Heart broken....

[alan0338]

dun worry la, when u meet another ABCDEFGHIJKLMN, u will forget abt S and N ....

[see see only]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Forget about pussy. Now's the time to build upon your career and finances in order to achieve financial independence before it's too late.

There'll be more than enough time to mess around with women once you've made it in life.

Boss,

Dont get me wrong ... as much as i respect your success .... Me cannot agree with your above and feel that such statement is very irresponsible ... because by then these Mr. 老人家 will have a lot of time no doubt BUT in turn no knowledge at all in the art of wooing girls

In SG, so "much" (i wish to use the word "much" as it is almost countless liao) Mr. 老人家 used their youth to exchange for financial independence ... some got it but many failed ... (tat's not my point)

However these Mr. 老人家, without practising the art of wooing girls during their younger days, armed with all their hard-earned monies ..... contributed to those young chic mindlessly not knowing whether worth it or not ... indirectly anyhow contributed to the economy of other countries

True, it is only fair to "buy" their bodies and service as Mr. 老人家 have nothing much to trade for their services except for money but most of them actually kana con or the commonly used word here, KC without even knowing it .... their hard-earned monies saved from their younger days .... all gone

Because ... all of them are taught to concentrate earning money when young ... with the monies you will be able to "buy" many chio bu ... with such a mind set .... they did not learn how to assess the value of such services instead they start throwing monies at these "chio bu" buying their "LOVE" LOVE cant buy ...

Wooing girls need practise .... only with practise you will tell whether these chic are worth investing or at least know when to pull the hand brake

"why so many PRC girls say SG man is easy to cheat" BECAUSE we have such teaching when we were young


Bro IK ... wru i need your help lei ... with my command of english ... a bit difficult to express myself well here

[see see only]

From another thread ....

Originally Posted by iwannatry

Okay I may be a little young (22yo) to be a sugar daddy, but im just bored. I have the money though. With or without sex is fine by me. Hit me up if you're keen with your details. Thanks.

See .... this is what sillypore education produces ....

Throwing away hard-earned money senselessly


OK .... i stop from here on this "stupid old man teaching" topic ....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by see see only

From another thread ....



See .... this is what sillypore education produces ....

Throwing away hard-earned money senselessly


OK .... i stop from here on this "stupid old man teaching" topic ....

Here's more lol
LOCAL UNI UNDERGRAD
http://thesbf.shop/showthread.php?t=313679
http://thesbf.shop/showthread.php?t=313918

But tis one opposite bro SSO
Tis one bo lui
on student budget one
jiak boh ki seow wahahahahaha

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by see see only

this is what sillypore education produces

Dage SSO, i am sorry, i cant agree wif this sentiment.
School teaches knowledge, but the GOVT's 1st world pursuing driven generation, i.e ours, hv led to a decline in passing on morals to our next generation.
The other day, i was at the rest having lunch wif my client
Next table to me were 2 milfs +/-35yrs old
One of their phone rang
Can hear from the conv tat her kid played truant
The response the mother gv freaked me out
Wat wud u hv dun?
I know my kid wud be in for a serious case of ass whooping
But this mother
rebutted the teacher
YOUR CLASSES R SO BORING N MY SON ALWAYS WANT TO SLEEP IN UR CLASS, U SHUD STOP BEING A TEACHER
Holy shit!
If a parent or parents concurs to such behaviour, even the best teachers who teach any form of moral education wud hv all they taught being over ride once the kid reaches home.
Read this forum, look at all those younger samsters.
It's all open to be seen or see

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by see see only

"why so many PRC girls say SG man is easy to cheat" BECAUSE we have such teaching when we were young
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Very wise words indeed.

[jayson]

Bro kenstud27,

Thanks for your input and it is true that if we break off with them we don't feel as hurt. Falling in love is easy getting out of it is tough. But somehow we need to do it! Thanks again.

Bro see see only,

Like your example, reading it is relaxing, fun and with some thoughts it actually make sense. Your advise is well noted.


Thanks for all ur advise.

[esssinine]

But most times we get inspired to work hard and earn more because we have a woman.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by see see only

Boss,
Dont get me wrong ... as much as i respect your success .... Me cannot agree with your above and feel that such statement is very irresponsible ... because by then these Mr. 老人家 will have a lot of time no doubt BUT in turn no knowledge at all in the art of wooing girls

I'm speaking from my own experience. I found that the most productive and financially rewarding periods of my life took place when I was not in any sort of relationship.

This enabled me to pour 100% of my effort into attaining financial success without any distractions and obligations.

A relationship takes up a lot of time, money and taxes the emotions. There's plenty of time for that later on in life when you reach your mid to late 30s and you've made it in life.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

SSO, i am sorry, i cant agree wif this sentiment.
School teaches knowledge, but the GOVT's 1st world pursuing driven generation, i.e ours, hv led to a decline in passing on morals to our next generation................

Though i told myself not to discuss this further ... 不在其位不谋其政 and i have no intention to change this mind set of most of our sillyporean ....

But somehow ..... just take it that i am venting my frustration after interacting with so many many local fresh grad ...


Bro DYB,

Me no Dage lei ....

Somehow i just felt that sillypore "education system" (maybe i should add on the word "system" in the first place) for e.g. the last time EM1 EM2 EM3 system ....

十年树木，百年树人

..... it's simply just too early to use the "goal oriented" method to teach & judge children at such tender age .... nevertheless school teachers have no choice but use some quick result tactics to enable their students to "pass" their exam .... ignoring the basic moral of education. Painted a picture of success to those children ignoring the teaching of the meaning of success

不学心法 就学招术 (look good but cannot eat)

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I'm speaking from my own experience. I found that the most productive and financially rewarding periods of my life took place when I was not in any sort of relationship.

This enabled me to pour 100% of my effort into attaining financial success without any distractions and obligations.

A relationship takes up a lot of time, money and taxes the emotions. There's plenty of time for that later on in life when you reach your mid to late 30s and you've made it in life.

Boss,

I believe time management could help, a balance, proper, well disciplined management of time should solve this problem ....

Nevertheless been through such stage of "buying love" when i made a bit of money (more than a million) with my business after 3 years of hard work .... i realised i felt like a fool after each so-called "paid love" apart from my dick's satisfaction of cos ....

However i got real hurt after been dumped by a chio bu (damages was like 20k for tat month) for another richer man ... I told myself i must be richer ... so that i can invest more $$$$$$ when i meet another chio bu ....

Luckily someone talk me into another thinking .... 这山望着那山高 these chio bu are human as well ... they are here for the monies no doubt but they want fun and need some love as well ..... it may be only a few months in sillypore esp for those hjf singers, they need love too. THEY need a break from those "buying love" customers

From then i fall back to the basic wooing chic tactics with my experiences last time when i was very poor - sincere, respect, fun-loving, etc .... armed with the basic wooing tactics again, i've been driving "cars'" as cheap as $100 with hfj singers, ktv girls ........... with other man as young as 30 plus to 70 yo uncle pumping the big money petrol endlessly .............

The more i no care them .... they more they make excuses to meet me .......... Listening to them giving excuses that they are busy, sick, etc to their so-called bf while shaking my 40 yo "xiao di di" ... now I am really happy cheonging with min spending

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by see see only

The more i no care them .... they more they make excuses to meet me .......... Listening to them giving excuses that they are busy, sick, etc to their so-called bf while shaking my 40 yo "xiao di di" ... now I am really happy cheonging with min spending

I'm not referring to quick flings. These are nothing more than side shows and its easy to schedule them into the routine.

I'm referring to all the lovey dovey shit that the threadstarter is speaking of.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I'm not referring to quick flings. These are nothing more than side shows and its easy to schedule them into the routine. I'm referring to all the lovey dovey shit that the threadstarter is speaking of.

Boss,

Similar concept lei .... investment control or budgeting .... not necessary purely on monies ... time & emo could be managed as well

TS should learn when to get prepared mentally before that lovey dovey shit alight the "train" .... so that he could say goodbye gracefully to her without affecting his own life, when the time is up for her to move on.

[jayson]

Hi bros,

Thanks for the advise, but to be honest I know what u all are saying.

I am not here to brag, but hoping that if I let it go in this forum, I can firstly get some useful advises to stop thinking about her and secondly an avenue to release my tension.

Like most of u said family first, money career second. I totally agree, but to use financial means to get lust is really not my aim. Then again being married, I guess that's the best way to release stress, in terms of lust.

What I m into is my own doing n only myself can get myself out if it. Rite?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by jayson

Hi bros,

Thanks for the advise, but to be honest I know what u all are saying.

I am not here to brag, but hoping that if I let it go in this forum, I can firstly get some useful advises to stop thinking about her and secondly an avenue to release my tension.

Like most of u said family first, money career second. I totally agree, but to use financial means to get lust is really not my aim. Then again being married, I guess that's the best way to release stress, in terms of lust.

What I m into is my own doing n only myself can get myself out if it. Rite?

Bro, wat is a successful man?
A man who knows the distinctive line between FAMILY(Internal) and PLAY(external)
Play as u can n as u can afford but at the end of the day, know their place in ur life, then u can be self termed as a successful man.
Dun know what ur getting into, allow the lines to cross, and all hell breaks loose like now.
Get mental n not emotional about ur current situation.
脑是用来解决问题的
心是拿来搞乱问题的
Learn to differentiate the diff between internal n external n all ur probs will go away n u can once again call urself, a successful man.
Can't, n u hv failed!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by jayson

Hi bros,

Thanks for the advise, but to be honest I know what u all are saying.

Should be "Thanks for the ADVICE..." "Advise" is a verb.

I can firstly get some useful advises .....

Should be ..."get some useful ADVICE.". ... same reason.