Sexually deprived and neglected

[t123]

tried two years in a marriage without it after baby is born.

[syt_punisher]

I heard people say that after marriage and giving birth, Singaporean ladies turn into aunties. In western countries, aunties at 50+ still having sex though !

[outside]

Why dont you show her some kindness, like helping her with the baby or prepared the food or do some housekeeping.

Show her that you care for her, and believe that she will return your favour once everything is settled.

Take care, and do some tiny bits of help here and there.

[sluttymistress]

NINE YEARS? sheesh!

[sluttymistress]

could be post natal blues.

[conman]

Thank you all for your encouragements. I'm heeding advices like helping out and doing what I can. Hope things will turn around soon. Once again, a big thank you!!!

[asdfghjkl]

glad that you are OK now!

[Valiant20]

Originally Posted by conman

Thank you all for your encouragements. I'm heeding advices like helping out and doing what I can. Hope things will turn around soon. Once again, a big thank you!!!

Good to hear.

Yes, help out more. Nowadays the ladies need more help, unlike our parents generation, where MOST husbands just go to work and and bring home the dough to raise the family.

Realise my dad don't know how to change baby's diaper.

Life is short, spend more time with wife and kid. Time really flies when taking care of a baby/toddler..

[sg_boytoy]

Originally Posted by conman

Ever since my wife gave birth, I can hardly touch her. Only had sex 3 times in 4 months. We quarrel almost everyday cos of the baby. Even I wanna get intimate, she will tell me she is tired. I feel so sick and tired. How I wish I was single!

What will you do differently if you were single?

Don't be a fucking idiot lah, be a father!

Chee byes like you give men a bad name...

[sg_boytoy]

Originally Posted by syt_punisher

I heard people say that after marriage and giving birth, Singaporean ladies turn into aunties. In western countries, aunties at 50+ still having sex though !

How many 50+ western aunties have you slept with to arrive at that conclusion?

Watching TV, movie and read from magazines you believe ah?

Did you read about the 2-headed Medusa found in the French Riviera last month?

[Gerald Tan]

TS conman, for 9 mths u said u than and DIY...but your nick is Conmen leh...can beileve that you did not go FL since here Sammyboy forums are thousands of tempting contacts and photos to access? Also, your wife could have known u eat outside ...perhaps this is reason she angry with u...but if now things are ok oredi..then do cherish her love yeah. Good luck and best regs to u and Family...enjoy life with Family yeah...

[ac171]

A lot of woman lose their sex drive after childbirth and it might take some time for them to adjust back. For whatever it is be patient with her and slowly bring her back to the mood.

[super_marvel]

TS... And all those fathers without sex... I feel for all of you. And it's scary that this situation will eventually happen to me. And I must admit I'm a guy full of imagination.. And I might start thinking that wife will also start to eat outside, thus loss of sex between hubby and wifey.

I'm not married btw, but I've heard of stories in my company whereby wife is very tired to have sex with hubby, but is very enthu to hang out with other guys. And this is another concern with long term marriages.

[conman]

Originally Posted by sg_boytoy

What will you do differently if you were single?

Don't be a fucking idiot lah, be a father!

Chee byes like you give men a bad name...

Fuck your mom la! Who the fuck do you think you are to criticize me? Fuckin cheebye your mom back!!!

[buhl]

Originally Posted by conman

?... Just feel that women can be so selfish at times. Before marriage and after marriage totally 2 different attitude.

Totally agree with u bro, been thru that n now am single again, only diff is got to pay for my folly till kid turns 21yo