inner thoughts

chanda · #1 31-08-2011, 03:39 PM

I get to know a lady. She's a divorcee. I didn't ask her wat happen to her previous marriage as it's deem too sensitive.
The funny part about her is that she initiated the sms. The first sms was sent from her without me knowing her phone number. Maybe i look decent enough.
How can i read her mind? What does she want? Any idea?

falchion · #2 31-08-2011, 04:23 PM

Divorcee are usually lonely. She will need a companion and also a FB. If you are still single you may help her. If you are married then I will advise you to stay out.

MasterBates · #3 31-08-2011, 10:46 PM

Why think so much? If you find her desirable, just up her.

blueboat · #4 31-08-2011, 10:49 PM

she is probably looking for companionship first, someone to talk to.
Take it slow...don't rush it.

chanda · #5 04-09-2011, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by falchion

Divorcee are usually lonely. She will need a companion and also a FB. If you are still single you may help her. If you are married then I will advise you to stay out.

yes, it is like inviting trouble.. that's why i am holding back the progress (but man are suckers

).. BTW, i dun even know what is her thoughts

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Originally Posted by trimix71

Lots of ides - if u can share first the circumstances of ur start of contct nd what stands in sms..

hope u can refrain from writing short form, cos i dun understand it.. but hope u can contribute some idea

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Originally Posted by blueboat

she is probably looking for companionship first, someone to talk to.
Take it slow...don't rush it.

you are right. just got contact from her again..

blueboat · #6 04-09-2011, 03:54 AM

What is she saying this time? Be sympathetic and let her tell you her thoughts.

joew2005 · #7 04-09-2011, 06:44 AM

but it's more than meets the eyes ...
looks r deceiving,but the eyes nvr lies

naturegreen · #8 04-09-2011, 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by chanda

BTW, i dun even know what is her thoughts

Why do you want to know her inner thoughts? Just thrust deep deep into her. The lesser you know at times is better. Wait you get to know her too much, feelings develop then you kena stuck. Unless you are interested to go into a long-term relationship, else just F and go.

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Originally Posted by joew2005

but it's more than meets the eyes ...
looks r deceiving,but the eyes nvr lies

Wait scarli she becomes a transformer. LoL.

alan0338 · #9 04-09-2011, 11:17 AM

TS, make things easier for u hor, pass her ctc leh, ask for u wat she wans , swee bo?

MarsIswar · #10 04-09-2011, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by alan0338

TS, make things easier for u hor, pass her ctc leh, ask for u wat she wans , swee bo?

Bro you solid ah cut car so openly u must be driving those 3.5 turbo cum supercharged car 

gottosam · #11 05-09-2011, 06:32 PM

Bro TS, it's difficult to read someone's mind unless u have known tat person for a while or u met tat person and u r gifted/experienced in reading human behavior.
This lady might want companionship for a start...someone whom she can talk to. So if u dun know her tat well...go and meet her (provided u r comfortable in doing so) to know more...be a ready listener. Once u find out more, u can decide if u wanna continue as a friend or move to next level. Juz my 2 cts worth

Bro naturegreen, I almost fell off the chair laughing about your transformer joke...me transformer fan lah...upz u for this!

chanda · #12 12-09-2011, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by gottosam

Bro TS, it's difficult to read someone's mind unless u have known tat person for a while or u met tat person and u r gifted/experienced in reading human behavior.
This lady might want companionship for a start...someone whom she can talk to. So if u dun know her tat well...go and meet her (provided u r comfortable in doing so) to know more...be a ready listener. Once u find out more, u can decide if u wanna continue as a friend or move to next level. Juz my 2 cts worth

Bro naturegreen, I almost fell off the chair laughing about your transformer joke...me transformer fan lah...upz u for this!

Nice reading all posts. Think nobody could figure out her unless tried. Isn't just accompany or other motive ? .. One thing is she is not from MLM or insurance..
Know that some ppl working in Human Resource can dig into the prospect thoughts. Wonder any body here from HR or..

Could she be craving for sex or just a listener?

1stTR · #13 12-09-2011, 05:19 PM

Bro, few things u need to know.

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Originally Posted by chanda

I get to know a lady. She's a divorcee. I didn't ask her wat happen to her previous marriage as it's deem too sensitive.

You know her thru meet-up or phone?

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Originally Posted by chanda

The funny part about her is that she initiated the sms.

If you already knew her, what so funny abt her initiate the sms to u. Is it the content?

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Originally Posted by chanda

The first sms was sent from her without me knowing her phone number.

She sms u and no number was reflected?

Then how u reply?

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Originally Posted by chanda

Maybe i look decent enough.
How can i read her mind? What does she want? Any idea?

Why would u wanna read her mind? Do u think that female who take initiative to sms a male will have hidden agenda? More info needs to be provided if u're looking for advise from the bros here.