True Love Story of a PRC woman and a Experienced Chengster

[prcbrok]

Originally Posted by alan0338

boss, wat u mean by u confirm she nv betray u????is it emotionally or physically???? u lock her hole and heart????

becoz I installed a phone tracking software and I know where she went. She is aware of that too

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by prcbrok

Nov 2012 – God’s early warning
Nothing special but brought her to Kunming. Interestingly, while in Kunming, we bump into a Monk and the monk saw me and straight away gave me an advice: "色字头上一把刀“ meaning you are threading on dangerous sex.

This monk must be genuine as he did not ask you for money or cheated you in the first place. I had my turn before with an old fortune teller that can read faces, immediately after seeing me he already knew what happened to me before without asking and gave me some important advice on how to take care of myself. And unfortunately you decided to ignore him and proceed with your relationship.

[porscheclub]

Oh no, bro. Serious trouble you have.

Cut all contacts with her now & change your mobile nos etc. if the condo is under her name then take it as a lost investment. You need cold turkey treatment.

Long ago a fortune teller once told me that "I'm filling the sea with soil" & this is for you as well. I've been through a few such cases so can relate well. She's digging money on your compassionate heart & don't ever have a child with her. If she does get pregnant then order a DNA test but please, don't get yourself into further trouble with her.

All we want is to have good fuck. Remember, we pay money for pleasure & not pressure. You've had your fun & it's gone wrong so pull the plug before you lose your mind, time & $$$

Get rid of her now.

[prcbrok]

22nd Aug - Part I
I made up my mind I cannot accept the fact that she is sleeping around. I call her and said I am prepared to sell some of my shares to help meet her family problem. She agreed not to work anymore if I can forgive her. However, I change my mind and cannot get over the fact that she betray me and sleep with someone. I told her if she want to continue to work, I will not give her anymore money. She was hoping that she can get her monthly allowance + whatever she earn from her own. She said she is fine with my proposal, ie. We continue to be together, she is not expecting me to give her anymore money but I cannot stop her on how she made the money. I agreed.
That night, she got a booking at 8pm and informed me that she has removed the Not Convenient Badge and ready for Outcall. My heart started to feel the pain. I regretted what I said to her. I chat her, call her mobile and plead with her not to go out and sleep with the hongkie tonight. She said, its your fault, once we removed this badge, cannot reject. I told her at most you don’t accept the tips, paid the 1000CNY fine or worst get fired and go home and I will continue to give you the monthly allowance. She promise me ok but I wasn’t sure.
I keep constant contact with her on the chat and the last chat session at 2:07, she asked me to sleep and she will inform me when she knock off from work.

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by prcbrok

becoz I installed a phone tracking software and I know where she went. She is aware of that too

wah! u jagar her till like tat??!!!maciam ur pet sial!!! but actually u are the pet and still paying money... u the man!!!

[hock19]

Alamak.

First of all, if you do raw, must be sure to release during "safe" period; as if she gets pregnant, you are to be indebted to her for the rest of your life (or until she gets another better guy with lots of money)

Second, if you know she is lying to you, just don't take the call, or else use your smart phone to block her no. After a few tries, she will give up once she knows she cannot control you. Or if possible, change phone no.

Life till go on. She knows how to take cars of themselves......

It is hard to go through this phase but this is the only way.....just try not to make contact with her. Move on and get another one; and maybe do the same but with past experience, you next relationship ought to be better thought out!

[prcbrok]

22nd Aug – Part II

At 2.47m I believe it’s near to closing time and I contact her on her mobile. The phone rang forever but no answer and no disconnect by her. I was devastated as I thought she must have started the fuck session but deep inside I was hoping she get herself drunk so that is the excuse to get out of the bonk session. The mgmt. does not allow any girl that are drunk to be brought back by customer. I tried calling her every minute, 247, 2.48, 2.49, 2.50 am …… until 3.47 and still no response. I felt a little relive as I thought she must have drunk, otherwise the fuck session should finished by 1 hour which statistically not any people achieve that. I continue to dial every minute until am, the phone ring tone indicates the phone is busy. I am confused, is she done now and tried to call her room mates or is she drunk and her buddy is trying to contact her room mate. I continue to call again every minute until next morning 09;30 am, a total of close to 500 calls recorded on my phone to that number. I felt helpless, it’s like you know she is going into the room and get fuck and there is nothing you could do to stop that. It’s painful, very painful. I cried. I began to hate myself for suggesting that she go and do what she want, as long as she remain by my side I am fine. At 0930 am, she answered the call. For the 1st time, I really wished she would lie to me that she is drunk and she intentionally get herself drunk just to get away from this bonk session. However, she did not lie for the 1st time, she admitted that she went and service the men, that fucking Hongkie, I am cursing him to have herpes one day and get knock by a car. I asked her whether she love me and she said yes. I asked why would you do this to hurt me. Her response was actually I like this arrangement that you proposed. She said she can be with me and can continue to earn her money. I told her I can forget about last night and as long as she stop work immediately, I continue to provide her with what she is always getting. She said she knew I have financial difficulties and she prefer to earn her own money and it’s a lot more than what I can give. She told me if you want to be with me, that is the only way. When your financial situation improve, then she will get out of this. I always thought that I will never forgive her if she ever sleep with another man but I am surprised I can forgive her if she promised to stop. My love for her is genuine. There are many times I wanted to disclose our affair to my wife and suggest a divorce but I lack the courage to hurt my family. Eventually, I agreed that we continue, she can do what she wanted and I don’t have to give her any more money. However, I am beginning to wonder why would she still want to continue with me then? I am not young and not nice looking, so what is she after?

[prcbrok]

23rd Aug

Upon advice by my close friends , I finally contacted her and told her I cannot accept to be her “hubby” and still allow her to work and sleep around with other men. I would prefer to maintain as when we first met, i.e. customer relationship. We break our relationship but when I am there will patronize and support you. I guess this option is less painful for me.

In fact I am deceiving myself, it is still painful! Like what most of my friend said, just do a clean break and you will be fine after a few days.

24th Aug

She sent an online chat to me knowing my original plan is to go up and see her in Sept. She asked me to stay at our condo and she is not asking for payment.

I am still confused. I don’t know what to do but I have a 2 hour call with her in the middle of the night. After the call, my logic thinking tell me that I must break as there many tell tale signs she is going t squeeze you to death. My heart keep saying No, she is still in love with me . no one other than myself can feel it.

[prcbrok]

My decision?

She has done nothing wrong. The fact is she is helping me too so be appreciative and learn to accept and understand her. She probably don’t feel good too but she need someone to lend emotional support. I may not be the prince charming but over the past 2 years, I have given her all the emotional support. I cannot forget her and I cannot let go. If I do a clean break like what many suggested, I think both she and me will get hurt badly.

Have anyone had any girl doing these type of work and continue the relationship with you? Is it workable? How do you handle your emotions when she is sleeping around while you are at home waiting for her return?

[esssinine]

like that call experienced cheongster ah?

[jnudes]

You are not experienced after all.......she is in love with your money. Which WL doesn't? Now you still want to be with her despite you have one happy family.

Divorce your wife to sort out this matter? Next time most likely she would ask you to kick your wife out like an animal from your home and you going to accept that?

Currently you are in a self-destruct mode. Eventually she will swallow all your wealth and make you a poor man. You are indeed playing a very dangerous game. And I dare to say she must have put some black magic on you too.

By the time you realized everything is too late already...

[jj583]

Bro, time to wake up!
We pay, have fun and fxxk off!
Forsakening your family? Pls remember those time that u and yr wife/family shared!
Your kids, yr wife are the utmost important ppl in yr life! Not that prc gal!
In time of trouble, yr family members will be there for u, not the prc gal ...
Having said so much, it's yr choice!

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by prcbrok

My decision?

She has done nothing wrong. The fact is she is helping me too so be appreciative and learn to accept and understand her.

wah lao eh, really most gong of all the gong kias around! u are the champion!

[wolfgang999]

u r stupid, wanna keep ktv girl, then be mentally prepared she will sleep around with other men for that extra money.

they are in this line for money, unless you can support her whole village, be prepared for her to earn that extra income. You will be hearing stories about sickly grand parents, brothers and sisters who need to pay school fees, gangster relatives who threaten to tell her parents what she did unless she pay them certain amount of money etc etc..

if you cannot turn yourself away from these heart-wrenching stories, dun call yourself experienced chiongster, coz you havent seen anything yet

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Going singing drinking groping da bao ST in the nite scene does not make one an experienced cheongster.
An experienced cheongster is one who goes often & knows + understand the modus operandi of the nite scene, not just the joint/joints but also the GROs or singers.
Know how "THEY" make money, how they use reverse psychology, ego boosting words, emotional reverse mental games to make MOST MEN give what would be a straight "NO" if asked for. Then, and only then can u b called experienced.

U were just a number in the pool of sharks that was waiting for ur turn to be bitten.

Things u shud know now:

1) Read back what you wrote but look at it not from ur perspective but from a perspective of someone else reading what another person wrote. You will see ur flaw.
2) The oldest trick in a WLs book to make money is 希望记
If u looked at wat u wrote, the amount of 希望 u mentioned n applied on urself made u a very FAVOURITE candidate of these WLs
3) 可以娶一个鸡做老婆，不可娶一个老婆做鸡
For this case, as long as u cud pay the rent, meaning "HER", she's urs. The minute u cud not afford rent, it's on to the next better player
Since u mentioned ur 40+, u will know this song. The lyrics says everything

4) Even at the end of everything, u ask if anyone has any success or lived like u hv.
Actually, many have but hv disappeared in to oblivion wif no one to pity them or came out of it n became a master of this GAME.

Remember the golden sutra of every WL out there, be it PRC, Viet, Thai, Russian >> 感情记 / 希望记 = more $$$$$$$$$
Remember the golden sutra of a seasoned cheongster >> 感情记 / 希望记 = more free bonks, beating them at their own game. Then & only then, can u qualify as a seasoned cheongster.
As from ur posts, ur still a noobie noob

Last but not least, ur post show a very delusional person, one in deep denial of the REALITY of the situation. Truth hurts my friend, bite the bullet & face the truth.
Walk away & learn from it rather than holding on to water n drown from it

See my signature below on the golden rules & see how much u hv betrayed urself
So now, decision time.
To save urself, or kill urself wif ur own hand!