you just need to drive them or call a cab.

For the first time, do you just suggest going to your place? i know some ladies who do not actually wanna hook up and they get turned off by saying that. in that 1 hr, how do u convince them to well be dtf? teach me your ways! haha

[bangonomics]

There is this thing called the vibes. Or a feeling. And it is very important to sense it and produce it, which helps you cut down on the words to say certain things.

I met 1 Korean, 1 Japanese and 1 Chinese while they were touring around sg as they were interviewing for their jobs here. You can find them in very weird places, like striking up a convo at a cafe, or near drinking places or at touristy sites. All you need to do is grow the balls to strike up a convo.

Then, grow mutual interest. Then ask whether they want to get a drink so you can continue growing your interest in each other. Then you send them back. These were the 2 that decided that the night was “too young” and when we reached at their hotels, they want to drink more with me. So I suggested drinking at my place which has a variety of liquor. These 2 were quite funny because by the time I served them the liquor, they only had a sip before we start making out and do the deed.

The other one, I remembered she kept hinting that she’s in Singapore by herself, so I just sent her back up to her hotel and conveniently everything else happened.

The Korean one was very nice and sensual but she’s also a little psycho when she compares her boobs with mine and asked whether she should get bigger boobs.

[bangonomics]

Originally Posted by brandon00

For the first time, do you just suggest going to your place? i know some ladies who do not actually wanna hook up and they get turned off by saying that. in that 1 hr, how do u convince them to well be dtf? teach me your ways! haha

Assuming you are referring to ppl you meet online.

Bro the real logic here is that you ask in a finessed way, and you judge the answers you get even before meeting them. If they declare no hookup or dtf, why are you even spending my time on her?

This kind I probably won’t talk to again or even bother to convince them.

I follow the path of least resistance.

My logic is:
Talk. Find ways to disqualify her. If she survives then ask her out. If not, then move on.

Maybe I can understand the need to convince them, and I infer that a match is scarce these days, but when I was using the app, a match was not scarce for me at all. In those early days, you can have 10 to 20 matches a day and I am not even joking.

Back in the early days of dating apps, it was always a matter of whether you have the time to tackle many girls in a week or not before the interest fizzles out.

[brandon00]

Originally Posted by bangonomics

Assuming you are referring to ppl you meet online.

Bro the real logic here is that you ask in a finessed way, and you judge the answers you get even before meeting them. If they declare no hookup or dtf, why are you even spending my time on her?

This kind I probably won’t talk to again or even bother to convince them.

I follow the path of least resistance.

My logic is:
Talk. Find ways to disqualify her. If she survives then ask her out. If not, then move on.

Maybe I can understand the need to convince them, and I infer that a match is scarce these days, but when I was using the app, a match was not scarce for me at all. In those early days, you can have 10 to 20 matches a day and I am not even joking.

Back in the early days of dating apps, it was always a matter of whether you have the time to tackle many girls in a week or not before the interest fizzles out.

in that case, how do you go about with your daygame/irl ? HAHAHAH im just curious