Wat happen when ur wife figure gone bad after giving birth??

[KiSiaoD]

For those that talk about grateful, in addition to what I mention, let me give you two scenarios:

1. she got pregnant. She still earn her own money, go see doctor alone most of the time, prepare all delivery things on her own, do not give you much trouble during this time, do not curse at you in the name of "pregnancy".....


2. She got pregnant. You pay the bills, you do the driving around, you ensure all household are managed, you run around like a donkey at every flare up and needs of hers, you absorb all the curse "in the name of pregnancy", you prepare all confinement things, work hard to manage things even by six month after delivery.....


Er.... grateful? It depends....

Then there is also another issue. Who decides on having the child?

[KiSiaoD]

Originally Posted by homeboy2010

wa ! bo hua eh ?

so better not settle down

Hey buddy... see my reply on whether to get married on the other forum ke ke ke... this one is on wife get fat.... two issues la.... ha ha

[nitefyre]

I think using the baby as an excuse for not taking care of herself after birth just shows that she is just lazy or not committed to losing the weight. Acknowledgeably, some have it easier than others, but it's not impossible.

I know a lady friend who was married before who didn't take care of herself after marriage. She did look like an ah soh sometimes when i saw her back then. Husband eventually ate out, and that led to a divorce. After that, she started taking care of her appearance (and many find her attractive), and is now happily married with someone else. This time, she maintains herself quite well, even after having kids. Spends lots of time with kids, and even holds a senior mgt job.


And, just sharing an inspirational video that supports my point.

[billgates]

I think u should also ask this question from her point of view:
Wat happen when ur husband kena stroke and wheelchair bound after getting old??