Breakup

[Eihop]

Originally Posted by plok

Give me her number. I help u explain to her. 😏

Pass me the number if she can't understand mandarin

[thor1981]

Originally Posted by corsiar74

As Chinese say...old one never go, new one will never come 旧的不去， 新的不来。

Move on Bro

good advice bro.
i have had many fwb come and go.
realize just let them go, find out what the benefits are of the fwb leaving (more time, more money etc) and look for a new pussy to fuck.

also some self reflection about what the previous fwb gave you that you need and go and find it.

funny enough i learned women know how to do this automatically and find replacement dick very quickly if they need it.

[sexmaniacs]

Originally Posted by darylcch

I m mid fifties this year
I have an affair partner for nearly 6 years
She is late forties n not married
She is pretty n independent n lots of friends
She know I m married since day 1

We have weekly sex which my wife didn’t give since 10 years ago
We meet weekly for dinner n she will bring me to places I didn’t go before n eat food n wine I didn’t try before

I feel so young n happy
I was lucky to have a pretty younger lady who can fill the void in my life n still understand I m a married man

We were enjoying our companionship so much until last year
I took her for granted n made many mistakes n messed up the relationship in 2024

She say she wanted to be single again n breakup with me end of last year
And she wanted us to stop messaging
I was left broken hearted n lost
We used to msg each other everyday
Send photos our food
Send photos of loving words
Giving care n support to each other

I know I hv to respect her n cannot contact her now
Give her some space
I know I hv to move on n if she want to come back she will but I can’t force her now
I know it’s useless to explain anything n she may has someone more available than me

I m very depressed ( thinking I m already this old to lose my love n suffer quietly alone…. )
I can’t sleep well at night ( fear of falling asleep )
I can’t eat well ( lost 4 kg within 1 month )
I cut off social media connecting with her ( when I see her posts, I have panic anxiety attack )

I wanted to ask her to give me chance before another guy come in
I promised to give us better relationship since I now know my mistake

Anyone here had such experience?
Any chance for her to patch back?
We didn’t msg about 1 month now n I m very very depressed

I really love her a lot

life only got 1 bro, just do things make urself happy only. she dw u, other people want ma, u like that sad sad, she will care meh? she already cut ties like that, just move on liao, bobian one.

[freepeterr]

You said you love her a lot. Then you shd be able to leave your wife for her.

Since already reach this stage, you just look for other younger pussy can already.

I am sure you can find a younger and better one.

[donut88]

Yeah. Let go. Look for new one.

I had a number of fwbs over the years. Had learned to let go. New one is always around the corner.

[saucysal]

You think at her age she suddenly want feel young??? You mid fifties still cannot think properly and so naive? Most likely she found younger guy who can fuck better than you, rather fucking an old man who still behaves so childishly and expect so much from her when you yourself are married.

So old still have this kind of depress heartbreak? Grow up la, care more about your wife and family la. No wonder she also left you, you became a spineless old man that depends on her and doesn't respect and cherish your own current family, much less any self respect for yourself or if you can even gave respect her in the first place to do all these nonsense.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by saucysal

You think at her age she suddenly want feel young??? You mid fifties still cannot think properly and so naive? Most likely she found younger guy who can fuck better than you, rather fucking an old man who still behaves so childishly and expect so much from her when you yourself are married.

So old still have this kind of depress heartbreak? Grow up la, care more about your wife and family la. No wonder she also left you, you became a spineless old man that depends on her and doesn't respect and cherish your own current family, much less any self respect for yourself or if you can even gave respect her in the first place to do all these nonsense.

Agree with you.
TS is so old already still so naive and Khiam Gan. HAHAHA.

Login to SBF just to scold old people. Damn Fun Sia. HAHAHA.

@Angmolover , Bro still not creating new account to fuck people? Wasted all your posting. HAHAHA.

[superhamsapex]

Originally Posted by darylcch

I m mid fifties this year
I have an affair partner for nearly 6 years
She is late forties n not married
She is pretty n independent n lots of friends
She know I m married since day 1

We have weekly sex which my wife didn’t give since 10 years ago
We meet weekly for dinner n she will bring me to places I didn’t go before n eat food n wine I didn’t try before

I feel so young n happy
I was lucky to have a pretty younger lady who can fill the void in my life n still understand I m a married man

We were enjoying our companionship so much until last year
I took her for granted n made many mistakes n messed up the relationship in 2024

She say she wanted to be single again n breakup with me end of last year
And she wanted us to stop messaging
I was left broken hearted n lost
We used to msg each other everyday
Send photos our food
Send photos of loving words
Giving care n support to each other

I know I hv to respect her n cannot contact her now
Give her some space
I know I hv to move on n if she want to come back she will but I can’t force her now
I know it’s useless to explain anything n she may has someone more available than me

I m very depressed ( thinking I m already this old to lose my love n suffer quietly alone…. )
I can’t sleep well at night ( fear of falling asleep )
I can’t eat well ( lost 4 kg within 1 month )
I cut off social media connecting with her ( when I see her posts, I have panic anxiety attack )

I wanted to ask her to give me chance before another guy come in
I promised to give us better relationship since I now know my mistake

Anyone here had such experience?
Any chance for her to patch back?
We didn’t msg about 1 month now n I m very very depressed

I really love her a lot

bro, i have the exact same experience with you,
go see psychiatrist doctor,
tell your story and your symptoms,
doctor will give you xanax and sleeping pill to temporary help you,
but dont be too reliant on the medicine,
it just temporary relieve your problem,
slowly times will heal you up bro.
dont give up, think of your original family and they rely on you,
you can think of them as your pillar of support,
luckily for my side, my wife is supportive for me.
dont give up bro

[alea]

Originally Posted by superhamsapex

bro, i have the exact same experience with you,
go see psychiatrist doctor,
tell your story and your symptoms,
doctor will give you xanax and sleeping pill to temporary help you,
but dont be too reliant on the medicine,
it just temporary relieve your problem,
slowly times will heal you up bro.
dont give up, think of your original family and they rely on you,
you can think of them as your pillar of support,
luckily for my side, my wife is supportive for me.
dont give up bro

I have same experience with you , TS. It’s a heartbreak that we can’t share with anyone. I tried sharing with closed friends but no one could understand.

Do you wish to patch up with her? If yes, can try asking her out to talk things through. Let her know your feelings and heartache. She might give iin.