Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

bro. there is. SQ business class cost more than 1k

wow,never know cos the most i can afford is economical class and must be with budget airline

1k business class,1 hour 30 minute only equal to $100 per minute

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by mao86

I am 25.. old already.. Da Nang i heard its quite a nice place rite.. the lighting at nite beautiful... so btw u also have Vietnamese wife ? I tinking very hard whether to get married a nt next year with my vietnamese gf... so dau tim qua.

25 years old,wow,make be very old liao

why think so hard,after marry u will think harder

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

25 years old,wow,make be very old liao

why think so hard,after marry u will think harder

25 is really young...still can play a few years to gain experience and learn viet culture...

if for me better to be single...more choice and options...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

25 is really young...still can play a few years to gain experience and learn viet culture...

if for me better to be single...more choice and options...

Here is a very good place to learn viet culture,true life experience from senior bro here.Good place to learn before u commando yourself into vietnam territory

[Golden question]

just have a chat with my wife about her friend who divorce his sg husband for 5 years recently and now a PR.she just got a new sg boyfriend.

my wife ask me if i am her boyfriend,will i give her every month few hundred to help her cos she is alone and rent a house

i say-it depends

my wife say- but u love her what

i say-yes i love her but u must also understand sg man also have to work hard for money what,so i ask u,vietnam man got give every month or not?

my wife say-have

i say-yes they have but after few years,they find a new girl outside then divorce so like that still love

well viet girl have the thinking of if u love a girl u have to show by giving money,but i told my wife that sg man is different cos we will be responsible as a husband after marriage

well,i think that viet girl still have the thinking of foreign husband/boyfriend must contribute money towards them or their family but in vietnam,is the opposite and acceptable for man to be lazy and not contribute

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by lovesprout

I thought only old man like me wants to have a viet wife. I don't have a viet wife because parents did not allow.

these days, young guys (like me) goes for viet girls rather then local...
my bro married a viet wife in his 20s although he has many choices

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Golden question

well viet girl have the thinking of if u love a girl u have to show by giving money

most of them think this way but not all. At least my girlfriend don't.

she always tell me "don't think that you give money to me every month, you can go out and play till no tomorrow. This is not the way to show your love"

whereas, most viet girls i met in JC will tell me "if you love me, you got to give me money and feed me"

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

most of them think this way but not all. At least my girlfriend don't.

she always tell me "don't think that you give money to me every month, you can go out and play till no tomorrow. This is not the way to show your love"

whereas, most viet girls i met in JC will tell me "if you love me, you got to give me money and feed me"

yah,my wife always say "don't think that you give market money to me every month,you can expect me to obey u.One day if we no love,i will not want a single cents from u"

it happen when we quarrel,but i know that she mean it cos she is those stubborn kind

[batty]

Originally Posted by Golden question

yah,my wife always say "don't think that you give market money to me every month,you can expect me to obey u.One day if we no love,i will not want a single cents from u"

it happen when we quarrel,but i know that she mean it cos she is those stubborn kind

Hi bro Golden question. When your wife suggests to you that if you are a Vietnamese girl's boyfriend; may be she is testing you? Your answer could be,

"I can never be another Vietnamese girl's boyfriend because I love only you".

Sounds soppy, right?


What your wife says above is also interesting. After marriage, she does not sound demure and obedient. She also said she does not want a single cent/Vietnamese Dong from you if after you both are not in love. My understanding is some women will go after their exhusbands' assets even beyond the guys' death. She can try to claim through Singapore's Inheritance laws.

A few more thoughts:

How long do Vietnamese women take to learn Mandarin, English or Singlish?


I notice in Western societies, a few wives murder their husbands for money, although romantic love is held in high esteem there. Poisoning is one of the methods of killing. How unlikely/likely will a few very evil Vietnamese wives murder their Singaporean husbands for money? The answer can be the Singaporean husbands are worth more alive than dead. I reckon this is more likely to happen in Vietnam than in Singapore. Usually by poison and hired assassins? I have never, never heard of Vietnamese women killing Singaporeans which is just as well. But I am very sure PRC people have killed Singaporeans.

What about crimes of passion? Will a few Vietnamese women freak out and kill? I think it is very unlikely because they are not overly expressive in nature. There is probably no answer. Very sorry to offend any bro.

[volcano]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Few days also must register cos my wife told me those kapo neighbour will go tell police and they will come and check cos is illegal in vietnam for foreigner to stay in vietnamese house ,dont play play

nowadays,the police no longer allow foreigners to register their name under the gal's household account.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by mao86

Anywae i lyk Can Tho the best, every time i go back i will ride my honda(airblade) to Can Tho which will take about 5hrs.. shiokk...sometimes i will pass my the My Thuan bridge.. go 1 loop.. alot of nice things... I really miss vietnam.. its been 1 month odd since i came back.. my last trip i went for a month. The life style there is relax.. not lyk spore but then security nt good.

U really good. Can go vietnam for 1 month. If go for 1mth, I think u can travel finish the whole of Mien Tay already

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by mao86

Been to ( Dialat, Nha Trang, Saigon, Long An, An Giang, My Tho, Benh Tre, Vinh Long, Long Xuyen, Thot Not, Can Tho, Soc Trang, Bac Lieu, Ca Mau) but i went almost 20 odd times .. each time will stay few daes in the area.

Since u already went these places, can intro the attraction of each place you been to above? thanks

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by batty

What about crimes of passion? Will a few Vietnamese women freak out and kill?

the most the vn girls will cat cu (cut away the penis)
this is very well documented on the vn culture.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by lovesprout

Can Tho is OK, but it is not on the top 3 cities I have been to. You should check out cities like Da Nang and Hoi An. You will love them..

I have yet travel to the central part of VN other than Nha Trang... Hope to travel to Danang, Hoi An and Hue in near future... when the time is near, may need to get some advice from u.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by batty

I notice in Western societies, a few wives murder their husbands for money, although romantic love is held in high esteem there. Poisoning is one of the methods of killing. How unlikely/likely will a few very evil Vietnamese wives murder their Singaporean husbands for money? The answer can be the Singaporean husbands are worth more alive than dead. I reckon this is more likely to happen in Vietnam than in Singapore. Usually by poison and hired assassins? I have never, never heard of Vietnamese women killing Singaporeans which is just as well. But I am very sure PRC people have killed Singaporeans.

What about crimes of passion? Will a few Vietnamese women freak out and kill? I think it is very unlikely because they are not overly expressive in nature. There is probably no answer. Very sorry to offend any bro.

Vietnamese wives murdering Singaporean husbands for money or assets? This is very unlikely, not because they are that good, but because we do not have enough assets and cash for them to murder us