Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Taking up long term stay in VN is not difficult, there are more than one way to get approval to stay there. Of course, what most bros think of is Permanent residence. This is , of course, the best. ...

I think key criteria are necessary, if one consider living in Vn:

- ability to communicate (in local dialects/tieng viet)
- able to move about (driving or riding motor, not bicycle!) - distance & landscape kills the desire to cycle
- patience (alluding to the need to adjust to local pace & under table $)
- ability to do something (e.g. business, teaching, volunteering, learning)
- have reserves (e.g. $, sperms, stamina)
- have friends & support (e.g. local groups, gathering, good internet access)
- have personal time (instead of doing chores for the local relatives non-stop!)

mmm...how does this compare staying in M'sia? Thailand? Indonesia? Somehow it might be 'better' (relatively speaking) at M'sia..due to the similarity with Sg.

[tigerking]

good morning,found this sms from a vietnam guy to my vietnam babe, can anyone please help me to translate ,thank nhieu nhieu.

"thoi anh di nha ,anh doi em nhieu dem lam va anh cung ko the nao quen dc em
,that su ma noi chuyen nay ve vn anh dinh lay vo de quen di hinh bong em, nhu
suot 2 tuan le anh ko the nao lam dc nhu dieu da biet long anh iong mai mai trong long anh "

[Honey Boon]

you should go to this thread for help:

http://thesbf.shop/showthr...74792&page=567

Originally Posted by tigerking

good morning,found this sms from a vietnam guy to my vietnam babe, can anyone please help me to translate ,thank nhieu nhieu.

"thoi anh di nha ,anh doi em nhieu dem lam va anh cung ko the nao quen dc em
,that su ma noi chuyen nay ve vn anh dinh lay vo de quen di hinh bong em, nhu
suot 2 tuan le anh ko the nao lam dc nhu dieu da biet long anh iong mai mai trong long anh "

[Crown]

Originally Posted by SingViet

you can get agents to do it for you.

bro, u have any agents contact in Hanoi to share? Whats the fee range?

Thanks

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Crown

bro, u have any agents contact in Hanoi to share? Whats the fee range?

Thanks

Hanoi i do not have. Saigon i have

[Crown]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Hanoi i do not have. Saigon i have

If entry from Hanoi can i get the agent from Saigon to do the visa for me?

Whats the price range?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

- patience (alluding to the need to adjust to local pace & under table $)

The most important I feel is patience and tolerance which I learnt from my stay there.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by naemlo

The most important I feel is patience and tolerance which I learnt from my stay there.

Which is most sg ppl lack of that,including me

[Golden question]

Like what people always say-change yourself to adapt to the environment and not expect the environment to change for u to suit u

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Crown

If entry from Hanoi can i get the agent from Saigon to do the visa for me?

Whats the price range?

yes, the VISA done can be used for any entry point in VN, but i will think its better for you to find an agent in Hanoi to do for you. I paid US$100 for the VISA last time, not sure what's the price now.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by naemlo

The most important I feel is patience and tolerance which I learnt from my stay there.

Yes, you are right bro. We need to show lots of patience and tolerance as their way of dealing with matters and their way of life is very much different from ours. Even the attitude of the people are very much different. As foreigners in their country, we should adapt ourselves to them. No matter how unhappy, try to refrain from showing anger in public. I remember when i first settled down there, i find it very disturbing when i find locals cutting queue at supermarkets cashiers. At first, i was angry. After that, i just let it be as its their way of doing things. I have all the time in the world, so if they want to cut queue, just let them lor.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Like what people always say-change yourself to adapt to the environment and not expect the environment to change for u to suit u

Yes, very true. Totally agree

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

i find it very disturbing when i find locals cutting queue at supermarkets cashiers. At first, i was angry. After that, i just let it be as its their way of doing things. I have all the time in the world, so if they want to cut queue, just let them lor.

YEs ...

This happens when I was at the local hospital .... Although there is Number System BUT it DOn'y Works ...

Everybody will go take a number but then the number dun flash 1 by 1, it flashes from 1 number to another number ... so when the number start flash, you see a whole bunch of pple rushing up to the counter ...And best the counter girl serves the person whoever she likes, no sequence.

I also remember when my wife was in her first trimester, she has some bleeding so bring her to the gyne adn then was told to wait ... I F**k the gyne upside saying my wife bled earlier why cannot see her 1st ... her reply : "I saw her when she comes to me and she is currently not bleeding, should be ok. please wait a while, i have a patient in que now, next 2 will be your wife"

Paingzzzz .. F Hot ... everybody staring at me ..

Its nonsense but then it the way of life

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

I heard taking up long-term stay at Vn is not that difficult.

Not Difficult BUT also Not Easy ... MAny Procedures ....

THe best thing is the Correct Authority also Don't KNow we can apply for Long-Term Stay in VN

ANyways Criteria are:

1. Working in VN with Company Sponsoring you.

2. Vn Spouse.

Else not that possible to apply.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Crown

Hi Bro,

can share what visa is this and how/where to apply?

thanks

Travel Agency CAN Do for you ,,, GO Google and find the travel agency there ...