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[sane]

Originally Posted by SYTBigBoobLover

Correct! That will be 9 years later...

In the dreams right .. Ok.i go koon le. nite

[Jt1990tj]

Originally Posted by sane

In the dreams right .. Ok.i go koon le. nite

Hahah so early. Goodnight bro.

[SYTBigBoobLover]

Originally Posted by sane

In the dreams right .. Ok.i go koon le. nite

LOL... Night...

[sane]

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Friendliness vs. flirting: How to tell the difference

1. Adding you on Facebook the same day that you meet

Social media might have made it easier to stalk – er, research – the people we’re interested in, but it’s also given us a whole new medium by which to misinterpret their actions. While some women would argue that immediate Facebook friendship denotes curiosity, and thus, romantic interest, it’s more likely that the guy just needs a more casual way to connect with you than over the phone.

Verdict: Friendliness

2. Using a chat-up line

Nowadays, pickup lines are so corny that it’s impossible to take them seriously. But we’ll have to admit that they’re a silly, effective way to break the ice with an attractive person. The more gimmicky, the better. It can be as obvious as a guy saying, “Do I know you? Cause you look a lot like my next girlfriend,” to something more indirect, like, “I looove your glasses, can I try them on?” (Heads up, it’s also an excuse for him to see what you look like without specs).

Verdict: Flirtatiousness
3. Using a lot of emojis in a text

Ah, emojis. So adorable, yet so misleading. A winky face is often interpreted as a sign of flirtation, but where do you draw the line between teasing and being tongue-in-cheek? And what if the guy (or girl!) just really enjoys using emojis? Anyone who’s ever downloaded Whatsapp would know that it’s impossible to carry on a chat without spamming the other person with pandas, koalas, smileys, and hearts.

Verdict: Friendliness, but it also depends on the content of the text.

4. Commenting on your lack of a wedding ring
There are a couple of ways that guys go about this. Sometimes they flat-out mention that they noticed you weren’t wearing a wedding ring (which is awkward to bring up, but well, blame the attraction for impairing his better judgment). Other times, they’ll “mistake” the ring you’re wearing on your ring finger for a wedding ring, when it’s obviously not, and use it as an excuse to bring up your husband. Which is your cue to correct him, which he’ll take as his cue to go all in.

Verdict: Flirtatiousness

5. Complimenting your appearance

As wishy-washy as this is going to sound, it depends on the compliment. If the girl or guy says that you look gorgeous, handsome, pretty, or cute – completely out of the blue, and with a small smile – they’re totally flirting. But a simple compliment about your appearance, such as “you look nice” or “that colour looks good on you,” shouldn’t be taken too seriously.

Verdict: It depends on the compliment

6. Making eye contact, smiling, and looking away

This is a classic flirtation move. But make sure you catch the smile (or blush) at the end, as there’s a world of difference between checking someone out, and accidentally making awkward eye contact with them. Once you determine that the other person is flirting with you, make eye contact again, and then walk over to talk with him or her.

Verdict: Flirtatiousness

7. Asking to take a picture with you (and only you)

ALERT! ALERT! Unless you’re a celebrity, this person sees you as more than just a friend. This incredibly straightforward flirting method is especially telling when he wants to do a phone selfie, as it means that the two of you will squeeze together.

Verdict: Flirtatiousness

8. Laughing at all your jokes
There’s a difference between someone saying your joke is funny and that you are funny. If the person says “that joke was epic,” but not “you’re hilarious, I love you!” then he’s probably just a friend. Look out for phrases like “you crack me up!” or “ROFL, you're awesome.”

Verdict: Friendliness if they’re charmed by the joke. Flirtatiousness if they’re charmed by you

9. Offering to walk you home

Back in the day, this was interpreted as a courtship ritual. But nowadays – especially if you live in a sketchy neighbourhood – it could just mean that the guy’s being a gentleman. And that he cares about you enough, as a friend, to ensure that you get home safely. Take this one with the “cluster rule” – if he teases you, tries to hold your hand, or tries to linger with you outside your door, then he probably has special intentions.

Verdict: Friendliness

10. Offering to pay for your meal

Again, you need to apply the cluster and context rule here. Did you forget your money? Are you visiting the guy from out of town? Does he owe you a favour and has offered to pay it with food? If the answers to these questions are no, then it’s likely he feels affectionate toward you.

Verdict: It depends on the context. But for the most part, flirtatiousness.

[Jt1990tj]

That's a super long post! Haha nice one.

[sane]

Originally Posted by Jt1990tj

That's a super long post! Haha nice one.

U r really early!!

[Jt1990tj]

Originally Posted by sane

U r really early!!

Got lessons on a sat. Sian.

[sane]

Originally Posted by Jt1990tj

Got lessons on a sat. Sian.

Really sianz but at least u get to ogle those mms mah ..

[Jt1990tj]

Originally Posted by sane

Really sianz but at least u get to ogle those mms mah ..

Hahaha. I'm very focus. Study is study. Never check girls out.

[IceKachang]

helloooo newcomer here! dont mind join in?

[sane]

Welcome

[Jt1990tj]

Originally Posted by IceKachang

helloooo newcomer here! dont mind join in?

Pls do. I'm a new comer too.

[IceKachang]

well school is going to reopen!

[Jt1990tj]

Originally Posted by IceKachang

well school is going to reopen!

Poly student?

[DegenerationX]

So what?? Now school holidays??