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[aristodemus690]

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[Sinser]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Bros, I unlocked meeting ML after work to eat hotpot $200+ her treat. See her take out the cash she earned from tips to pay for the meal. Feels good.

The last time ML did this to me also then after that ask alot. I just ghost her
If you are not investing, You are the investment. I am always wary

[mm88617]

Actually surrounding still have some good ML, my experience is the ML always buy me fruits to eat. When she RTC still send me a ang pao every Chinese new year. Happy new year huat a !

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Bros, I unlocked meeting ML after work to eat hotpot $200+ her treat. See her take out the cash she earned from tips to pay for the meal. Feels good.

[aristodemus690]

@Sinser yeah thanks for the reminder. Similar to how I’d ghost SG girls if we go on dates and I feel like I’m an ATM more than a person. But I don’t drive nor do I flex my money. When we go out it’s just Grab. I’ll keep your words in mind if we continue to meet up. For now, it just seems like she’s looking for more companionship in SG than anything else, because it’s not like she has some sob story at home. Family is intact, etc.

@mm88617 wow sounds like yall had quite a good relationship too. Ang pao through WeChat? You set up your account ah?

[Binnn]

Facing the same problem..

I'm 30+ married and trying to unlock a 6-month ML whom im v close with. Recently, I slowly realised I'm getting KC myself into her. Chat with her more often and getting services almost weekly. Got progress in fingering and stripping but so far no progress in meeting her outside.

Any advices, bro? How to de-KC myself?

[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by Binnn

Facing the same problem..

I'm 30+ married and trying to unlock a 6-month ML whom im v close with. Recently, I slowly realised I'm getting KC myself into her. Chat with her more often and getting services almost weekly. Got progress in fingering and stripping but so far no progress in meeting her outside.

Any advices, bro? How to de-KC myself?

Cold turkey bro. I don't know what your home situation is, but I don't think this is mentally and emotionally good.. At least that's my personal opinion.

But personal stuff aside, I think some clear signs that they like you more than your money and business is:
- ok to meet outside after work or when they take leave (they have so limited days, it means its precious to them. Esp since many use these days to go facial or treatment)
- ok to go dutch, pay for the meal, etc. to show how she's not meeting you outside for your money
- ok to let you send her home, because there's vulnerability in letting a customer know this.

If none of the above, she's probably doing aftersales service to get you to keep going back.

Cold turkey and if you really cannot take it, go visit another MP.

[CookCrew]

Originally Posted by Binnn

Facing the same problem..

I'm 30+ married and trying to unlock a 6-month ML whom im v close with. Recently, I slowly realised I'm getting KC myself into her. Chat with her more often and getting services almost weekly. Got progress in fingering and stripping but so far no progress in meeting her outside.

Any advices, bro? How to de-KC myself?

Try asking directly to go eat with you at your favourite restaurants and see how she reply whether she keen or come up with excuses. Her response might give you some clarity.

[Tryout888]

Originally Posted by Binnn

Facing the same problem..

I'm 30+ married and trying to unlock a 6-month ML whom im v close with. Recently, I slowly realised I'm getting KC myself into her. Chat with her more often and getting services almost weekly. Got progress in fingering and stripping but so far no progress in meeting her outside.

Any advices, bro? How to de-KC myself?

Why the temptation? and why her? how about try others

[dantamkc]

My 2c … so far I managed to unlock a ML in the old hotel, a spa in Telok Blangah, a spa in Tiong Bahru a spa in Pandan and one in Bukit Panjang… all came after slow build up in wechats and regular visits… all also raw 😆so I think most ML with time and money will be unlocked - just be hygienic polite and friendly … I think can unlock !😆 happy cNY bros !

[Binnn]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Cold turkey bro. I don't know what your home situation is, but I don't think this is mentally and emotionally good.. At least that's my personal opinion.

But personal stuff aside, I think some clear signs that they like you more than your money and business is:
- ok to meet outside after work or when they take leave (they have so limited days, it means its precious to them. Esp since many use these days to go facial or treatment)
- ok to go dutch, pay for the meal, etc. to show how she's not meeting you outside for your money
- ok to let you send her home, because there's vulnerability in letting a customer know this.

If none of the above, she's probably doing aftersales service to get you to keep going back.

Cold turkey and if you really cannot take it, go visit another MP.

Thanks for your advice. Happily married but just want to try new things. I think I need to forget her and explore new ML for now.

[Binnn]

Originally Posted by CookCrew

Try asking directly to go eat with you at your favourite restaurants and see how she reply whether she keen or come up with excuses. Her response might give you some clarity.

Thanks for advice. Will try bro

[Binnn]

Originally Posted by Tryout888

Why the temptation? and why her? how about try others

She is nice to talk to and become like a friend.. and of course got more services without any topup. I think I need to explore other ML else confirm KC. PM me if you got nice ML.

[testoste]

Originally Posted by Binnn

Facing the same problem..

I'm 30+ married and trying to unlock a 6-month ML whom im v close with. Recently, I slowly realised I'm getting KC myself into her. Chat with her more often and getting services almost weekly. Got progress in fingering and stripping but so far no progress in meeting her outside.

Any advices, bro? How to de-KC myself?

I also one time almost become KCed. I learnt one way if u still wanna play the game, is to have a few to rotate. Then, u less likely to be KCed. The other way like what other bro said cold turkey.

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by testoste

I also one time almost become KCed. I learnt one way if u still wanna play the game, is to have a few to rotate. Then, u less likely to be KCed. The other way like what other bro said cold turkey.

WOO UPZ 👍 👍 👍

[cheeseofpower]

I think a valid point that many bros have talked about is being realistic, in terms of what can happen if you get want to invest when unlocking ML or even getting into a relationship. They might tell you things like you're the only one they have feelings for or the extras they only do for you, but unless you're committed and you don't mind her other customers then you shouldn't invest too much into the ML, whether time, effort or money.

There was an ML that I followed across different shops across 1 year plus, honestly just liked chatting with her (although of course service was great). Always thought of doing more although I didn't push it because of the usual reasons like the shop don't allow or reception patrolling, but one day we were just enjoying each other so much that she asked and I was shocked (pleasantly surprised lol).

Did think about her a lot but I was honest with myself that I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with her while she continued her job and she made clear her priority was to work to earn money and take care of her family back home (so she was not interested in using her off days to go out with me but to save them to visit her family back home), so I just pushed those thoughts aside and just kept a good working relationship, visiting and texting once in a while.

Thanks to all the previous commenters who emphasize on being realists, of course there are some customers and MLs who have happy endings (relationship wise) but for most just have fun and don't think too much