Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by stone
At the end of the day whether it is the Mei Mei or us, we are all human beings with emotions.
Certainly. We're all emotional creatures, some of us more so than others. But, in my opinion, that's not the cause of our sorrows.
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In the office and amongst friends, there will always be someone that is closer and can communicate with you more. Someone you are comfortable with, enjoy their company and have a hilarious time. What happen when you meet that someone in the KTV, it would be very difficult to just walk away without thinking about her.
And so that someone is able to fulfill one of our myriad of needs.
I'm sorry if I keep harping on that, but I seriously believe that is, with few exceptions if any, the root of our problems.
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by XuJiaHui
Some guys heart is just like stone where they can ditch the gals even they threatened to commit suicide.. If you are not hard enough, it is not advisable to have the romance with those girl...
I used to call such guys "bastards", but now I admire them. So how come they can be like that whilst some of us can't? Are they emotionless? Do they not have needs?
It's not difficult to conclude that they're just like us, with emotions and needs. The main difference is that they're able to see very clearly that those meimeis can't realistically satisfy their needs; or at least they don't go looking to the meimeis for fulfilment.
But as long as they're still on the playing fields, they remain vulnerable to the possibility (however remote) of the first time.
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by aczeta76
True for some bros.. I started out with less than pure intentions to conquer her but as time pass, I fell in love with her.
Now that she is due to leave, I am uncertain again... anyway, went for a firing mission just now (F and F off) and the FL was super nice to me. SYT auto BBBJ for me (I juz ask price and go) and we fuck like mad for 30 odd minutes.. all for $60 (excl room and CD)
Thinking of whether to tell my MM deliberately to make her jealous...dun know yet but I like it when she gets all sour over me as this shows she cares.
My first bonk, not with my MM in almost 4 mths (excl 2 rounds with my regular like XP and XL).... I was hoping tt she will make me retire for good... it is all in her hands now.
Coz if I bao her in China then I got no budget local liao as need to fly to ZH every other weekend too...
Please don't mind me for saying so... the red sentence above highlights our need to sometimes have our egos stroked. And egos are so much like our penises - the more they're stroked, the bigger they get.
And the bigger they get, the more they want to be stroked.
It's a dangerous cycle, my friend, and forebodes an explosive chain-reaction. Do take care!
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by adidas88
A human being has a natural desire to want more of a good thing than he needs ... we, men .... will never and can find the perfect one ...
else the word separation or divorce will not be in dictionary ...
Yes, we will never find the perfect one, simply because there's no such thing. But that's not the problem.
The problem is when we think there is, and start looking for her. Then, we find some attributes here, some attributes there, but never all at one place... and the search goes on, with broken hearts in its wake.
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by machoman
My comments are in general & applies to all nationalities, not resticted to PRC women & Singaporean men.
Well, IMHO, most men want to play the hero with ladies, WL or not. They also tend to more sentimental & soft at heart. That's why even empires were lost, e.g Yuan Kei Fei & Cleopatra. I remember this old saying: "Heroes die at the hands of the Beauty!"
The other major weakness is that in general, our egoes are extremely vunerable & succumb easily to feminine charms & wiles. The WLs are streetwise & even the more experienced non-WLs knows how to exploit this weakness to their advantage. They would use flattery blatantly or subtely & even resort to emotional balckmail to get what they want.
Precisely. And I believe the examples you've given are both related to the ego. And the stroking...
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Who says women are the weaker sex? Only MCPs believe this. I liken the genders using the Toaist concepts of Yin & Yang. Water, which is Yin will conquer Fire, which is Yang.
Great insight! I always felt women aren't the weaker sex but had never used Taoist concepts to explain it. Now I know why sometimes I can make my wife boil...
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by Gentle Beast
Hi Bro, I like your analysis of 'wants' and 'needs' - concepts pretty identical to successful financial planning
Oh? So why am I so unsuccessful in my own financial planning?
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Thankfully for me, when it comes to bonking meimeis, my system adopt the 'Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility' , incremental bonks with the same pussy will produce lesser satisfaction
Ah, yes, I vaguely remember that principle from my "A" level Economics classes. But, pardon me if I'm wrong, the Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility doesn't immediately apply to your 2nd bonk with the same pussy, does it?
Familiarity may breed contempt, sometimes. But more often than not, there's comfort to be found in the known. That is, before the discomfort sets in...
Seriously, you've adopted a safe system - good for you! But I reiterate (old men are long-winded, so please forgive me) that that is probably because you're very much in touch with your needs.
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
Those who are singles are more susceptible to falling in love with PRCs. Since by comparison, there is slim chance they can get a better looking one in SG.
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by The Bund
I used to call such guys "bastards", but now I admire them. So how come they can be like that whilst some of us can't? Are they emotionless? Do they not have needs?
It's not difficult to conclude that they're just like us, with emotions and needs. The main difference is that they're able to see very clearly that those meimeis can't realistically satisfy their needs; or at least they don't go looking to the meimeis for fulfilment.
But as long as they're still on the playing fields, they remain vulnerable to the possibility (however remote) of the first time.
Hi Bro, I still think those action is not right... Because their aim is just fuck and go.. Man do have emotion... So if we can find the right one... We will want to be together.. And those man usually use sweet word like marriage and like promise which most of the people cannot cheat mm like that...
Again i think do not play a feeling with the village girl... personally i think those girl in club or pub is OK because they are also play girl.... Till now, I still not be able to have chance to get a so called short term gf..... hahaha most of the time , I am ditched by girls... and i feel bad over that !!!
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by Lao Ban
Those who are singles are more susceptible to falling in love with PRCs. Since by comparison, there is slim chance they can get a better looking one in SG.
Bro, single but do not where to find a perfect PRC in Shanghai ....
Re: Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...
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Originally Posted by XuJiaHui
Bro, how to get FOC ? Is there really a so called FOC ? Please give me some advise la.. I think everything in Shanghai is expensive leh...
Hahaha.. FOC ah? Must have patient and lower your expectations lor.... Actually different girls, different type of hooking. Some may appear very hard to get, but once you break it down, it is VERY HARD to GET OUT...
This kind of thing I am trying to cut down liao lahz... Quite tiring...and nowadays no drive... I wonder why.. Maybe a new phase in life....
09-04-2008, 11:24 PM
