Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...

[Rattler]

I doubt Sillyporeans are the only ones who fall for PRCs, ang mohs also, not to mention, Msians, HKies, Taiwanese etc ... This is just human nature. Some people when you catch them on the wrong footing will fall head over heels with these gers, especially when to them, hooking up with one of us is like striking lottery ... instant millionaire

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Rattler

... instant millionaire

Ya.. at current exchange rate.. I am already a millionaire in China many times over.. Think most of us the same too

In Singapore.. hmm still need more to be able to retire safely around age 50/

[Rattler]

Haha Bro just make sure you dont get fleeced until not even a millionaire in RMB currency

Best of luck to you

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

Most cheongsters (me included) continue to move from flower to flower. hoping to find the perfect one that suits us eg face, height, boobs, sexual prowess, compatibility, etc BUT paradoxically, we actually will NOT want to find THE ONE (especially those of you who are not single) cos if we do...WE are the ones who end up losing control of relationship and our good sense.

i believe we need to understand our objective/agenda when we cheong ...
r we looking for a lifetime partner, ONS or just to sextisfied our sexual urge or some other things ???
if we set out on the wrong agenda (lifetime partner), than i believe "At that point, it is us who will get FUCKED UP!"

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

Even if you have so called found the PERFECT one, what is gonna happen?

A human being has a natural desire to want more of a good thing than he needs ... we, men .... will never and can find the perfect one ...
else the word separation or divorce will not be in dictionary ...

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

Divorce your wife who thought you are suffering in China?

bro u mean all the wives literally believe their husbands is suffering in china when they(husbands) r actually banging mm's ???

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Now that she is due to leave, I am uncertain again... anyway, went for a firing mission just now (F and F off) and the FL was super nice to me. SYT auto BBBJ for me (I juz ask price and go) and we fuck like mad for 30 odd minutes.. all for $60 (excl room and CD)

no offence bro ... but i think it's more lust than affection here ...

Originally Posted by aczeta76

all these absence making my head clearer and she sounds also happier as we have some time away from each other

out of sight, out of mind ....
believe this will be good for u ....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Rattler

Haha Bro just make sure you dont get fleeced until not even a millionaire in RMB currency

Best of luck to you

Thanks.. I am not senile yet... always cap my damage at low 5 figure RMB at most.

Me salaried worker so had to save and invest hard to get so far over the last 7-8 years... Need to take care of self 1st always.. else how to hold up the sky for your MM.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya.. at current exchange rate.. I am already a millionaire in China many times over..

numbers by themselves have no meanings:
$5 can be expensive if after spending it, you have a host of problems.
And $1 million can be cheap, if you make $100,000 everyday after spending it.

so u see ... it doesn't matter if u r a millionaire or not ....
it's how u spend ur money that matters ...

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya.. at current exchange rate.. I am already a millionaire in China many times over..

Yo Bro,
May I correct you on the fact that we've given away 'billions' of sperms away to the PRC gals.....hehehe........so exchange rate or not.......we're philanthropist too!
Cheers bro

[Ronaldo]

So many rich bro around with high cheong budget... Woohoo... hehehehe...

Guess I have to aim for FOC, cos even after exchange rate, I still fall under the middle income in China...
hahahahaha...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Yo Bro,
May I correct you on the fact that we've given away 'billions' of sperms away to the PRC gals.....hehehe........so exchange rate or not.......we're philanthropist too!
Cheers bro

hahaha...

so u see ... it doesn't matter if u r a millionaire or not ....
it's how u spend ur money that matters ...

Agree.. This is normally the wake up call we respond to

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

Riveting discussion ...tks to all posters both Snrs, Newbies and all in between! Trust we will glean some lessons from this.

Most cheongsters (me included) continue to move from flower to flower. hoping to find the perfect one that suits us eg face, height, boobs, sexual prowess, compatibility, etc BUT paradoxically, we actually will NOT want to find THE ONE (especially those of you who are not single) cos if we do...WE are the ones who end up losing control of relationship and our good sense. At that point, it is us who will get FUCKED UP! So perhaps it is a good thing to not find that perfect one, so we will not be giddy or intoxicated as to lose our good judgement.

All thoughts invited...discuss :-)

Bro petrolheadsg,
Greetings from Shanghai.

To be able to move from 'flower' to flower' is perhaps not to seek for a suitable or the 'Perfect One' as said but rather it's more like 'trying' the different gals with a different character and perhaps different degree of skills in bed maybe?............. I.e. I, myself and me now will only stick to my regular HC or my 'no-strings attached' fuck mates.....all for the sake of sexual needs satisfaction but nothing else.

Always possess a practical clear mindset at our utmost best effort and that to remind oneself constantly that we're in China away from family & homeland is to make a better living so as to bring home a bigger chunk of bread to feed all but not to spend it all on what we earn instead. Why risk it all?

[machoman]

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

Here is just my POV. so no flaming pls.

Most cheongsters (me included) continue to move from flower to flower. hoping to find the perfect one that suits us eg face, height, boobs, sexual prowess, compatibility, etc BUT paradoxically, we actually will NOT want to find THE ONE (especially those of you who are not single) cos if we do...WE are the ones who end up losing control of relationship and our good sense. At that point, it is us who will get FUCKED UP! So perhaps it is a good thing to not find that perfect one, so we will not be giddy or intoxicated as to lose our good judgement.

All thoughts invited...discuss :-)

My comments are in general & applies to all nationalities, not resticted to PRC women & Singaporean men.

Well, IMHO, most men want to play the hero with ladies, WL or not. They also tend to more sentimental & soft at heart. That's why even empires were lost, e.g Yuan Kei Fei & Cleopatra. I remember this old saying: "Heroes die at the hands of the Beauty!"

The other major weakness is that in general, our egoes are extremely vunerable & succumb easily to feminine charms & wiles. The WLs are streetwise & even the more experienced non-WLs knows how to exploit this weakness to their advantage. They would use flattery blatantly or subtely & even resort to emotional balckmail to get what they want.

Who says women are the weaker sex? Only MCPs believe this. I liken the genders using the Toaist concepts of Yin & Yang. Water, which is Yin will conquer Fire, which is Yang.

[Gentle Beast]

Originally Posted by The Bund

We start off wanting sexual gratification and, perhaps you may say, satisfaction of our sexual needs, but unknowingly end up exposing our other needs to be abused. What are those needs? Each of us may have a different set of needs which, unfulfilled, leave voids to be exploited.

Hi Bro, I like your analysis of 'wants' and 'needs' - concepts pretty identical to successful financial planning

Thankfully for me, when it comes to bonking meimeis, my system adopt the 'Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility' , incremental bonks with the same pussy will produce lesser satisfaction

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Gentle Beast

Hi Bro, I like your analysis of 'wants' and 'needs' - concepts pretty identical to successful financial planning

Thankfully for me, when it comes to bonking meimeis, my system adopt the 'Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility' , incremental bonks with the same pussy will produce lesser satisfaction

hahaha... sounds like my old economics classes...

[The Bund]

Hi bro SGP,

Yes, it was a pleasure meeting you again - but pity you had to run off so quickly. Well, I guess it was partly due to your magnanimity in allowing your friend and I to get on with the business at hand. Once again, thank you!

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Indeed one has to possessed a clear mindset from the very begining on what exactly he's after, only then he goes forward to getting about on what he's after.....yet easier said than done many a times as well......sigh...

Whilst I was writing that post, there was many a time when I wanted to put down those words which you've written: "easier said than done"! I absolutely agree that in spite of our awareness of the dangers, we're still vulnerable to varying degrees. That's why, for me, even though I can swim, I refrain from jumping into the pool! That's the only way to take drowning out of the equation completely.

Many a times we tell ourselves from the very begining stage, we are merely going for the sexual biological satisfactions but yet more than often, most of us ended up in more emotional entrenchment at latter stage.....being blinded by the tender care and attention we get from the local gals which most of us felt and compared from what we do not getting from back home.....
To be treated with utmost attentions & most importantly, getting the sexual needs satisfied regularly is extremely tempting and lethal to both the heart & mind......when one is on a foreign land without family.

We're only humans......

That's recognition of a few of our needs.