Falling in love...once again

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

[QUOTE=ct75

Hope you wake up your idea.... and even if you dont think for yourself, think for your parents.[/QUOTE]

bro,thks for ur reminder,will take heed of ur advice.

[ct75]

Don't thank me.... thank yourself when you have finally woken up and become a man not a carrot

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

in the end,all of them just left,leaving me dead drunk,vomitted in the rm and took a cab back.have a gd sleep,now awake.its heartbreaking to knw she can be so heartless after all that i did for her.

Wah, who so chek ark? I remembered the last time you got drunk I still got send you home (even though I sibei tulan).

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

its heartbreaking to knw she can be so heartless after all that i did for her.

She broke your heart (broken too many times lah, should be used to it by now) but not your cock.... and that's more important, my friend...

[t123]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

bro,thks for ur reminder,will take heed of ur advice.

bro, take me for example I nearly married one, on day of ROM she did not turn up, I was fxxx by the ROM officer.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by t123

bro, take me for example I nearly married one, on day of ROM she did not turn up, I was fxxx by the ROM officer.

Wow this actually happens in real life... I thought only movie. Sorry to hear this.

[t123]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Wow this actually happens in real life... I thought only movie. Sorry to hear this.

Btw, she's a PRC FL.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by t123

Btw, she's a PRC FL.

At least it is better than after marriage she gets the PR n leave u.

[bulldozer101]

Originally Posted by t123

bro, take me for example I nearly married one, on day of ROM she did not turn up, I was fxxx by the ROM officer.

sorry to hear about your plight, bro. indeed we must always bear in mind that a majority of PRC gals are here to earn as much as they can, afterwhich they will retire and start a small business back home. I know a few of such gals who were previously working in BS & MG.
Always bear in mind - never let your heart rule over your head.

[t123]

Originally Posted by naemlo

At least it is better than after marriage she gets the PR n leave u.

After ROM missed date, she confessed that she couldn't bring her heart to do so. I was a bit mystify then. Anyway, she's also kind enuff and I learnt my lesson.

[WatLoveAbt]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

Few mths back,went to this KTV joint and met her.Fell deeply in love with u,at that moment cos just broke up with my ex of 3 yrs so emotionally still very weak.Went almost once or twice a week and only got her to sit with me.Knwing this would lead to nowhere since she is here to earn money,my emotions gets the better of me & this leads to liking her more & more.In my case,its more of a case of love over lust.If its lust,i would had just pay for a FJ & get over with it but thats not the case.While i am writing this,she & I had gone our separate ways,i try to avoid that joint which she is in.Seldom contact liao and i also trying hard to forget her by going to another joint.Thats where my thread title comes in hand,i found another 1,very similar to how i felt few mths back.Knwing this is gonna be a repeat telecast of wats going to happen,this time round,i tell myself not to let myself go into this shit for the 2nd time,once bitten twice shy is wat i tell myself.But once again to my disappointment and the bros who were with me all these while,i failed again..perhaps i am not fit to be a cheongster.almost wanted to retire but failed..haiz..

Love and Lust have only a thin line between them...
But ask urself, do u really want a girl who sit with and get bonk by many man?
A girl who because of money give up her pride?
A girl who you never know when she is telling the true?
A girl who value $$$ very very high up in her mind?
We all are human, we have feeling...
sometime is hard to control...
Play along with her and it is hard to say,
there are singaporean who marry ktv girl and they are ve happy together even after many years...
May be they are lucky...
Jut be careful...
Any thing can happen but alway protect our feeling...
no ppl like to be hurt...
esp emotional...
Take care, brother...

[hunter89]

Originally Posted by t123

After ROM missed date, she confessed that she couldn't bring her heart to do so. I was a bit mystify then. Anyway, she's also kind enuff and I learnt my lesson.

Bro, I don't understand what you mean by:"couldn't bring her heart to do so" ????? And also :"she's also kind enuff"

Is it that she cannot bring herself to marry you??? or what?
Why are you saying that she is kind enough? Not to cheat you more money or what????

Hell man, you are sincere and yet she didn't come to the ROM?

But anyway, sorry to hear this type of thing happening on you.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by newbadass

Wah, who so chek ark? I remembered the last time you got drunk I still got send you home (even though I sibei tulan).

i still remember bro.and u knw wat,last nite i was also at that very same room.hahaha..

[ct75]

Haizzz dont say I dont have a soft heart.... and am only acid tongue To THREADSTARTER.....

Sometimes you are not looking for love. You are looking for someone to give that love to. And when that happens, you tend to machine gun the feelings all over the place..... meaning you will dump in your lot with any hole that comes along.

In simple terms, its also called a rebound.

Attached is something I read and kept and has proven to be correct. Hope it helps


Drama vs. Passion
According to Webster's Dictionary, drama is "a state, situation or series of events involving intense conflict or force." Passion, on the other hand, is defined as "a devotion to some activity, object or concept."

Do you live your life in drama or passion? Are you attracting partners who live in drama or passion?

A life filled with drama looks something like this:
________________________________________
• Everything gets a huge, emotional response.
• The emotional response is often followed by a big action.
• Peace is seldom experienced and often much wished for.
• Life is either really great or very terrible.
• Relationships, work and life in-general feel like a roller coaster.
• There is a general feeling of being drained.

A life filled with passion looks something like this:
________________________________________
• Emotions run deep and grow in intensity over time.
• Actions are thought out and lead toward the object of passion.
• Peace coexists with elation and excitement.
• Life is good, even when it's filled with ups and downs.
• Relationships, work and life feel balanced.
• There is a general feeling of being energized.

Can you see how living with passion is infinitely better than living with drama? Can you see how much more you can accomplish, experience and love when living with passion?

Sometimes these two states are difficult to distinguish. Both have intense emotions and activity associated with them. Many times people are attracted to potential partners because they are looking for passion, but they miss this distinction and end up with drama. If you are attracting people who are living with drama instead of passion, examine whether you are doing the same thing.

What can you do if you are living with drama right now?

Whenever you feel like reacting to a situation -- whether in your relationship or otherwise -- stop. Take a walk. Breathe. Talk to yourself. Ask yourself the following questions:
1. Is this as important as it seemed a few minutes ago?
2. Is my reaction appropriate for this situation?
3. What am I feeling?
4. What is my biggest concern here?
5. What do I really want out of this situation?
6. How do I need to act in order to get what I want?
7. Is what I want possible?
8. Why do I want this?
9. What are my needs that I need to care for right now?
10. What is the truth that I need to communicate?

It is fairly easy to break the cycle of drama. It takes a deep decision to live your life differently and the willingness to be peaceful no matter what.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by t123

bro, take me for example I nearly married one, on day of ROM she did not turn up, I was fxxx by the ROM officer.

she also a prc or?sori to remind u of ur sad past bro...

[WatLoveAbt]

Originally Posted by ct75

Haizzz dont say I dont have a soft heart.... and am only acid tongue To THREADSTARTER.....

Sometimes you are not looking for love. You are looking for someone to give that love to. And when that happens, you tend to machine gun the feelings all over the place..... meaning you will dump in your lot with any hole that comes along.

In simple terms, its also called a rebound.

Attached is something I read and kept and has proven to be correct. Hope it helps


Drama vs. Passion
According to Webster's Dictionary, drama is "a state, situation or series of events involving intense conflict or force." Passion, on the other hand, is defined as "a devotion to some activity, object or concept."

Do you live your life in drama or passion? Are you attracting partners who live in drama or passion?

A life filled with drama looks something like this:
________________________________________
• Everything gets a huge, emotional response.
• The emotional response is often followed by a big action.
• Peace is seldom experienced and often much wished for.
• Life is either really great or very terrible.
• Relationships, work and life in-general feel like a roller coaster.
• There is a general feeling of being drained.

A life filled with passion looks something like this:
________________________________________
• Emotions run deep and grow in intensity over time.
• Actions are thought out and lead toward the object of passion.
• Peace coexists with elation and excitement.
• Life is good, even when it's filled with ups and downs.
• Relationships, work and life feel balanced.
• There is a general feeling of being energized.

Can you see how living with passion is infinitely better than living with drama? Can you see how much more you can accomplish, experience and love when living with passion?

Sometimes these two states are difficult to distinguish. Both have intense emotions and activity associated with them. Many times people are attracted to potential partners because they are looking for passion, but they miss this distinction and end up with drama. If you are attracting people who are living with drama instead of passion, examine whether you are doing the same thing.

What can you do if you are living with drama right now?

Whenever you feel like reacting to a situation -- whether in your relationship or otherwise -- stop. Take a walk. Breathe. Talk to yourself. Ask yourself the following questions:
1. Is this as important as it seemed a few minutes ago?
2. Is my reaction appropriate for this situation?
3. What am I feeling?
4. What is my biggest concern here?
5. What do I really want out of this situation?
6. How do I need to act in order to get what I want?
7. Is what I want possible?
8. Why do I want this?
9. What are my needs that I need to care for right now?
10. What is the truth that I need to communicate?

It is fairly easy to break the cycle of drama. It takes a deep decision to live your life differently and the willingness to be peaceful no matter what.

Ve good advise, u break thing into maro level...