No longer interested in OC

[Pink_Flyod]

Agree with all the bro here that state Family is #1. Our CO is always there for us as they marry us for what we are. At the same time, there is nothing wrong with cheonging as well.... all the married guys I know do cheong no matter what are their nationalities. My pastor has hard time to keep me straight hahaha.... Sometime i went straight only for a few weeks before venturing again. But woman are all the same... you have GF and you stay longer with her, she want permanent and by that time, you already sianz with her. The best thing is pay and forget.

IMOH, we shld take care of our co cause thy help us bare children thts y figure out of shape. our fault leh

our co is like our season parking. gd or bad, after work LL bo bian will still go bak.

Lets treat those SYT those normal parking lot. need to tear coupon, park liao, happy liao dan go hme lor. no string attached

[hardcoremayhem]

bros, i not married yet so i cannot really says much but my sifu could share his experience with me.

he married for about 1 year and recently his wife gave birth (boy). during his wife's pregant, he got visit FL 1-2 time becoz he really cannot tahan no sex. now he back to having sex with wife and so far he never makan outside although he tell me he very tempted and want to because the girls really very chio.

i also stop for very long time liao after i attach to girlfriend (3 years) but i feel itch again because of sister Daphn33333.

The thing which my sifu tell me is that although wife is out of shape, he still feels the love for his wife and cannot think of holding another person and sayang another person like he sayang his wife. he feel that he will be guilty.

also, he (and i also) feel that if his wife or my girlfrien say we out of shape (and we are both not as macho as before) and makan outside with other guys, then we will feel sad also. So, for now, even more he will feel guilty.
he also say what happens, if his wife finds out and his happy family will be torn. he say that family is no. 1 so he doesn't want to risk any thing happening to his family especially since his father had a mistress and ... y'know lah.

i am not saying that the bros here are betraying or any thing, don't get me wrong. i just sharing. if want to deduct points, go ahead. i don't mind.