Missed Signals

[fxty1989]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

Basically , you chose to remain close friends .. it's your choice

Yes, it’s my choice, and I don’t regret it. On way way, it may get better, but there is also a chance that it become massive as we share a lot of mutual friends.

[fxty1989]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

When I reminded her to bring her ID on actual day, she asked why and I told her the snacks were in the room. When she got angry, I gave her the reason that I was outside and did not bring the snacks so the idea is after meeting her for dinner we can go back my hotel to eat the snacks.

When I first mention to bring ID, she didn't say anything. So on hindsight, maybe I should just kept it at that and not remind her again.

Yes, actually there is no need to mention this “ID thing”, first, most of them carry ID with them all the time, as they may need to use it in their daily life. Also, high chance that hotel won’t check her ID if she came in together with you and acted like a friend to you. Should let the thing flow naturally.

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by fxty1989

Yes, actually there is no need to mention this “ID thing”, first, most of them carry ID with them all the time, as they may need to use it in their daily life. Also, high chance that hotel won’t check her ID if she came in together with you and acted like a friend to you. Should let the thing flow naturally.

The hotel staff mention she must bring ID and it's stated on their counter also. She also mention she don't bring ID usually. But the fact she din mention anything when I first mention bring ID , perhaps I should have taken she understood something maybe ?

[fxty1989]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

The hotel staff mention she must bring ID and it's stated on their counter also. She also mention she don't bring ID usually. But the fact she din mention anything when I first mention bring ID , perhaps I should have taken she understood something maybe ?

Yes you are not wrong, the hotel staff will always say all the visitors need to register at counter because of the local regulations. But the truth is most of the time, they will just close one eye and let people in and out freely, as long as they have the key card. So far I only kena one time, they asked the girl to register as she came in dressed like a cosplayer.

As for the girl you met, I think at the moment when you invited her to your hotel, she got your intention already. If she didn’t say “no” at the moment, means she is ok with it. But this “bring your ID” thing hurts her pride, especially you mentioned it twice, makes her feel “cheap” or “easy to get”.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

The hotel staff mention she must bring ID and it's stated on their counter also. She also mention she don't bring ID usually.

https://mothership.sg/2017/12/wechat...al-virtual-id/

Wechat is their digital ID since Jan 2018. That is why she said she doesn't bring her physical ID usually. She gave an excuse not to meet you.

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by fxty1989

Yes you are not wrong, the hotel staff will always say all the visitors need to register at counter because of the local regulations. But the truth is most of the time, they will just close one eye and let people in and out freely, as long as they have the key card. So far I only kena one time, they asked the girl to register as she came in dressed like a cosplayer.

As for the girl you met, I think at the moment when you invited her to your hotel, she got your intention already. If she didn’t say “no” at the moment, means she is ok with it. But this “bring your ID” thing hurts her pride, especially you mentioned it twice, makes her feel “cheap” or “easy to get”.

Yup on hindsight , I should not have reminded her again to bring ID.
About the snacks , I met up with another lady and gave to her already.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

The hotel staff mention she must bring ID and it's stated on their counter also. She also mention she don't bring ID usually. But the fact she din mention anything when I first mention bring ID , perhaps I should have taken she understood something maybe ?

That whore did not want to fuck you back then and forever. Understood? HAHAHA.
The part where you offered her cheap snacks instead of paying her good money was downright insulting and makes her look really cheap. HAHAHA.
Good one from your side. You insulted her without knowing. You still think she will want to fuck you? HAHAHA.

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

https://mothership.sg/2017/12/wechat...al-virtual-id/

Wechat is their digital ID since Jan 2018. That is why she said she doesn't bring her physical ID usually. She gave an excuse not to meet you.

She already agreed to meet me. Then I asked about bringing ID.
So her reply might be based on what you mention.