Give me some advice

[seansean83]

Hi all the brothers here,there is a small problem bothering me.Recently i have problem getting a erection.I am 25 this year and i feel so unless.It doesnt happen eveytime,just that sometime when i am in the mood for sex,i can't get it up.

I exercise regularly and keep myself fit.Does anyone have the same problem.Sometime when i am halfway through sex my penis will soften.It happen a few times already.I just got a new gf and i feel so shameful that i cannot satisfy her.

I tried to take tongkat ali plus,it helps but i just dun wan to depend on pills to have sex.I am still young and dun know why this is happening.I have never experience this before.Any experience brothers can give me some advice?

[HeadOn]

bro;

1) wat kinda exercise u do?...
2) how many times a wk n how many hrs per session?
3) do have have injuries?
4) do u have enuff rest aft each exercise session?.

last but not least, u can go for blood test..test ur testorone level

[DegenerationX]

Go see doctor lor. Even if bros here give u advice, it is sloely based on our own opinions or experience. Not professional medical advice. So I would suggest you to seek doctor's opinions.

U still young, dun play play with such things otherwise u really cant play play liaoz.

[seansean83]

I gym and run at least 3, 4 times a week, i have no injury.i believe i have enough rest,maybe sometimes i wish i can have more sleep.It doest happen everytime i wan to have sex just that i never have this problem before so i am feeling concern.So what doctor should i see,and where?Thanks

[HeadOn]

well i also gym regulary just tat i dun run much these days....i think u might wanna cut down on ur running...

u can go to any GP, ask for normal medical check up.....also ask the GP tat u also wanna test ur testorone leve in ur blood....

[machoman]

I read in some sex books that sometimes, stress & anxiety can cause erectile problems, meaning that it's pyschological in nature & not due to physical causes.

The advice given was not to dwell on the matter but to relax & try again. If it happens very frequently, then medical advice should be sought for the problem.

Try to relax, don't be so uptight & see whether it helps, bro.

[TheGreatOne]

TS bro,

just checking... is it because there is unpleasant smell from your partner? I mean below there. Because I also sometimes got the same issue.

[milf.hunter]

Go for a holiday and relax yourself. Try playing some kinky games and observe if there's any changes. Stress always play a huge part in erectile dysfunction.

Switch off your mind and just enjoy your time with your girl. But if all else fails, then the last resort is only doctor.

[ericgo18]

Originally Posted by machoman

stress & anxiety can cause erectile problems,

fully agree, i was stressful for a period 6mths, that period was also a darkest period of my life, really makes me wonder wat the hell was wrong with my body!

[mldue]

first and foremost, do not stress yourself.
get some extra rest along with the exercise routines.
doing the regular things right, you can check with your family doctor on your condition. you're young and there will be solutions for you.
i remember i went through a phase too, but now, after 7 years, all seems ok.

[samseng]

Once I have the same problem too. But after I analyzed, it's because of stress I suffer after 2 years broke up with my girlfriend. Hate, anger, etc all were physicological problem that became our enemies inside your body and of course to much bonking cause that too. Maybe I can't change too many sex patners every time I bonk. Oh yeah, I try pills too but it's not working and I feel hopeless. You feel hollow, empty inside. Something missing there unlike you bonk your girlfriend. I believe vet bro here also feel the same. Point is, you must deal first with the enemy inside your sub consius. I remeber when I was 25, bonk for 1 hour can't cum. Maybe you got something in your work or with your girlfriend that you need to solve. Hope this usefull.

[TKee]

Don;t stress out youself. You will accomplish your goal after that.

[Mahalapa]

dnt watch too much porn,u will be thinking of those devil body n chio babes too much n get a soft erection when ur partner is not up to standard

[big_dick]

Bro seansean83,

Relax. You are not alone; I have this occasional problem too. I am a regular weekend warrior but sometimes (for weeks on end) I just simply cannot marikita.

Don't go western medication; their only solution is viagara or the close subsitute, some cymas pill or watever. How they work is that they diute your blood vessels and quicken your heart rate so that the blood flows into your little bro faster and stronger. That's why it's prescribed only with doc's recommenation; they need to ascertain your heart condition (for much older men). It does work but in the long run, it's just not good for your body.

Go try traditional medication and tonic, but not in pill or pre-prepared forms as fraudent chinese medications abound. See a traditional medical practitioner and buy the actual dried herbs that they prescribe to boil and drink. In the long run, traditional medication normally works better without harming your body as it works slowly and on the principles of stimulating your natural hormones (esp testerones). But be patient as traditional medication works slowly (about 3 weeks) and is very individual intensive (meaning the dosage and ingredients may need to be altered for each and every individual as every person's body is different).

Some lifestyle changes you may also consider (which I myself practise);

1. Sleeping early or at least before midnight. Our body produces hormones when we sleep. Sleeping early has always been a natural habit for us before the invention of TV, cable and internet.

2. Cut down on caffeine rich food and drinks that potentially sends wrong exciting signals to the body and potentially may mess up the male hormone system;

3. Increase intake of traditional foods like wolfberry that stimulates blood circulation and flow and others like codliver oils;

4. Keep the libido going; watch porn on and off just to excite your senses (just don't get addicted, heehee) and do have some nice and pretty female company just to really kick the senses and body alive (even if you can't touch them, just fucking them in your brain will be nice).

5. Relaxxxxxxxx......

I sincerely hope this works for you bro. I don't mind letting you know I have this issue too and sometimes, my didi just lets me down during HC sessions. It's godamm embrassing and frustrating, not to mention waste of good $$$. Anyway PM me if you need further man-to-man advice.

Cheers bro.

[big_dick]

By the way bro seansean83, I assume your shaft and balls are all in good physical condition; i.e. no blockage or whatever......

One way to ascertain is to see an urologist.

A self test would be to see if you can marikita EVERY morning (seriously). Well, even if you marikita in the morning just once a week and do have the recent wet-dreams, chances are that it's just your hormones going haywire due to stress, diet and lifestyle....