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most of womens this day has only gotten the wrong concept of feminism and wants to overpower men
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Hi Samsters,
Thanks for your advices. I am trying to minimise the cost but if really no choice, I guess I can fork out to 10k to for this. We been married around 6 years and no kids, both of us is holding a full time job. I do not give her any money despite her numerous demands, no joint savings, no other marital assets except HDB. |
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Start building evidence of her unreasonable behavior. |
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The good things are there are no children and not much assets. It makes the divorce so much simpler. Though how much you will spend is also determine by what the other party do. |
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Sorry to TS for hijacking your thread. |
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one further advise, if money need to be given. Give lump sum and f off. never op for monthly/yearly allowance as this allows the other party chance of coming back to bite you. good luck
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Unfortunately, if family issues are bad to begin with. It seldom improves with time, only get worse (IMHO). Like another guy said. Paid her a lump in whatever manner and tell her to F off. The longer you drag, the more complicated it becomes. A home is a place to relax and chill, not a battlefield. These people have psychological and behavioural issues. Get rid of them. Don't be like this guy in one of the FB groups I subbed. Came onto a M***W FB grp. 1st thing asked if should divorce his wife, somemore married to a PRC for 10 years with 3 children, now regretting it. Last edited by LooksLikeJesus; 11-01-2021 at 10:30 AM. |
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marriage is sharing burden. if you are getting the blunt of it, then its time to make a stand. Couple of things i dont understanding though,
1) why is your rental at 1.8k when your take home is 2k+ 2) are you living with her entire family? To make an immediate improvement. Stop giving her money until she wise up. Since she sounded super self centered. Then, no need to be nice until she turns nice.
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You dont show her your fangs, she will always treat you like a slave once she is used to it.
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Most important of all, children will always be the ultimate victims. |
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From someone who has gone thru this i hope this woudl help u although this is not meant to encourage u to leave ur marrriage;
If u can have patience. In abusive marriage, try to find excuse to setup cameras at home . U need evidence. Start to squirriel money away and be smart about it . Cryptos are a good way. The pool of asset to be split is net of loans . Hint hint. If got kid u can consider to take the kid away and walk out first before she does it to u . Consider taking up a PPO if she hit u , thats y u have cctv at home. Start collecting receipts for proof of household expenses. Consult a decent lawyer. I am not a lawyer... and this is just for your reference. I made this decision and i dont regret it . I am a happier person now. Each family is different. |
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