psychological ed?

[hellobye]

what does it mean when i have solid morning erection that i am able to maintain and when watching porn , but during sex, i lose erection easily.

Also realise that i get harder to turn on nowadays, last time when i went massage and the ML brush passed my cock, i will get an erection. Now i went for massage, i dont even get turned on even as she is massaging my cock.

Is it due to my expectation of sex has gone haywire after too much porn and doing dirty things? How can this be fixed? Does abstaining from all these get me back my libido?Anyone who experienced this before?

I am not even 30 and i am feeling depressed about this.

[sbf4life]

you should really get some professional help. when i was 30 i was fucking like a rabbit

Originally Posted by hellobye

I am not even 30 and i am feeling depressed about this.

[stiffness]

I'm late 40s, wank off to porn daily to go sleep (too stressful at work), but i still get morning wood and when I fuck my FB, I can get it up and going. But when I tried to fuck a FL, it doesn't perform. Psychological? Probably.

Personally, various reasons:
With a FL fuck - too nervous. With FB, I have reached a level of comfort that I know I can fuck her safely and we have a good chemistry. FL can be too commercial and fake, plus in my mind I keep thinking "you damn cock don't go to sleep" and of course, thinking that only makes it worse. Performance anxiety lah.
With ML, I'm too used to my hand and DIYing that unless the ML knows how to excite me or get me hard and cum, it's not easy and they will get tired. So with MLs, i only succeed with those who knows me well enough to know how i like to touch my cock and how i can cum. Usually I need to be able to do stuff to excite me, like fingering or sucking boobs or frenching. So yeah, first few times try ML still exciting, but after that, to get excited means doing more off-menu stuff when possible.

Advice? Try using a fleshlight - google that up. I found using it was helpful for a while because it changes the sensation the cock gets from a DIY, and that helps for a while. Or DIY less. I find watching porn less not that useful. Heck when fucking someone you're imagining that porn inside your head anyway right? It helps to fuck someone who you feel is a genuine fuck. And it helps not to have anxiety issues !!

[superfinger555]

Getting softer as I age, so I cut down on porn.

[tyverymuch]

I don't want ED when I get old... how to prevent it?

[Whizzcar]

Originally Posted by tyverymuch

I don't want ED when I get old... how to prevent it?

Die young?

[freezetheDB]

if u can get morning wood then the problem is probably psychological

[lookie85]

I know an uncle 70+ small bro still can stand.