Upz this thread. No bros should cheong without reading this cheong thread. Kudos to bro warbird and all the seniors for their sharing
This is so true back in 2012 and still the same now.
Quote:
Originally Posted by warbird
Many experienced n dominant men get KC-ed n become the partners who care more n more in the RS, when they meet THE ONE AND ONLY (or so they thought). It doesn't matter if THE ONE is a WL or non-WL. In fact, if she is a legal wife, the results can be even more catastrophic.
A MAN needs to be mentally tough, dominant n be the one who cares the least in ANY AND EVERY RS. It doesn't mean you're heartless n callous, no no no, it only means you're hv formidable self mastery n are nonchaiant no matter what happens n you r always caring n responsible. Ironically, that kind behaviour is fatally attractive to women. The gal will become desperate, needy n crave u...conversely, being kind n sensitive n putting THE ONE on a pedestal is the kiss of death for the RS.
Let me post the following quote again (sent to me by 18 yo CL):
Yes, not just men who think they r old, but ALL men who hv insecurity n inferiority complex for whatever reason, be it questions of age, height, weight, ethnicity, religion, skin color, health status, income/wealth, negative self image n self esteem, past negative experiences n RS, social/economic/educational status, emotional state, below average IQ or EQ, etc., belong to this camp.
These men either put the chio gals/women of their type on a pedestal n/or use manipulation/deception to get them into bed. This type of RS will never last, hahaha.
A MAN w/ true self confidence/self mastery does need to do any of that. Take a look at Sean Stephenson n u will know what I mean.
Cheers!
Bro WB
"Sean Clinch Stephenson is an American therapist, self-help author and motivational speaker. Because he was born with osteogenesis imperfecta, Stephenson stands three feet tall, has fragile bones, and uses a wheelchair. Wikipedia"
I like EN a lot. Last wk I brought her to a dinner buffet at Raffles City. She enjoyed the food very much, but said too expensive, not worth it. She needs to dress up a bit n make herself more glamorous...although she is already very pretty wearing worn-out dress n w/o any make up. She is the 1st gal I know who refuses gifts.
She is also submissive, although she has her principles. Two days ago I mentioned to EN abt the idea of finding another tall chio 18 yo from PRC to 'keep her company' when she returns as a student. She flatly rejected the idea. 我不认识的女孩， 很可能合不来。。。她可能是会妒忌的。Nice try on my part hahaha. I'll not bring up the subject for now.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
You mentioned quite a few posts about your romance with your LP EN. How long did it last? What is she doing now?
Hope you did not fell in love with her which is taboo in your theory here.
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Originally Posted by warbird
BTW, I hv discussed the importance of masculinity, confidence, dominance n mental toughness in attracting the prettiest women.
I like to add another word: Badass.
bad-ass
1. adjective. having extremely favorable qualities
2. adjective. pertaining to a person or thing that is rugged, strong, and/or ready to show these qualities
3. noun. person who is perceived to have the qualities of definition 2
Yes, I aspire to be the a very badass.
Now for some of the most badass, manly, masculine, alpha male quotes of all time:
Bro WB
Bro, I also hope to be a bad-ass guy.
What was described above is exactly like in the animal kingdom. The dominant male will get all the pussies and losers will get balance or nothing.
I recall reading a book entitled "The Wisdom of Insecurity" by Alan Watts.
The author is a century ahead of his time.
I'll quote a few of his sayings here.
"For the animal to be happy it is enough that this moment be enjoyable." For man, we often miss this moment by trying to assure the next (eternal) moment will be as enjoyable.
Basically, we spend too much time planning and anticipating the future and too much time thinking about, lamenting and wishing to change the past. It's an exercise in futility n we miss the joy of living in the present entirely.
"But tomorrow and plans for tomorrow can have no significance at all unless you are in full contact with the reality of the present, since it is in the present and only in the present that you live. There is no other reality than present reality, so that, even if one were to live for endless ages, to live for the future would be to miss the point everlastingly."
"If happiness always depends on the future, we are chasing a will-o-the-wisp that ever eludes our grasp, until the future, and ourselves, vanish in the abyss of death."
Cheers n hv a great day!
Bro WB
Bro WB
"The Wisdom of Insecurity : A Message for an Age of Anxiety" - thanks for recommending this book.
I try to do rather than plan too much. We learned from my own mistakes. Never worried about failures. Sometimes tomorrow or future may be too far away. Too many missed opportunities.
I believe one of the most attractive masculine traits is formidable emotional control. It's what separates men from "boys."
Here is a brief email on the subject.
Hey Bro Warbird,
Quick, what should you do if the woman in your life tries to start
an argument, gets upset, or is otherwise emotional?
With two upset people, getting more upset at each other, with the
man whining that the woman doesn't "respect him." Duh. Women
don't respect men who can't control their emotions.
You have to understand the female brain operates differently than
the male brain. Getting emotional to a woman means something
vastly different than a man getting emotional.
If a woman is upset, in a bad mood, or just plain emotional, she
wants a man to bring her back to center, to provide a strong,
calming presence. Do that, and after a short amount of time
passes, and her emotions will reset to hers.
Provide an atmosphere of strength, security, and grace under
pressure, and her base emotional state will reset to yours. No,
she won't always be calm, as women never are. But she will
eventually reset to your emotional state, looking to you as a place
of grounding.
Cheers
Bro WB - really enjoyed reading above post.
When a girl is upset best to let her calm down before talking to her. Often man do not need to say or talk but presence felt will help to cool her down. Talk to her only after she calm down. Never get into any arguments especially in public. Will be very ugly and no winner in any fight or argument.
I believe any man can get chio gals of his type n making them addicted to him. It's part art n part science, just like the study of medicine. No matter how good a man is, he can still improve greatly...especially at his subconscious level, until he is completely secure, joyous n fearless, even in life or death situations.
Have a great day!!
Bro WB
Bro WB
I was reading all the exchanges previously regarding "insecure" but I would like to reply to above post.
I fully agreed that we can still improve and you claimed to be ah pek but still wanted to improve. By now think yo will still say the same thing.
Quote:
Originally Posted by DYBJ
An alpha is someone who has
1) Superb SA( Situational Awareness)
2) Superb SI (Survival Instinct)
3) A good Mind reader (Whereby he can read his/her mind of the other party)
4) A good strategist
5) Very composed, not ruled by emo but brain
For ur statement, because u dunno wat u wan n u r confused, u already dun belong to the alpha world.
So, reading more about it will not help ur understanding in wat makes an alpha tick.
I will leave the alpha of this thread, Guru Warbird to lead u to the path of enlightenment
Bro WB
I found the above post very interesting and I have to agreed as well.
Just received "It's OK to say NO" from a guru. Actually it's more than OK. In fact, it's much better to say NO in many instances, even to a beautiful woman u truly love if u don't want to lose her.
"It's OK to say NO"
Hey Bro Warbird,
It's a fact: men want women to like them. Every guy, at some
point in his life (usually at a young age) wonders if a woman
"likes him."
Why? Because if she "likes you," it's presumed good things will
happen, so we, as men go out of our way to get a woman to "like us."
Oftentimes this backfires when a man erroneously thinks that being
"nice" will make a woman like you. But, it doesn't. In fact, it
usually leads to a loss of attraction on her part, and her not
"liking" you, except as a friend. And we, as men, want nothing to
do with that kind of liking.
One way of getting women to like us revolves around saying "yes" to
them. After all, from birth we are taught yes is good and no is
bad. We are also taught that if we say yes to someone they will
like us, and if we say no to someone they will dislike us.
So, make "no" part of your vocabulary with women. They will respect
you for it, especially when balanced out with reasonable (and the
very occasional unreasonable) yes. A man who can say no to things
he should say no to is a man worthy of trust.
Who knew saying "no" could lead to so many good things...
Cheers!
Mr. Guru
Bro WB
I like the word "NO" very much. Good to reject gal audacious requests but best to say NO.
Gal used to guy who always said YES to get her. So a reply NO can be something new to her and sure she will want to delve further.
Will continue to read more of your thread and hope you continue to guide us too.
13-08-2017, 04:34 PM
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