MIA FARANG (Foreigner's Wife)

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

I don't know about the cute part but actually Siamcutey is right lah,...

It's very reckless to ever assist any thai girls who are not your friends by being their sponsor, etc. And if they are your friends but coming here to work as WL, it's also not worth to take the risk, as you'll be blacklisted, black coffee and black bean rice.

On the same note, if any bro did in fact assist or want to assist any girl to come in to work as WL, don't forget take down h/p no and pass to us bros hor, kekekekekekeke

You know what? I fully agree with you. To walk thru customs together (I mean like approch the immigration counter together, one behind the other and talking to each other like friends in front of the officer) is entirely different from telling the immigration specifically that the 2 of you are in a BGR relationship and you are the sponsor for the gal during her visit. Difference is heaven and earth. I will only do that if the gal is really my tirak and she is here with my knowledge and also to do what we had planned, like in Rain's case when she visits. She also has a letter from me, stating why she is here and that her address of stay will be my home (in case we got separated for any reasons) and my personal particulars and contact number are in there.

And it is up to the immigration officer to ask more if they are suspicious, and so far none has done that, as we were behaving normally. Anyway my answer will be simple even if they asked. We were sitting together in plane and got to know each other then.

Please let nobody ever even think that I am promoting this technique of getting to know a TG. As I said, there are better ways to get to know gals, instead of putting one's head on the chopping block. Certainly not for a gal one hardly knows, and had met barely 3 hrs ago.

Below is my recommended method of getting to know a TG (if you are interested in a long term r/s and she's got to be a Thai for whatever reasons u may have). I am sure there are other methods, but this is the one that worked for me:

• To talk to a matured & happily married Thai woman
• Preferably her own hubby is a foreigner or even better a SGrean, or she at least knows of several successful cases of Thai/foriegn BGR.
• If possible, both of you should know each other reasonably well in order for her to know what u are looking for and also how you will treat the TG
• Ask her to recommend someone whom she knows personally who may be reasonably compatible with you (at least to the best of her knowledge).
• Then meet up with that gal and see if things take off from there.

Of course no guarantees cos it still depends on how the 2 of you respond to each other. Same like SDU style, isn;t it?

This was what happened to me, except that my woman friend (who knew I had broken up with my ex) was the one who asked me if I was keen to meet someone whom she knows will appreciate me and is matured enough to respond to me the way I need her to. Well, since I had already decided that I would like a Thai wife and live in meung Thai in the long run, if possible, I agreed to meet up with that TG since I already knew her as a likeable friend sometime ago, but had not seen or talked to her for > 1 year cos I had my ex then. We met up at my pub (yet we both dun like pubs ) and found that we still liked each other and decided to start dating each other to see if anything further can develop. And the rest, as they say, is history.

P.S. if you really want some BKK hp numbers, I got a couple (deleted almost all liao). But I dun know if they are still in use, cos long time no call liao. The one I still talked to occasionally to chat when I go BKK is not a WL/FL back home. But I will need to check with them if I can pass their hp no to anyone (out of courtesy), and also I need to know if the guy can be trusted.

[delifrance]

Hi

just keep the dick inside the zip and learn about thailand until you are matured enough to move around and interact with the thai people, then move to the next level of depth with the thai people.

the problem is just about keeping the dick inside the zip until you are very sharp and sure, the odds of your success increases.

play in turtle pond, drink turtle soup, you dont drink anything else. fly with the eagles, you'll see the different animals flying and crawling below you. LOL.

[keet]

bro Deli,

wah like tat alot ppl sure die liao lor when then can go next level or how long will it take to reach the next level and how do we know leh? not many ppl get the chance to really interact and live like a "kon Thai tae tae".(100% Thai)
i guess sometimes things just need to be learnt - the hard way.
vultures eat their own too chai mai?

chok dee puern.

[free]

Originally Posted by delifrance

Hi

just keep the dick inside the zip and learn about thailand until you are matured enough to move around and interact with the thai people, then move to the next level of depth with the thai people.

the problem is just about keeping the dick inside the zip until you are very sharp and sure, the odds of your success increases.

play in turtle pond, drink turtle soup, you dont drink anything else. fly with the eagles, you'll see the different animals flying and crawling below you. LOL.

Profound but so true. Something tells me you've been there, done that and are wiser for it . Thanks for introducing me to the concept of turtles vs eagles during the last time we met - u gave proper names to a principle I have found to be so true in life, where ever I go. And I am continuing to learn, from ppl like you and 88max, etc from Sawadee. Met him at KFC near our homes (we live so near each other in in Samut Prakan, LOS ) and guess what? The world is so small. I was telling him about another SG friend who has struck it out on his own and started a small engineering workshop (also in Samut Prakan) for 3 years now. And lo & behold, we saw this same guy sitting just behind us eating his dinner as we got up to leave. We ended up visiting his workshop and having a good "3-threesome" discussin about doing biz in Meung Thai. It's amazing how 3 SGreans got to meet so far from this tiny dot of a country, w/o prior arrangements, as I too contacted 88Max on the day of meeting itself.

Haha, there is life after all in the cities outside BKK too.

[free]

Edited / Deleted. Khor Tort maak khrap

[keet]

Originally Posted by free

Edited / Deleted

aiyoh.. what happened bro? just wanted to reply u.

[free]

Originally Posted by keet

aiyoh.. what happened bro? just wanted to reply u.

Nothing bro keet. The post below the one above is the same. Accidentally posted twice.

[delifrance]

Hi Free

glad that u finally met up with Bro 88max. very happy that things are moving along for u.

well, I did pay some school fees but the actual bulk of learning came free after I got up and looked from the 'other of the mirror' and saw all the stuff first hand.

LOL.

[tirak69]

Originally Posted by delifrance

Hi Free

glad that u finally met up with Bro 88max. very happy that things are moving along for u.

well, I did pay some school fees but the actual bulk of learning came free after I got up and looked from the 'other of the mirror' and saw all the stuff first hand.

LOL.

bro, when is kopi session?

[free]

Originally Posted by free

Below is my recommended method of getting to know a TG (if you are interested in a long term r/s and she's got to be a Thai for whatever reasons u may have). I am sure there are other methods, but this is the one that worked for me:

• To talk to a matured & happily married Thai woman
• Preferably her own hubby is a foreigner or even better a SGrean, or she at least knows of several successful cases of Thai/foriegn BGR.
• If possible, both of you should know each other reasonably well in order for her to know what u are looking for and also how you will treat the TG
• Ask her to recommend someone whom she knows personally who may be reasonably compatible with you (at least to the best of her knowledge).
• Then meet up with that gal and see if things take off from there.

Of course no guarantees cos it still depends on how the 2 of you respond to each other. Same like SDU style, isn;t it?

This was what happened to me, except that my woman friend (who knew I had broken up with my ex) was the one who asked me if I was keen to meet someone whom she knows will appreciate me and is matured enough to respond to me the way I need her to. Well, since I had already decided that I would like a Thai wife and live in meung Thai in the long run, if possible, I agreed to meet up with that TG since I already knew her as a likeable friend sometime ago, but had not seen or talked to her for > 1 year cos I had my ex then. We met up at my pub (yet we both dun like pubs ) and found that we still liked each other and decided to start dating each other to see if anything further can develop. And the rest, as they say, is history.

I had at one point of my life didn't believe that 2 persons who were match-made can be happy together, let alone love each deeply in their r/s. I had tot all those old folks I saw in their aged years that go around still holding hands cannot be among those who were "match-made". They must have met on their own and fell in love deeply before they even considered marriage.

But after what is happening to me now in my own LDTR, I am beginning to see how it can really happened. We may not be exactly "match-made" by our parents and had gotten married without our individual consent.

Still, we were brought together by a mutual good friend, and Rain & I had committed ourselves to build a relationship first (long distance at that), when we only liked each other a lot and had felt only a little love for each other. We agreed to work together to grow our love for each other daily, and give ourselves maximum 1 year to see how things goes. As the months passed, we saw how our initial commitment to try one's best to meet the other's needs eventually developed into a strong, silent and steadfast love for each other - something we both have never experienced before, and we had in the process, built in a mechanism where we always considered each other's needs in literally all that we do. Now, 6 months on, we are working seriously towards marriage & building our family together. I think it is amazing!

On hindsight, I can't think of a better way to grow a r/s. Whether with a Thai woman or a woman of any other nationality.

[cyrus]

Yo Bros,

Phom ma khon tep 13 ~ 22 Aug. Will go Chiangrai for few days before returning to khon tep. Terlosap 051136502 na. Mr Romance should also be around on 18th Aug, I guess ....

[asjer]

Sorry bro but how come you went thru so much hassle? For my case, we just had our cert translated, submit and approved. All done within 8 days cos we ain't in any hurry. Has so much changed in 7 years?

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

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Back in SG, I brought her to see my parents, family members all already there liow, waiting, kekeke. Although one chicken and one duck, mum gave her thumbs up (whew!) She stayed with my family for about a month, while I prepared the documents required, like CID letter to confirm I no criminal, letter of employment, etc, etc, as required by their country (info from Thai embassy).

So when ready, we go back to bkk, get docu endorsed by SG embassy, and their foreign ministry thru a "Alien Marraige" agency. Marraige certificate out in 2 days (have to pay express service).

OF course now legally husband and wife liow so, kekeke, can sleep together liow. kekeke.

It's been about 7 yrs already, and i now have another son, 4 yrs old.

To me, I think love can be developed if you like the person enough. I know of people who fall in love, married, but they just cannot stand each others habit, etc. They don't like the "person" and soon their world falls apart.

Dunno, it's my 2 cents worth.

[Mr.romance]

Originally Posted by keet

bro Deli,

wah like tat alot ppl sure die liao lor when then can go next level or how long will it take to reach the next level and how do we know leh? not many ppl get the chance to really interact and live like a "kon Thai tae tae".(100% Thai)
i guess sometimes things just need to be learnt - the hard way.
vultures eat their own too chai mai?

chok dee puern.

Hey bro...How are you?
Not forgeting I still owe u a drink...Very paiseh must return u one day.
tat day wan to bring a super turtle let u see but saw bro farak only. Anyway,
the super turtle fly my areoplane tat day also.
Only bro deli manage to see the "super turtle"

Cheers

[cyrus]

Right man .. cool it ... birds of a feather flock together .... tio boh .. that's the only thing I know ... aiyah .. we all have one common objective ... well one way or the other ... life is too short ... have fun and cheong ah.....

[keet]

Aiyoh just stick to the topic ok!
last we need is another flame war and thread gets axe and ppl kena kicked out hor...