Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

Part 1: ROM, Part 2: customary.... now still got Part 3: church wedding? steady man, pun pi pi .... got Part 4: ?????

last time who ever said marry vnam wife is cheaper??????

part 4 - honeymoon... spend $$$ again

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

now I know why some of our cheong brothers around..... stilllllllllllll considering

Everything depends on the girl and how much that man can afford.Have money,throw a nice one,no money throw a simple one.Recently talk to 1 one my client,she told me nowadays,sg parents have to help pay for their children banquet cos their children want a grand one and that parents say is a trend now so no choice.Seriously i look down on those sg children who have to use or borrow from their parents to get marry

Still remember on my marriage day.My wife and me reach the resturant on motorbike.Imaging us wearing our gown,as a pillion rider at the back and carrying an umbrella as that day was raining,now i think of that i also want to laugh

Actually i can afford but she did not request for a car and she dont want a grand one,so i just follow her

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

When i went to sign the marriage papers at her province, the officer explained to me in limited mandarin, and i just signed. Simple and straightforward.

Did u take the marriage vow?I dont have

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

part 4 - honeymoon... spend $$$ again

Marriage is nvr cheap, local or foreign.

Just to share: after-marriage is even higher. Your $ spent is likely to go up guadruple. Just prepare ahead for the rainy days... And with the ICA thingy, it's cost too.

One thing is for sure, no $ - really dun settle down! It's even cheaper if u cheong periodically (surprising eh). Of course, no future ROI perhaps.

[Honey Boon]

Dalat will do la ....

Originally Posted by KangTuo

part 4 - honeymoon... spend $$$ again

[Honey Boon]

good for you .. bro

Originally Posted by Golden question

Actually i can afford but she did not request for a car and she dont want a grand one,so i just follow her

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Imaging us wearing our gown,as a pillion rider at the back and carrying an umbrella as that day was raining,now i think of that i also want to laugh

Wah so romantic ah. Can carry an umbrella and ride motorbike ah? Won't the umbrella be blown away or damaged? I suppose raining u also won't ride too fast.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Did u take the marriage vow?I dont have

Marriage vow ? Where got ? Quickly sign and fxxk off roi.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

Marriage is nvr cheap, local or foreign.

Just to share: after-marriage is even higher. Your $ spent is likely to go up guadruple. Just prepare ahead for the rainy days... And with the ICA thingy, it's cost too.

One thing is for sure, no $ - really dun settle down! It's even cheaper if u cheong periodically (surprising eh). Of course, no future ROI perhaps.

You are right

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

Marriage is nvr cheap, local or foreign.

Just to share: after-marriage is even higher.

you just pop out from no where?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

You are right

Expenses after marriage will surely be much higher as compared to when you are single. Its especially so after you have kids. Its never easy to maintain a family, especially in Singapore when expenses are so high. But there are also blissfulness and happiness that you cannot find when you are single. Nothing is free. I was once told by a fellow brother that he is sure he wll save a lot of money on commercial sex after marriage as he will have a ready partner. But things turned out other wise, after some time, he felt bored and went back to commercial sex. Marriage is not about sex alone, its about many other things and most importantly, responsibilities. Why ang mohs cannot last in marriages? because they are not committed to responsibilities. I have a viet lady friend who married a rich ang moh who is old enough to be her father. That ang moh had 3 previous marriages and 6 children from them. This viet lady is his 4th wife. Now 3 years after marriage, marriage is on the rocks. This marriage thingy is seriously not as simple as it looks, but the fact is , if one is not ready for responsbilities, one should not get married.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Marriage vow ? Where got ? Quickly sign and fxxk off roi.

ya,ya,quickly sign and fxxk off haha,like that better than stay there longer and make your pocket kana burn again

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Expenses after marriage will surely be much higher as compared to when you are single. Its especially so after you have kids. Its never easy to maintain a family, especially in Singapore when expenses are so high. But there are also blissfulness and happiness that you cannot find when you are single. Nothing is free.

fully agreed...well said TS...

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I think is $6K+++

I gave my bx $4k to settle all the wedding things, $2K to buy gold, few hundreds on the transports, airticket, misc...

food cook by relatives rite?
did u get performers to perform at yur wedding?
i spent around $5K. got 4 getai singers to sing for 2 days.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Greatking

Bro,
how bout wedding album?
Mine cost 1400SGD.... and she said including giving her family a few hundreds and wedding band... cost bout SGD4k in total...

She settle the banquet...

wedding album cost SDG1400?? tats quite a lot!
include framed photo? shoot outside or inside studio?

why sad? she take up the banquet to share the burden with u. u shld be happy..