divorced women/widow will be alone - Page 7

justl00king · #91 15-10-2014, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by july3rd

If the guy got kids then I don't need give birth also good! Labor pain is bad! plus I'm too old to hv my kids too

No worries, we can always use protection, lower the risk of having kids.

lol

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Originally Posted by Edyta

What you just described is really lovely but its rare.

Good luck, hope u do find the rare one.

OceanLi · #92 16-10-2014, 11:28 AM

Good topic for discussion. I will share my point here, either sex once walk out of the marriage, there is this baggages of "divorcee" and the emotional roller coaster. Alot of issue will surface and it can be more bad than good, within your circle of friends, relatives, family members.

No one and I mean actually no marriage couples will allow to see their marriages suffer, or incapcitated. Going thru the procedure of separation and divorced can be alot more tought than getting hitch and marriage. If you engaged an lawyer that is more $$$$ digger and your partner is not willing to settle it like an mature person to end the marriage life, this will be not just emotional, financially dry, but mental and health can suffer as a result. Talking about it is always easier, but going the process is dire difficult be it you have children or not. The reason being simple is 2 of the union are not going to be rational much afterall, and ugly side of each other is bare before this matrimony couple, whom once loved and committed to each other ... "Till death doer us apart".

In our today society context, information can be access easily and to find time for couple to sustained the marriages, personal couple time is utmost precious and the "rekindle bedtime time" of 10 to 15 min is like Diamond.
Being in marriages, none want it to fail and it's harder to perservere want 1 of the partner fall into infidelity, or abusive and unacceptable behaviour. Which is why most time is easier to call it quit than stay on and go for counselling to seek what is wrong and build up slowly. I have much more to share but time constraint just shall penoff.

S.B.Y.1 · #93 28-10-2014, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

Yup occasionally I do...keep in contact with them...I will send them money and gifts too. They are still my kids..

You are a good man indeed

HonkyTonkyMan · #94 28-10-2014, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnbass

Those couples planning marriage and those still in marriage can also learn from you folks.
There are some folks who got lucky in their 2nd marriage too.
Cheer up!

I am in my second marriage and now wished I hadn't tied the knot again...this time to me its really a death knot cos after going through the first round of marriage and divorce, I know how draining emotionally and financially it will be. That why to me its a death knot cos i will never ever seek the divorce route again even if i have to be unhappy in this marriage...

Captainoceania77 · #95 28-10-2014, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

I am in my second marriage and now wished I hadn't tied the knot again...this time to me its really a death knot cos after going through the first round of marriage and divorce, I know how draining emotionally and financially it will be. That why to me its a death knot cos i will never ever seek the divorce route again even if i have to be unhappy in this marriage...

Mentally torture......u should learn lesson from first marriage...never get marry again.

HonkyTonkyMan · #96 28-10-2014, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Bukit Mewah

Mentally torture......u should learn lesson from first marriage...never get marry again.

hai what can i say, a sucker is born every minute i was too caught up in my second wind to realize the perils..

Captainoceania77 · #97 28-10-2014, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

hai what can i say, a sucker is born every minute i was too caught up in my second wind to realize the perils..

Is common..I have seen some friends divorce 2, 3 times ...never learn lesson . Just lame excuses of loneliness.

Edyta · #98 29-10-2014, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

I am in my second marriage and now wished I hadn't tied the knot again...this time to me its really a death knot cos after going through the first round of marriage and divorce, I know how draining emotionally and financially it will be. That why to me its a death knot cos i will never ever seek the divorce route again even if i have to be unhappy in this marriage...

This is timely reminder to keep my heart to myself
As we aged the stake gets bigger n aft 1 round certainly once bitten twice shy
Its equally draining to a woman too

kt88_2 · #99 29-10-2014, 03:50 PM

Married or divorce is actually same for some ppl.Like me no sex life.Sleep seperate rooms.There no quarrel or dispute, just naturally end up this life style.What u think , do i live like a divorcee.Bring kids to school, lessons , work, etc is the usual activities.

Edyta · #**100** 29-10-2014, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by kt88_2

Married or divorce is actually same for some ppl.Like me no sex life.Sleep seperate rooms.There no quarrel or dispute, just naturally end up this life style.What u think , do i live like a divorcee.Bring kids to school, lessons , work, etc is the usual activities.

Since there is no issue with the marriage it seems tht sex just being neglected.
Possible to do something to revive the bedroom actions?

sunhuan-con · #**101** 29-10-2014, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Edyta

Since there is no issue with the marriage it seems tht sex just being neglected.
Possible to do something to revive the bedroom actions?

Dont think so..as there is too much gaps and communications break down. Guess the woman cant wet and no mood for it.

Edyta · #**102** 29-10-2014, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

Dont think so..as there is too much gaps and communications break down. Guess the woman cant wet and no mood for it.

This is sad. Sex between a loving couple is gd for bonding, itimacy n certainly a great stress relaxer.

milfmilf · #**103** 29-10-2014, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by kt88_2

Married or divorce is actually same for some ppl.Like me no sex life.Sleep seperate rooms.There no quarrel or dispute, just naturally end up this life style.What u think , do i live like a divorcee.Bring kids to school, lessons , work, etc is the usual activities.

this naturally is due to something started ma ...

HonkyTonkyMan · #**104** 29-10-2014, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by kt88_2

Married or divorce is actually same for some ppl.Like me no sex life.Sleep seperate rooms.There no quarrel or dispute, just naturally end up this life style.What u think , do i live like a divorcee.Bring kids to school, lessons , work, etc is the usual activities.

Guess mine is heading down this road too...sex has always been sticking point for both of us since she can't seems to see the need for it...now we are down to communication by texting only when the need to....most times she don't even bother to reply my text..i think the only reasons why she is keeping me around the bed is only so I can keep her company at night cos she is afraid of sleeping alone....honestly I know for a fact, this woman actually don't need a lover all she wants is just a man presence...

topcook1 · #**105** 29-10-2014, 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by kt88_2

Married or divorce is actually same for some ppl.Like me no sex life.Sleep seperate rooms.There no quarrel or dispute, just naturally end up this life style.What u think , do i live like a divorcee.Bring kids to school, lessons , work, etc is the usual activities.

90 per cent of marriage couples lead such kind of life just because of responsibility sake. This will eventually lead to more business for Fls and HC. I noticed most couples will post their family outing etc on the FB. Is just on the surface only.