Sexless Marriage...

[oahpekahsom]

Sorry to hear that there is no sex in ya marriage. Agreed with some bros here that comms is the key. Rem how ya tackle ya wife in boy-girl relation partoh days....girls are actually easy to please(contrary to wat you think)

They just want a cuddle, hug (not leading to sex), sms them during the day how are things, that ya miss her, send her flowers not on her birthday, wedding anniversary, drop your fav TV program to spend time listening to her gossip.... sure score points.

If the previous methods you use has no effect, then what is the harm using another method, Sometimes as the old saying goes "Put out a long line to catch big fish". The same principle lah.

Bottom line, sincerity n commitment must be there..

Try these lah, and use ya trusty right-hand man(your hand that is) to PCC in the mean time to ease ya sexual needs. lol

all the best!!

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by heatingup

Gent & fellow bros in same shit,

1 more sorry plight.... sex LESS, then sexless marriage

Right now, no sex, no BJ. I DIY twice a week to clear my tank. Even during DIYs, i either come fast or my dick is only semi-hard.

ONe more bro joins the long and never ending list...what frightens me the most is not the no sex part that we can always settle ourselve but the fact that I have to go to bed with my wife for the remaining days of my life...

[Wins88]

Originally Posted by heatingup

Gent & fellow bros in same shit,

1 more sorry plight.... sex LESS, then sexless marriage
Right now, no sex, no BJ. I DIY twice a week to clear my tank. Even during DIYs, i either come fast or my dick is only semi-hard.

Do anyone of you know how can I regain my penis hardness & stamina?
Thought of going for groin massage to improve blood circulation.... Any good masseuse to recommend? Many thanks

Bro, really sorry to hear this. I think you really need alternative ways to release as urs is such an unhealthy situation. Hope things get better for you soon!

[thaiholebanger]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

ONe more bro joins the long and never ending list...what frightens me the most is not the no sex part that we can always settle ourselve but the fact that I have to go to bed with my wife for the remaining days of my life...

I wonder is it just Singaporean girls who are like that?
It seems that girls now are too caught up with other things to see that it is actually quite simple to make a man happy....

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by thaiholebanger

I wonder is it just Singaporean girls who are like that?
It seems that girls now are too caught up with other things to see that it is actually quite simple to make a man happy....

that why most of us guys are easy meat for those china meis...all they have to do is charm our hearts and our dick then we are dead meat...

[Sexatronic]

Its so appalling to know so many bros here share the same experience.... No wonder SG is at the bottom of the list in the recent survey by Durex.

[Xfactor]

This is bad....When i 1st came to know this thread, i tot hey i'm not alone but its been a while since i log in...wow we can form a platoon of sexless married man to rockz the whole lorong in GL.

I've a high sex drive & i'm lucky enough to try out so many things (sex) in life, be it 1-1, 3some,gang-bang,1 nite stand..those were the good old days. Since i settle down 8yrs back, its a little different as times passes.

My wife, goody goody type. Compare to those that i've whack before she's far from it but we manage to click & settle down within 3 months & rom.(not shotgun)

Yeah, in my mind, i always tot, get a wife like that will be good, at least will behave & be a good wife/mother...kekekeke ya rite..

Our 1st few years not too bad, i've manage to convince her to be adventures(refer my old posting) but after having our 1st kid, things change.....

From once per month to once every 3 months & now......for 5 months i still yet to score Sad rite...

Even if we were to do it, she will just lie down & wait for me to cum & pack-up...u don't get the kick u want at all, no face expression, no surround sound...just simply quick quick, pain pain....r u done...hurry....Tissue paper...

Thats life, since i'm in it.

What i worry most is not about the sex, what if a gal who just step into my life & treat me better than she does, freaking good sex partners etc...Will i get stuck in between, will i think of divorce....its scary to think about it

On the brighter side, at least we have sammyboy to kill our time, PCC with so many happening clips or story...

By the way, its been 3 yrs we did not sleep in the same room cos all this while she sleepy with my kid.

So any suggestion for a man who is having a king size bed, sleepying alone & happily PCC away....Welcome to my world..

Take it easy bros...u r not alone

[zeus73]

[sugardad]

To curb my high sex-drive, I started playing Golf, so one thing good is that I lost alot of weight ( abt 15kg ). Now just started Gym, expect to really tone up my body then maybe can be more attractive to my wife and any other gal.

I really give it some thought over the sexless issues and also examine what other bro had said. Maybe we need a sexlees wife here to tell us what is wrong.

But my own observation is that being a woman, regardless she is a wife or not, she still need to be woo by man. It could be because that we are taking things for granted and even if we attempt to woo her, we are most likely going thru the motion. Cos already wife ma, so no need to do that much thing lo.

Well, woman need to be feel to be wanted. Having said that, maybe I really need to use a different approach. I will do it when they come back from Europe Trip. At the mean time, Pump more Iron to better tone my body and stay more attractive to other woman.

[gent]

I guess it's like what Sugardaddy had mentioned.

Perhaps the "passion" is less after marriage and a couple started to take things for granted. Maybe our wives take it for granted that we don't need sex

I am surprised this thread on SEXLESS MARRIAGE continues to find new contributors & brothers in the same boat.

I hope to hear brothers' comments on SEXLESS MARRIAGE in a different context.

Someone I know loves his wife.

Sex used to be great.

Then wife becomes bloated & really heavy.

Unlike those typical 'lost-interest-in-sex' wives highlighted here, the wife is in late 30s & get more horny with age.

But she has lost sex appeal to the husband.

So much so, husband's sex drive still strong but whenever do with wife, performance becomes so bad, he starts to think he is impotent.

To reassure himself, he cheong, pcc, surf sammyboy - ok lah, still not too bad but experience with wife has dented his confidence.

Start to avoid & phobia of sex with wife.

Still loves wife, but how to tell wife he is no longer sexually attractive to him ?

Still have to imagine someone's face, body, some other shiok experience whenever he performs husband duty.

Isn't that another torture compare to sexless marriage?

At least, from past threads, I dun see the wives complaining even though husband frustrated - so at most eat outside.

In this case, the fat wife still demands sex & is getting hard to satisfy.
Even ask husband to buy dildo & finger her continuously when husband due to disinterest either experience Premature ejac. or erectile dysf.

Hope to hear bros views & comments on such phenomenon.

Are they common ?

[u-vindicate-mi]

ya..i agreed women do take things for granted. they simply dont realised that sex to us is like makeup to them..we cant live without it..god didnt give us a cock and hole for nothing. if god really meant for us to have sex to procreate.. then he wouldnt just give women menses for 1 week..i mean menses is really for women to take a break if their men is super horny.

some almighty being up there should come down someday and clarify this thing.if our wife can be more accomadating and try to enjoy the fuck.. i tink less of us wuld need to visit sammyboy or prc.
we dont marry simply becoz of love wat.. and free sex too.. hahaha..sometimes being an animal is better..coz they get all the sex they wan..anywhere anytime..with everyone.

[Niceman]

Bro Xfactor
Is not a platoon, it is a Division by now.....
Try foreplay and not straight sex, try sexy massage and slowly, try finger her at 3am, ......i tried all these, it help most of the time...cos at 3am, wife is blur blur stage, and too blur to stop, so finger and strip her naked, has not been a problem, hehe.........

Some tips only lah, if others bro. got tips, pls tell also....

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by LOWCHUI

I am surprised this thread on SEXLESS MARRIAGE continues to find new contributors & brothers in the same boat.

I hope to hear brothers' comments on SEXLESS MARRIAGE in a different context.


Still loves wife, but how to tell wife he is no longer sexually attractive to him ?

Bro looks is one thing, what the point of having fuck the greatest body on earth but she just lies there like a dead wood...now monster don't claim to have done it all...but having fucked 60 yo grannies to 100kgs baby elephants...there was only one word that kept me cumming back..."SHIOK"...

Monster don't deny, my rsm got one hell of a body..even my friends called it "Mo Niu Seng Chai"....but wat the point...she cannot even give a bj even if her own life depends on it...so sometimes it goes beyond the physical appearances when it comes to sex...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Try foreplay and not straight sex,

She say here ticklish there ticklish...

Originally Posted by Niceman

try sexy massage and slowly, try finger her at 3am,

bite my head off for disturbing her sleep....