How to Slow Down nd Retire from FL

[humburgler]

Been Cheong for 16 years and now really want to ultimately stop going FL

Have a few attempts of stoping for a few months but end up always going more after the stop

I start thing thread to hear from bros who manage to slow down and ultimately stop going to FL

[aki9]

have you calculated the total amount of money you spent on these FL's ?
Ever caught any bugs, infections over the years ?
Maybe knowing answers to the above may help you stop

[HumbleDude]

Originally Posted by aki9

have you calculated the total amount of money you spent on these FL's ?
Ever caught any bugs, infections over the years ?
Maybe knowing answers to the above may help you stop

I've spent a LOT over the years, last year's average was 2.5k a month.

Been lucky not to catch anything so far, the excitement of getting an even better and memorable encounter became my reason to continue. Had a few memorable ones over the years and wanted to slow down and even stop but my pull factor is always stronger, especially when seeing a listing which seems so tempting to go for.

I've stopped using tg as a start, but would always go back to this site to browse through the domes

[Brink]

Need to find other activities that tire you out mentally or physically.
Or a partner that will satisfy your needs.
I have not had sexual intercourse for a long long time, I just go for bbbj/cim when I go for paid sex, which is quite seldom now.

Each time after paid intercourse, I just feel unfulfilled, even tho I went in with loads to release.
Gradually, just went less and less....tho I still don't know why less and less, just feel less like going for it, maybe cause the after effect of unfulfillment is worse that unreleased.

[aki9]

what's TG ?

[Millenium]

Should be telegram.

[aki9]

perhaps its the real intimacy that is missing, which results in such feeling of unfulfilment.

Have you developed friendships with the FL's that you fcuk ?
It would be interesting to know their respective stories,... how, why they are doing this.
However, there's always the games of betrayals, back-stabbing, emotional games..etc.,..

in SG, we may be having the most sex, but not making real babies
Feel unfulfilled which results is so many sexual crimes here in society ?

to the medical doctors, psycholigists reading this,
shall we start a Psychologist-based Brothel here in SG ?

PM me

[elfoboy]

Its hard to stop looking for FL. I tried to reduce and stop.

i usually limit myself to one per week. Now i reduce to once per month unless there is many target that suddently pop up.

Reason why i cheong is because these are ladies with great looks and body that i will never score with normally. Now by paying i can get my wish fullfilled. Why not.

[Shadow_warrior]

why need to stop?

enjoy while you can.

You will have to stop when
1. Money runs out
2. You can no longer get it up

Carpe diem brother.

[zooloootooo]

Your reason to stop is the one that will keeps you going. If no strong reason, it’s gonna difficult. Like any other addiction

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by zooloootooo

Your reason to stop is the one that will keeps you going. If no strong reason, it’s gonna difficult. Like any other addiction

True. Worried too expensive but when horny always managed to find money to go. Worried about std but will keep going as long as never tio. Such contradiction is human nature.

[SirLance]

Very simple dun have money.

[Brink]

Originally Posted by aki9

perhaps its the real intimacy that is missing, which results in such feeling of unfulfillment.

in SG, we may be having the most sex, but not making real babies
Feel unfulfilled which results is so many sexual crimes here in society ?

to the medical doctors, psychologists reading this,
shall we start a Psychologist-based Brothel here in SG ?

Not sure if you are referring to me or TS, but if me, I am ok with the way things are.
Its clear that sexual intercourse is not the fulfilling factor that I need, I doubt plain intercourse in any other forms will fill the void.

Was just using myself as an example on how I go paid sex less and less, and also looking for things to do that tire myself out mentally or physically.

1 other thing I do to go paid sex less, pcc 1 shot and rest.
That normally quells any urge I have, if still not, I just talk long walks.

[humburgler]

Originally Posted by elfoboy

Its hard to stop looking for FL. I tried to reduce and stop.

i usually limit myself to one per week. Now i reduce to once per month unless there is many target that suddently pop up.

Reason why i cheong is because these are ladies with great looks and body that i will never score with normally. Now by paying i can get my wish fullfilled. Why not.

how u go from once a week to once a month? can share?

[humburgler]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

why need to stop?

enjoy while you can.

You will have to stop when
1. Money runs out
2. You can no longer get it up

Carpe diem brother.

can up my points