Finding sugar girl in asia

[Sandor11111]

First time poster. I am new to the whole scene in asia. Recently divorced and retired 39 year old healthy fit and charming northern European man. I've been working across USA, middle east, USA, Canada and Latin America the last 14 years in commodities / energy.
Now im just doing some small consulting based in Singapore and tending my investments.
I'm planning on traveling around asia the next year, maybe settling down when I find a nice place. But Singapore will be my base.

My question is what's the best way to find young full-time sugar babies?

I want to have 1-3 18-23 year old girls who live with me full time for months or even longer. I'm happy to pay them and their families a more than fair fee. Every month.

I'm not looking for a sex slave or something that demeaning.. I want to enjoy the time with them and take good care of them. Of course I expect them to take good care of me. Nothing unreasonable, only consensual and great sex.

If they don't speak English that well, I'll teach them. Happy to teach them life skills too.

I might want to do things like pay for breast implants, color their hair, decide their outfits etc. Marriage is out of the question, but I'll offer the girls a once in a lifetime chance to see the world learn the ways and make money.

Where could I best find someone for this kind of arrangement? I prefer someone young with as little exposure to sex work as possible.

Which country would be best to find this? Phillipines, Thailand, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Myanmar? Other? And where and how? Tinder? Hiring a fixer? Local markets in smaller towns? Other forums or websites? Asking around? I don't want cross the line into human trafficking so legality is a big question too.

[The Old Nite]

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[Sandor11111]

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[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by Sandor11111

First time poster. I am new to the whole scene in asia. Recently divorced and retired 39 year old healthy fit and charming northern European man. I've been working across USA, middle east, USA, Canada and Latin America the last 14 years in commodities / energy.
Now im just doing some small consulting based in Singapore and tending my investments.
I'm planning on traveling around asia the next year, maybe settling down when I find a nice place. But Singapore will be my base.

My question is what's the best way to find young full-time sugar babies?

I want to have 1-3 18-23 year old girls who live with me full time for months or even longer. I'm happy to pay them and their families a more than fair fee. Every month.

I'm not looking for a sex slave or something that demeaning.. I want to enjoy the time with them and take good care of them. Of course I expect them to take good care of me. Nothing unreasonable, only consensual and great sex.

If they don't speak English that well, I'll teach them. Happy to teach them life skills too.

I might want to do things like pay for breast implants, color their hair, decide their outfits etc. Marriage is out of the question, but I'll offer the girls a once in a lifetime chance to see the world learn the ways and make money.

Where could I best find someone for this kind of arrangement? I prefer someone young with as little exposure to sex work as possible.

Which country would be best to find this? Phillipines, Thailand, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Myanmar? Other? And where and how? Tinder? Hiring a fixer? Local markets in smaller towns? Other forums or websites? Asking around? I don't want cross the line into human trafficking so legality is a big question too.

Firstly, you are in the wrong country. Singapore is the worse place in Asia to do what you are seeking. It's the most expensive place, and local girls are really entitled. Since marriage is out of the question, there is no chance for them to move overseas with you, so no game there for you. Other nationalities here are on work visa or study visa and they will be all about the money because the cost of living here is so high. Unless u want to be incessantly bombarded by constant demand for allowance every day by the women living with you, get out of singapore.

My suggestion would be Thailand, at one of the beach places like Phuket. And maybe Bali. Seeking out areas where there is a high concentration of Russian expats fleeing conscription or whatever else in Russia. They don't want to go back to Russia, and if you can find some desperate Russian girl low on funds at the local youth hostels, one or more might be amenable to moving in with you. Especially if you rent a nice bungalow or chalet.

As for the local women, whether you are in Thailand, Philippines or Bali, its not difficult for a white foreigner to pick them up and have them move in with you too. Nothing like a household mix harem with caucasians and local women. The girl on girl action alone will be hot as it is. You can find them on the local social media sites. Lots of girls on there.

BTW, don't involve their family. Just negotiate with the girls, In many cases, you start with one girl, and once they trust you and have stayed with you, they can also recruit for you. i.e. they can introduce their lady friends or even better their sisters to stay with you. Once you have a couple of girls then it becomes easier because other girls will not think you are a psycho farang/gaijin/gwailo/angmo killer, as other girls will also be in the household. You have to look at their viewpoint too, and safety will be one of them.

When in doubt, refer to the Emmanuel Movies starring Sylvia Kristel. The first 2. It's a good guide to polyamorous relationships.

[Sandor11111]

Thanks. That's helpful. Yes I was thinking about finding someone in other countries. I'm not staying in Singapore for long.

I have some experience in Thailand - found some great girls on Thaifriendly, tinder, just Instagram and just riding in malls restaurants and clubs.... There are some good websites and Line groups for finding sideline girls (mistresses, escorts and sugar babies).

I want them younger and more innocent than your average bar girl. Preferably under 25 and ideally no past bar girl experience.

Anything more specific in Thailand? Places, Line/Telegram groups, websites or other websites?

Any idea on cost? Like if I pay them 2x minimum wage and cover all expenses and provide a very safe and comfortable lifestyle, that should be plenty? Like less than 500-1000/day?

I don't like Bali or Phuket/Pattaya so much. Rather smaller less touristy beach/island towns or the main cities (Bangkok, Chang Mai).
What about other countries like Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Myanmar or Indonesia besides Bali? Any other countries than that in asia worth visiting?

I basically want a polygamous life with 2-3 girls. I think I prefer Asians to Russians, but I'm open for that too. Most of the girls I met in Thailand were either looking for something serious or just short term (paid) fun.

[Sandor11111]

I'm new to this forum too. Are there any other parts of it you recommend for my desires? Or other forums worth exploring? Maybe covering Phillipines (never been) or Thailand or Vietnam?

[hiretuja]

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[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by Sandor11111

Thanks. That's helpful. Yes I was thinking about finding someone in other countries. I'm not staying in Singapore for long.

I have some experience in Thailand - found some great girls on Thaifriendly, tinder, just Instagram and just riding in malls restaurants and clubs.... There are some good websites and Line groups for finding sideline girls (mistresses, escorts and sugar babies).

I want them younger and more innocent than your average bar girl. Preferably under 25 and ideally no past bar girl experience.

Anything more specific in Thailand? Places, Line/Telegram groups, websites or other websites?

Any idea on cost? Like if I pay them 2x minimum wage and cover all expenses and provide a very safe and comfortable lifestyle, that should be plenty? Like less than 500-1000/day?

I don't like Bali or Phuket/Pattaya so much. Rather smaller less touristy beach/island towns or the main cities (Bangkok, Chang Mai).
What about other countries like Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Myanmar or Indonesia besides Bali? Any other countries than that in asia worth visiting?

I basically want a polygamous life with 2-3 girls. I think I prefer Asians to Russians, but I'm open for that too. Most of the girls I met in Thailand were either looking for something serious or just short term (paid) fun.

There is a lot of questions you are asking there, and your restrictions make it harder to get what you want. The age thing is a toughie. Younger girls don't understand this concept and lack the maturity, so you might have problems in the house. The last thing you want is a house full of bickering women asking you for money. There are SYTs in the those social sites you mentioned, but not that many. Most have been around the block. I would suggest just shaking your wechat or whatever sites you use at a coffee shop and see who respond. Your case is almost a situation where you have to target an audience and have them come to you. Offering to practice conversational english in a public place might work. An ad on FB or any other social media might attract a group, and one or 2 in the group might be candidates for you.

In your case, your target segment given your age requirement is almost certain to be College age girls. I have pooned in foreign countries before, and have passed a few towns where there is one college or university. The girls streaming out those uni buildings are pretty hot. If i were staying in those towns for an extended period, I would rent a place near by and fish for room mates. But I am not sure there are such unis in SE Asia where students come from other parts of the country and have to look for accommodations near the campus. You could look and see. Doesn't hurt.

For the money part, frankly 2X minimum wage means nothing. Most of these countries don't even have a minimum wage. I think the trick here is to offer them free accommodations, and free board and lodging in a fairly luxurious residence. Whether it's a bigger condo or a bungalow, something with a pool. It's something that will be out of their budget. And good food. WHether its dining outside or cooking it yourself. They should have their own room. If the girls had to pay for the equivalent of what you are offering, and it's beyond their means, then they might seriously consider it. Let them keep their old jobs, or work as little or as much as they want to. Especially if they are college age students, offer to let them stay for free and with the good food, maybe offer to take care of the college fee. Seeking Arrangement has a lot of students on it, depending on the city. Manila has lots of listings under 25. But SA is expensive to use. You can try Pinalove in the Philippines. I think a lot of girls there with poorer economic situation might be amenable to such an arrangement.

[BoLiang]

go to those 3rd world under developed nations lor. Singapore is not for you, thats for sure.

[georgemagnum]

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